Am I ready for my first kiss with my boyfriend?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How long have you been going out with your boyfriend?

    • A few days
    • 2-3 weeks
    • At least a month
  • Question of

    What’s your personality like?

    • Confident and cocky
    • Sporty and musical
    • Shy, sweet, caring
  • Question of

    Do you love him?

    • I think so
    • I really do
    • Well, Uhm …
  • Question of

    Do you have visions of you and him kissing alone?

    • Nope
    • Yes and their lovely:-)
    • I did once but it freaked me out
  • Question of

    Have you ever met any of his family members?

    • Yes I’ve met them
    • No but I want to
    • Yes I met his family and we had dinner
  • Question of

    Are you both serious about the relationship?

    • Yes we are both in love
    • It’s just a bit of fun but it’s getting more serious
    • Nope I don’t even think we like each other
  • Question of

    Have you ever talked to him about kissing?

    • Yes it’s his first time too
    • Yes and he understood everything!
    • No he’d laugh at me
  • Question of

    Where would you like your first kiss to be?

    • In a place where we are alone at a romantic moment
    • Anywhere just get it over with
    • School?
  • Question of

    Do you think you are ready?

    • Maybe!
    • No!
    • Yes!
  • Question of

    Choose one:

    • Lipstick
    • Lip gloss
    • Chap stick
  • Question of

    When you think about your future first kiss, do you feel more happy or nervous about it?

    • Both
    • Happy
    • Nervous
    • Absolutely terrified
  • Question of

    Which of the following special locations would you like your first kiss to take place in?

    • On top of a mountain
    • Disneyland
    • On a beach
    • In Las Vegas
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being the highest), how often do you think about your future first kiss?

    • 9
    • 8
    • 6
    • 3
  • Question of

    Do you think that your first kiss will be a disaster or will it be magical like fireworks in the sky?

    • It will be magical like fireworks.
    • I guess we’ll find out soon.
    • I think it will just be OK.
    • It’s going to be a total disaster.
  • Question of

    Who is going to make the first move when it comes to the big first kiss: you or your crush?

    • Me
    • Hopefully them
    • It depends on the moment.
    • I don’t think I’m ready to think about this.
  • Question of

    Do you already know who you want to kiss or are you still waiting for that special someone in your life?

    • I already know who I want to kiss.
    • I know who I want to kiss, but I don’t think they want to kiss me.
    • I have mixed feelings about this whole kissing thing.
    • I have no idea who I want to kiss yet.
  • Question of

    Will the future first kiss involve French kissing or just a small peck on the lips?

    • French kissing
    • Maybe not French kissing, but it will be a good first kiss!
    • Probably just a small peck on the lips
    • I have no idea.
  • Question of

    How would you describe the type of attraction that you feel with your crush?

    • Emotional attraction
    • Romantic attraction
    • Physical attraction
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    There are several great kissing scenes in movies, but which one would you like your first kiss to resemble?

    • The rainy kissing scene in ‘The Notebook’
    • The upside-down kissing scene in ‘Spider-Man’
    • The romantic kissing scene in ‘Titanic’
    • The first kissing scene in ‘Twilight’
  • Question of

    Are you confident in your kissing skills, or do you think you’re going to need some practice first?

    • I feel confident in my kissing skills.
    • I feel somewhat confident in my kissing skills.
    • I have a tiny bit of confidence in my kissing skills.
    • I’m going to need quite a bit of practice first before I become a great kisser.
  • Question of

    If you were kissing someone with bad breath, would you stop them or keep going with the kiss?

    • I would probably keep going.
    • It depends on how bad their breath is.
    • I would probably stop them.
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    Speed is important when it comes to the first kiss. Will your first kiss be more slow or fast?

    • It depends on the moment.
    • Slow
    • Somewhere in the middle
    • Fast
  • Question of

    If your first kiss ends up being a disaster, will you laugh it off or will you be upset by it?

    • I’ll probably laugh it off.
    • Maybe a bit of both
    • I would feel upset with the whole situation.
    • I would feel very upset with myself.
  • Question of

    Have you done any research so far when it comes to kissing, or will you let your instincts take the lead?

    • I’ve done quite a bit of research.
    • I’ve done a little bit of research.
    • I’ll let my instincts take the lead.
    • Do romantic movies count as research?
  • Question of

    If you could control the weather during your first kiss, would you make the sky more rainy or sunny?

    • Sunny
    • Rainy
    • Snowy
    • Cloudy
  • Question of

    Would you rather kiss someone who is more experienced or someone who is a beginner?

    • It doesn’t matter to me.
    • I’ll go for someone who is more experienced with kissing.
    • Hopefully they’re somewhere in the middle of these two.
    • I’d rather kiss someone who is a beginner.
  • Question of

    Are you going to tell your crush that you want to kiss them or will you make more subtle moves?

    • I’ll be vocal about it.
    • Maybe a bit of both
    • I’ll make more subtle moves.
    • Neither, I’m too scared to show how I feel.
  • Question of

    How many dates would you want to have with your crush before sharing your first kiss with them?

    • Just one date
    • 2-3 dates
    • 4-5 dates
    • At least 6 dates
  • Question of

    Do you get that ‘butterfly feeling’ in your stomach when you think about your crush?

    • Yes, all the time
    • Occasionally
    • No, not really
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    Would you rather share your first kiss with your celebrity crush or with your current crush?

    • My current crush
    • My celebrity crush
    • This is too difficult of a decision.
    • I’m getting too scared to kiss either of them.

When will you have your first kiss?

Kiss Quiz:When is your first kiss?