Are we a good couple? (boys)


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you like the outdoors?

    • Yes
    • Indifferent
    • Heck no! Bugs are gross!
    • Not really
  • Question of

    Do you like to get your hands dirty?

    • Yes, I do a lot of house work, out side work, it is just something I do.
    • No, I am an indoor girl, I would rather die than get dirty!
    • Sometimes, I need to get asked to.
    • Would rather not.
  • Question of

    Are you clean?

    • Yes, I’m kind of a clean freak!
    • No, super messy!
    • I’m a hoarder!
    • Tidy, but not obsessive, like a clean house, but don’t freak at messes.
  • Question of

    Are you fake?

    • No, hate fake people.
    • No, I just change my personality with different people!
    • Yes :), but I will be real with you!
    • Sometimes, depends on the day!
  • Question of

    Do you like to exercise?

    • Yes, it makes me feel good!
    • No!
    • I do every once in a while.
    • Yes! I am a body builder!
  • Question of

    How ditsy are you?

    • I’m an erudition
    • I had to look up erudition. I am not that but intellectual, but not to much for my own good. I don’t go through life accepting everything told to me.
    • Whats ditsy mean?
    • Medium, I have fun, but I do study hard.
  • Question of

    What music do you like?

    • Everything and anything
    • Rap, only!
    • Metal
    • Classical
    • Country
    • Rock
    • Classic Rock
    • Opera
  • Question of

    Romantic guy or not?

    • Romantic
    • Not
    • I like romance, but not to much
    • He has to buy me everything!
  • Question of

    Dog or cat?

    • Dog
    • Cat
  • Question of

    How many kids do you want?

    • 0, hate kids!
    • 1-2
    • 2-4
    • 5-8, or more!!! I don’t want less than 5!
  • Question of

    Where do you want to raise a family?

    • Farm
    • Small city
    • Large city
    • I don’t care
  • Question of

    What do you expect, money wise, for yourself/family.

    • Stay at home mom
    • Both me and my husband will work
    • My husband will be home, I am going to be the main income
    • My/his parents will give us money!
  • Question of

    What is your favorite thing to do when your bored?

    • Watch a movie
    • Read
    • Play video games
    • Exercise
    • Watch TV
    • Crafts
    • Friends
    • Eat
  • Question of

    Colorado or Florida (summer vacation)

    • Colorado
    • Florida
  • Question of

    Travel around the world with you and maybe one other person or road trip with 3-5 of your friends?

    • World
    • Road Trip
  • Question of

    Scuba dive in warm crystal clear water or climb a mountain with a awe inspiring view at the top?

    • Seals
    • Mountain
  • Question of

    Is family important to you?

    • Yes, very much so!
    • No, my family is messed up.
    • Kinda, we aren’t really close
    • Yes, I try to spend every second with my family, we are close like the partridge family!
  • Question of

    Will you EVER contemplate a relationship with Evan Smeenge?

    • Yes
    • Probably
    • Probably not
    • No
  • Question of

    If she hadn’t spoke to you in a while because she was away, how would you feel?

    • Quite happy, now she won’t be texting me every 2 minutes
    • Normal?
    • Sad, I would miss her a lot
  • Question of

    When you say you love her do you actually mean it?

    • No I just say it cause she says it to me
    • Of course I mean it, I wouldn’t lie to her.
    • I don’t really know, that’s why I’m taking this test
  • Question of

    Are you proud to tell people that you’re with her?

    • Definitely., she’s the best
    • Yeah, I suppose
    • Nobody else knows we are together
  • Question of

    If you had other plans with your mates but she asks you to meet up, what would you do?

    • Say I had plans, mates first
    • Go with my mates but arrange another time
    • Call off all my plans, I would do anything to spend time with my girl
  • Question of

    Would you ever go out with her?

    • Yes definitely
    • Sure when the times right
    • No of course not
  • Question of

    Would you ever bring her home?

    • She’s already been to my house several times
    • Never in a million years, I don’t even want to think about it
    • Of course but when the time is right
  • Question of

    Do you trust her?

    • A little – 20%
    • 100%
    • -250%
    • Meh…. Maybe 80%
  • Question of

    What do you like the most about her (YOU HAVE TO PICK ONE – It might be hard but at least try)?

    • Her personality – she’s the best and most interesting person I’ve ever met
    • Her looks – she’s very pretty
    • How loving, caring and trustworthy she is
  • Question of

    If she was sad, what would you do?

    • Nothing really
    • Make her feel worse
    • Try and cheer her up
  • Question of

    Does she love you back?

    • I don’t really know, maybe a little because she’s way out of my league why would she want to be with a moron like me?
    • No of course not
    • Yes, we’re madly in love
  • Question of

    Are you a Christian?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m more spiritual than religious.
    • I don’t know where I am with religion.
  • Question of

    Are your parents together?

    • No, I never see my Dad/Mom
    • No, but I see them both and they are nice to each other.
    • Yes
    • No, but they are working things out still.

Would we be a good couple?

Would we make a good couple?