Shaif Ahmad
1.You’re on your way to achieving your personal goal.
One of the key factors of a healthy relationship is realising that you are not involved in it to the extent where you have lost your own self. This also involves you realising that your goals are as important and perhaps even more than your partner’s. You shouldn’t have to choose between your personal goals and your partner because it is healthy only when you are able to set out to achieve them without it affecting your relationship.
2.Your world doesn’t revolve around your significant other.
It is necessary to be aware of the fact that at the end of the day, you are a completely separate individual from you partner because of which you owe it to yourself to have a life without him as well. Not everything that goes in your life should be related to your partner, there are certain things that shouldn’t concern them. It might seem romantic and even utopian in movies and book but in reality it’s just exhausting and unhealthy. It is essential for the sake of relationship to not be obsessive and over protective of our partner.
“What are the chances you’d ever meet someone like that? he wondered. Someone you could love forever, someone who would forever love you back? And what did you do when that person was born half a world away? The math seemed impossible.”
― Eleanor & Park
“I want you any way I can get you. Not because you’re beautiful or clever or kind or adorable, although devil knows you’re all those things. I want you because there’s no one else like you, and I don’t ever want to start a day without seeing you.”
― Tempt Me at Twilight
“But how will I know who my Soulmate is?” Brida felt that this was one of the most important questions she had ever asked in her life.
By taking risks’ she said to Brida. ‘ By risking failure, disappointment, disillusion, but never ceasing in you search for Love. As long as you keep looking, you will triumph in the end.”
― Brida
“When you’re missing a peice of yourself, aching, gut wrenching emptiness begins to take over. Until you find the link that completes your very soul, the feeling will never go away. Most people find a way to fill this void, material possessions, a string of relationships, affairs, food…I bare my soul, with words, for all to see.”
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“You see,” she concluded miserably, “when I can call like that to him across space–I belong to him. He doesn’t love me–he never will–but I belong to him.”
― Emily’s Quest
- Question of
Does your soulmate need to love shopping?
- Absolutely!
- That’s completely up to them.
- I don’t love shopping, why should my soulmate?
- It would be a bonus.
- Question of
Are you more of a cat person or a dog person?
- I love them both.
- I prefer hamsters.
- I like dogs more.
- I prefer cats.
- Question of
Which trait do you like most in others?
- Honesty
- Courageness
- Confidence
- Stability
- Question of
Which country would you most like to visit?
- Greece
- Hong Kong
- Mexico
- Germany
- Question of
Have you had a lot of serious relationships?
- I’ve had many loves.
- I’ve only had one serious relationship.
- I’ve had a couple of serious relationships.
- I’ve never had a serious relationship.
- Question of
What is the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?
- I brush my teeth.
- I make the bed.
- I make coffee.
- I take a shower.
- Question of
Have you ever been told that you are high maintenance?
- I have been told that many times.
- I’ve never had it said about me.
- I’ve heard it a couple of times.
- I freely admit it.
- Question of
What do you people like about you?
- I’m funny.
- I’m down to earth.
- I’m a loyal friend.
- I can talk to anyone.
- Question of
How do you think you’ll meet your soulmate?
- Our eyes will meet across a room.
- We will be hooked up by friends.
- We will probably crash into each other while carrying groceries.
- We will be at the same event.
- Question of
Where do you live?
- I live in a townhouse.
- I live in an apartment.
- I live in a house.
- I live in a condo.
- Question of
Which duo do you like best?
- Coffee and donuts
- Wasabi and ginger
- Peanut butter and jelly
- Peas and carrots
- Question of
If a movie were made about your life, what kind would it be?
- Romance
- Documentary
- Comedy
- Thriller
- Question of
Which holiday should your soulmate like most?
- Christmas
- Halloween
- Thanksgiving
- Valentine’s Day
- Question of
Using one word, how would you sum up your wardrobe?
- Stylish
- Bland
- Colorful
- Boho
- Question of
What would you enjoy doing most with your soulmate?
- Bedroom stuff
- Traveling
- Drinking
- Camping
