Am I Over Him?


“He loved her for almost everything she was & she decided that was enough to let him stay for a very long time.”
Brian Andreas

“Through my love for you, I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity, and all beings. By living with you, I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth… This is the real message of love.”
Thich Nhat Hanh,

“Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart.”
Christina Westover

“I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“That’s why I loved being with you. We could do the simplest things, like toss starfish into the ocean and share a burger and talk and even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn’t constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me. And nothing else mattered– not my family or your family or anyone else in the world. It was just us.”
Nicholas Sparks,

“You like every one; that is to say, you are indifferent to every one.”
Oscar Wilde,

“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere.”
Tim McGraw

“Rejection is an opportunity for your selection.”
Bernard Branson

“He wasn’t the type for displays of affection, either verbal or not. He was disgusted by couples that made out in the hallways between classes, and got annoyed at even the slightest sappy moments in movies. But I knew he cared about me: he just conveyed it more subtly, as concise with expressing this emotion as he was with everything else. It was in the way he’d put his hand on the small of my back, for instance, or how he’d smile at me when I said something that surprised him. Once I might have wanted more, but I’d come around to his way of thinking in the time we’d been together. And we were together, all the time. So he didn’t have to prove how he felt about me. Like so much else, I should just know.”
Sarah Dessen,

“Annabeth,” he said hesitantly, “in New Rome, demigods can live their whole lives in peace.”
Rick Riordan,

“You fit into me
Margaret Atwood

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
Mandy Hale,

“I won’t telephone him. I’ll never telephone him again as long as I live. He’ll rot in hell, before I’ll call him up. You don’t have to give me strength, God; I have it myself. If he wanted me, he could get me. He knows where I am. He knows I’m waiting here. He’s so sure of me, so sure. I wonder why they hate you, as soon as they are sure of you.”
Dorothy Parker,

“When God knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.”
Joshua Harris,

“We ruined each other by being together. We destroyed each other’s dreams.”
Kate Chisman,

“You Can’t Lose Something You Never Had”
Kate G. Hudson

“Don’t worry about hurting me, if that’s what you’re afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.”
Katie Kacvinsky,

“Perfectly Imperfect
Steve Maraboli,

“If you’re trapped in the dream of the Other, you’re fucked.”
Gilles Deleuze

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you still think about him a lot?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • No, never
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    You know he doesn’t like you, but do you still spend time fantasizing about the day when he’ll ask you out?

    • All the time! He’ll like me someday!
    • I know he doesn’t like me, but I can’t help thinking about him sometimes….
    • No, I don’t drive myself crazy thinking about things I know won’t happen to me
  • Question of

    Do you see him a lot?

    • Yes! I try to see him every chance I get
    • Every so often – my group and his group are friends, so we hang out together sometimes
    • Only when I have to (like at school)
  • Question of

    Do you have pictures of him hanging in your room/locker?

    • I finally managed to take down the last picture yesterday
    • No way! The pictures have been down for a LONG time!
    • Yes, like 10 of them
  • Question of

    Do you still get nervous/excited when you talk to him?

    • Yes! My stomach gets all fluttery!
    • I don’t talk to him
    • No, not anymore
  • Question of

    How do you feel about him?

    • He’s nice as a friend
    • I hate him
    • He is the greatest guy who ever set foot on this planet!
  • Question of

    Would you change anything about yourself to get him to like you?

    • No way! I don’t even care if he likes me anymore!
    • No, I’m not that stupid. I wouldn’t change myself just to get a guy to like me
    • Yes. If I found out he likes girls with red hair, I would dye my hair red
  • Question of

    Do you still dream about him?

    • Never
    • Every night!
    • Occasionally, but not romantic dreams
  • Question of

    Do you talk about him with your friends?

    • All the time!
    • Sometimes, but not because I like him
    • Never. I banished him from our conversations
  • Question of

    Do YOU think you’re over him?

    • Not really. But I think I SHOULD get over him
    • I’m not sure. Sometimes I think I am, sometimes I don’t
    • Yes!
  • Question of

    How long have you known the person?

    • My whole life, it seems.
    • A few weeks
    • A few years
    • A few months
  • Question of

    How often do you think about them?

    • All the time
    • I spend quite a bit of time with them on my mind.
    • I don’t keep track.
    • When I see them
  • Question of

    What is your favorite thing about them?

    • Everything
    • Their body
    • Their sense of humor
    • I don’t know.
  • Question of

    Which of these traits is something you dislike about them?

    • Nothing
    • Their impulsivity
    • Their temper
    • They can be annoying sometimes.
  • Question of

    Which of these words best describes them?

    • Sweet
    • Hot
    • Cute
    • Confident
  • Question of

    What did you do the first time you saw them?

    • I almost died.
    • I was in shock.
    • I stared for a few seconds.
    • I smiled at them.
  • Question of

    What would you do if you heard that they liked you?

    • I would throw a party.
    • I would kiss them.
    • I would ask them out.
    • I don’t know what I would do.
  • Question of

    How does the person make you feel about yourself?

    • Confident
    • Excited
    • Happy
    • Indifferent
  • Question of

    Why aren’t you dating that person?

    • I don’t know.
    • I’m busy.
    • Who said we aren’t dating?
    • I’m into someone else.
  • Question of

    How often do you talk about that person?

    • Too often, I’ve been told.
    • Quite a bit
    • Not that much
    • Not at all

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