Are we meant to be?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, I’ll Give You the Sun

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Where She Went

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    When you’re around him/her, do you feel loved?

    • No, just like with anybody else
    • Yes, I have this warm feeling when (s)he looks at me
    • Yes, I feel secure and happy
  • Question of

    What’s your gut instinct?

    • I feel my heart sinking
    • It’s real
    • Run xD
    • (S)he doesn’t love me
    • I hope we are meant to be
  • Question of

    Do you feel excited to see him/her?

    • Yes, I wish I could see him/her everyday
    • I like to spend time with him/her
    • It’s nothing special
    • Sometimes I get annoyed
  • Question of

    • As long as I’m happy they’re happy too
    • They like him/her
    • They think (s)he’s only trouble, not good for me
  • Question of

    What do you feel when you two kiss/touch?

    • I feel nothing different than with others
    • It feels good
    • I wish I could stop the time
    • I internally shiver
  • Question of

    Do you guys argue often?

    • Almost every day
    • Sometimes
    • Never
  • Question of

    Do you think you are good for each other?

    • I’m chaos to his/her thoughts and (s)he’s poison to my heart
    • We could be
    • Idk
    • Yes, (s)he makes me feel good
  • Question of

    Do you think of him/her if (s)he’s not around?

    • Always
    • Yes, often
    • Sometimes
    • Not really
  • Question of

    • Sometimes, but sometimes I think (s) he doesn’t care at all
    • Not at all
    • Yes, (s) he wants to know everything and remembers even unimportant stuff
  • Question of

    How would you feel if (s)he wouldn’t be around anymore?

    • I would be sad
    • Maybe it would be better this way
    • People come and go
    • I would break down inside
  • Question of

    Is (s)he the only one for you in this phase of life?

    • (S) he’s the only one I see
    • I like him/her a lot but I don’t feel like he/she is the one
    • There are also other (eventually better) fish in the sea
  • Question of

    Is (s)he there for you in times of need?

    • Yes, I could always rely on him/her
    • No, (s) he has more important things to handle with
    • Yes, if I’d let him/her
    • I don’t think so
  • Question of

    If you see yourself in 2 years do you wish that (s)he’d still be in your life?

    • No
    • I only want things to come to an end
    • I’d wish for it
    • I’d love that but I don’t think things will end up like this
  • Question of

    Does (s)he makes you happy?

    • (S)he can make me feel like on the top of the world but also at rock bottom
    • No, (s)he only makes me feel sad
    • Yes, (s) he does
  • Question of

    Do you trust him/her?

    • Not at all
    • Idk
    • Not really
    • A bit
    • Yes

Are you meant to be together?

Are you really meant to be?