Am I ready for my first boyfriend?


“He loved her for almost everything she was & she decided that was enough to let him stay for a very long time.”
Brian Andreas

“Through my love for you, I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity, and all beings. By living with you, I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth… This is the real message of love.”
Thich Nhat Hanh,

“Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart.”
Christina Westover

“I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“That’s why I loved being with you. We could do the simplest things, like toss starfish into the ocean and share a burger and talk and even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn’t constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me. And nothing else mattered– not my family or your family or anyone else in the world. It was just us.”
Nicholas Sparks,

“You like every one; that is to say, you are indifferent to every one.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Rejection is an opportunity for your selection.”
Bernard Branson

“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere.”
Tim McGraw

“He wasn’t the type for displays of affection, either verbal or not. He was disgusted by couples that made out in the hallways between classes, and got annoyed at even the slightest sappy moments in movies. But I knew he cared about me: he just conveyed it more subtly, as concise with expressing this emotion as he was with everything else. It was in the way he’d put his hand on the small of my back, for instance, or how he’d smile at me when I said something that surprised him. Once I might have wanted more, but I’d come around to his way of thinking in the time we’d been together. And we were together, all the time. So he didn’t have to prove how he felt about me. Like so much else, I should just know.”
Sarah Dessen,

“Annabeth,” he said hesitantly, “in New Rome, demigods can live their whole lives in peace.”
Rick Riordan,

“You fit into me
Margaret Atwood

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
Mandy Hale,

“I won’t telephone him. I’ll never telephone him again as long as I live. He’ll rot in hell, before I’ll call him up. You don’t have to give me strength, God; I have it myself. If he wanted me, he could get me. He knows where I am. He knows I’m waiting here. He’s so sure of me, so sure. I wonder why they hate you, as soon as they are sure of you.”
Dorothy Parker,

“When God knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.”
Joshua Harris,

“We ruined each other by being together. We destroyed each other’s dreams.”
Kate Chisman,

“You Can’t Lose Something You Never Had”
Kate G. Hudson

“Don’t worry about hurting me, if that’s what you’re afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.”
Katie Kacvinsky,

“Perfectly Imperfect
Steve Maraboli,

“If you’re trapped in the dream of the Other, you’re fucked.”
Gilles Deleuze

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How old are you?

    • 12-14
    • 9-11
    • 15-17
    • 17+
  • Question of

    Is he your age?

    • He is only a year older
    • Not at all
    • Yes
    • There is a 2-3 year age gap
  • Question of

    Do you like this guy?

    • No
    • I think…
    • Yes!
  • Question of

    Does he like you?

    • Nope
    • Yes! It is mutual
    • I don’t know…
    • I think…
  • Question of

    Do you see yourself lasting longer than a month with this guy?

    • Maybe, I don’t really know
    • Not at all
    • Totally! We were made for each other.
    • Not really…
  • Question of

    Can you see him being your first kis?

    • Nope
    • Yes! I have thought about it before.
    • Maybe…
    • I honestly don’t know…
  • Question of

    Is he nice?

    • A little
    • Yup! He is always really nice to me and everyone else
    • No. He bullies other people
    • Kinda
  • Question of

    Is he good to you?

    • Kinda
    • Not at all
    • Yup! He treats me like a real person
    • A little
  • Question of

    How long have you two known each other?

    • A few weeks
    • A couple of years
    • A few months
    • A few days
  • Question of

    Do you think you are ready for a boyfriend?

    • Kind of?
    • Maybe…I don’t really know
    • Yes! I am and have been ready!
    • No
  • Question of

    How comfortable are you being yourself?

    • 80-100%
    • 60-80%
    • 40-60%
    • Less than 40%
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10, how confident are you?

    • Less than 4
    • 4-6
    • 6-8
    • 8-10
  • Question of

    How often do you let people walk over you?

    • Never.
    • Rarely.
    • Sometimes.
    • Pretty often.
  • Question of

    How high are your standards?

    • What standards?
    • Reasonable.
    • Pretty high.
    • To the sky.
  • Question of

    What do you value most in a partner?

    • Loyalty.
    • Honesty.
    • Money.
    • Their looks.
  • Question of

    What would you do if a friend asked you to do something that you really didn’t want to do?

    • Apologize right away and not do it.
    • Think hard and don’t do it.
    • Give it some thought and still do it.
    • I’d do it anyway.
  • Question of

    How long do you wait until you’re intimate with someone you just started dating?

    • A few days.
    • About a week.
    • About a month.
    • A few months.
  • Question of

    How often do you put yourself out there?

    • Rarely.
    • All the time.
    • Never.
    • Sometimes.
  • Question of

    What would you do it you just started dating and it’s really exciting and suddenly your partner wants to move with you?

    • Of course yes, we are already dating so it means we know each other very well.
    • I would ask him/her to wait for a few months, so we could get to know more about each others lifestyles.
    • No, I don’t think so, I am a free person, moving with someone makes you feel bounded to rules.
    • I would rather move with my friends than my partner.
  • Question of

    What if there is your favorite baseball game tonight that you were too excited for but your best friend calls about some sudden urgency with her/his partner, well they could call anyone but only called you. What will you do now?

    • I won’t cancel my night plan, best friend should call some other friend.
    • Com’on not today! But what can be done, I will have to go to my friend.
    • I will definitely go to my best friend, not even a single thought of the game would stop me.
    • I am not sure, I guess I will ask them if it’s a big urgency or not.

Are you ready for a relationship?

Do you REALLY want to be in a relationship?