Am I Being PLAYED? Best for females

  • Question of

    When they introduce you to their friends or family, do you ever feel like they are treating you as a TROPHY?

    • Yes, they like to show me off as their significant other (I could be anyone), and I feel quite used
    • No, they show me off because they think I’m amazing and they love me
  • Question of

    The fact that you took this quiz indicates a certain amount of worry about your relationship. Honestly, do you think that your boyfriend/girlfriend is insincere, a player, or is unfaithful in some way?

    • No, they actually are sincere, and I am so lucky they love and respect me the way they do
    • Yes, I suspect they are not the perfect boyfriend/girlfriend I thought they were
  • Question of

    Have they initiated everything (first kiss, first ‘I love you,’ first sexual experience)?

    • No, not everything – it’s either half-and-half, or I am the initiator
    • Yes, most everything, sometimes before I’m quite ready
  • Question of

    Have they ever made you choose between them and a good friend, whether directly or indirectly?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Have you ever caught them or heard about them looking at, flirting with, or doing even more with someone else?

    • Yes – more than once, or once in a serious way
    • No, never; or once, but it wasn’t serious, and they sincerely apologized
  • Question of

    Do they seem truly concerned when you are upset?

    • No – they either don’t care, or say they do, but are insincere
    • Yes – they truly care, and I can rely on them to make me feel better
  • Question of

    Do they guilt-trip you into anything, like make you feel bad for them, and cry and rant so they can walk all over you? If they are having a rough time, of course, as their partner, you should listen to and support them. But if it is excessive, they are using you as a crutch, or they use their difficulties to make you do things, then it’s very unhealthy.

    • No – they would never do that. They might have a hard life, but it doesn’t get in the way of our relationship
    • Yes. Sometimes I feel so guilty or bad for them that I can’t stand up for myself at all
  • Question of

    Have they ever physically or emotionally abused you?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Have they ever pressured you for sex?

    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Think about this really hard. When they are looking at you and smiling at you, are they smiling with their whole face, including their eyes, or just with their mouth?

    • Just with their mouth
    • Their entire face lights up when they see me. Their smile is the essence of love
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    Have you ever felt neglected by them?

    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Have they ever, randomly and out of the blue, bought expensive jewelry or other gifts for you that could be interpreted as being APOLOGY or GUILT gifts?

    • Yes – how odd!
    • No, I don’t think so
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    Have they ever threatened to break up with you if you didn’t do what they wanted?

    • Yes, on more than one occasion. They’re manipulative
    • No, never. Or, we have almost broken up, but because of legitimate problems we have since resolved
  • Question of

    Have they ever tried to rationalize unfaithful behavior?

    • Yes – they often say things like, ‘But I’m just looking!’ or ‘But I’ll never do it again,’ or, ‘You can’t expect me to get over my ex so quickly’
    • No, never. We have set boundaries, and we both follow them
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    Do they talk too much about their past relationships, which makes you feel as if you are either insignificant, or are expected to fix them?

    • No, they are in the present, and are focused wholly on me
    • Yes, it’s almost as if the present is overshadowed by the past

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