Are You A Player Or A Hopeless Romantic?



6Wrapping an arm around her waist

groom holding bride around waist


This is a really nice protective gesture, especially when you’re walking through a dodgy area, but it’s somehow especially exciting when the man does it if he’s on a phone call, to remind his girl that just because he’s talking to someone else doesn’t mean he’s forgotten about her presence.


7Taking a shirt off by pulling it over the head with just a thumb and forefinger

jamie dornan pulling shirt off in fifty shades of grey


There’s no logical reason for why this is somehow more attractive then grabbing the shirt by the ends and pulling it off with both hands, but there it is.


8Drinking a beer bottle with just two fingers

chris pratt michelob ultra


Like the elbow on the car window, this gives off an air of ease.

“Dumbledore watched her fly away, and as her silvery glow faded he turned back to Snape, and his eyes were full of tears.
“After all this time?”
“Always,” said Snape.”
― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

“I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don’t teach you how to walk away from someone you don’t love any longer. They don’t teach you how to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. They don’t teach you what to say to someone who’s dying. They don’t teach you anything worth knowing.”
― Neil Gaiman, The Kindly Ones

“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”
― Bob Marley

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
― Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed Devil

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Pick a movie:

    • ‘Hitch’
    • ‘The Fault in Our Stars’
    • ‘Beauty and the Beast’
    • ‘The Wolf of Wall Street’
  • Question of

    You’re at a party when a very attractive stranger tries to make a move on you. You…

    • Shut down the conversation immediately
    • Flirt a bit, but stop before it goes too far
    • Well, it should be okay this one time
    • Go for it!
  • Question of

    Your favorite TV show is on, but you still want to channel surf. You…

    • Flip around a bit then go back to my show
    • Use picture-in-picture so I can do both
    • Finish my show, then surf
  • Question of

    The friend-zone is…

    • A place where friends belong
    • A reservoir of backups
    • Where desperate people stay
    • The worst!
  • Question of

    A romantic picnic under the stars is…

    • The perfect first date
    • The most boring thing in the world
    • The perfect way to get bugs in my food
    • Something I have yet to experience, but would love to try!
  • Question of

    When you’re single and watch a romantic movie alone, you often find yourself…

    • Laughing, then crying
    • Crying, then laughing
    • Wishing I had a partner to watch it with
    • Wishing I had someone to make out with
  • Question of

    You’re falling in love with your co-worker. What do you do?

    • Tell them directly and pray for reciprocation
    • Fight it until I get over it
    • Hint at it over time
    • Stage something that helps me tell them
  • Question of

    The first thing you think about when you walk outside on a beautiful day is…

    • The beautiful weather
    • All the fun I could be having
    • What I have to do that today
    • Skipping work and going on a picnic
  • Question of

    Can a friend ever be more than just a friend?

    • Yes, if they are really cute!
    • No, a friend should always just remain a friend
    • Only if I know they are ‘the one’
    • Depends on the friend
  • Question of

    You’re going to the gym. What’s your motivation?

    • To stay healthy
    • To look more attractive
    • So that I can show off in my sexy gym outfit
    • I love the eye-candy!
  • Question of

    Thinking back on your last relationship flop, why did you ultimately decide to dip?

    • They weren’t the person I thought they were.
    • I couldn’t depend on them.
    • Our relationship was way too basic.
    • TBH, there was no fire.
  • Question of

    How would you deal if someone you were way in to ghosted you?

    • OOF, this sounds way painful. I’d totally cry to my BFF.
    • Whatever. Better that it happens sooner than later.
    • Idc if this sounds extra AF, but I’d text them til they responded.
    • That’s super lame, but what’s life without a little drama?
  • Question of

    Spill the tea on your last Tinder date. All things considered, how would you rate the IRL outing?

    • It was fun, but they’re obv not THE ONE.
    • Meh, I guess it was fine.
    • There could be something there.
    • TBH, I was way into them and hope they wanna hang again.
  • Question of

    Imagine you’re taking a bougie AF trip somewhere in the world. Which romantic city would you most like to visit?

    • Paris, France
    • Rome, Italy
    • Los Angeles, California
    • Buenos Aires, Argentina
  • Question of

    Let’s talk about the last relationship you took an L on. How did it end?

    • The split was mutual.
    • I broke it off.
    • I got dumped.
    • Who knows what happened. Too much drama to keep straight.

Are You a Lover or a Fighter?

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