Are you a player?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

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  • Question of

    If someone invites you to their house and you said ok . And they took you to their bedroom for . You know, would you do it or not?

    • Fudge yea . Bring it on
    • NO WAY. NVER
    • Well I don’t know
  • Question of

    If you are alone with some one should you …

    • Have some fun if you know what I mean
    • Talk about schoolwork
    • Talk about certain topics but not doing it
  • Question of

    If someone kisses you would you…

    • Kiss them back
    • Slap them
    • Back away and stare at them
  • Question of

    If someone touches certain parts would you…

    • Touch them back
    • Run away and tell your boyfriend
    • Slap them /run away
  • Question of

    You slip and get caught in his arms you would

    • Stand up quickly and thank him
    • Kiss them
  • Question of

    If you accidentally go to his room and take your clothes off and forget to use protection you would…

    • Run away and get checked
    • Abort the baby
    • Enjoy the rest of the night with him
  • Question of

    If you go to a party with your boyfriend and kiss a guy that looks just like him you would…

    • Apologize and explain
    • Not care and kiss him again
    • Run to your boyfriend and just kiss him
  • Question of

    If you go be a stri**r and a guy kidnaps you you would..

    • Try to escape and quit my job
    • Do what the guy wants me to do and escape
    • Str*ip for him and hopefully get out
  • Question of

    If your boyfriend gets you protection and you take it you would

    • Say no and leave
    • Stay with him for 30min /or break op w him
    • Stay the whole night and have a good time
  • Question of

    Do you think you’re a player?

    • Probably idk
    • No way
    • Idk that’s why I’m taking this quiz
  • Question of

    Have you ever cheated on your boyfriend or girlfriend?

    • Yes, all the time.
    • Sometimes.
    • No, you don’t do things like that.
    • No, but most of your exes have cheated on you.
  • Question of

    How do you feel when you get dumped?

    • Usually you are relieved.
    • You get a little bummed out, but get over it.
    • You get pretty depressed because you thought it was love.
    • You get pretty depressed because it happens all the time.
  • Question of

    How often do you pay when you go out on dates?

    • Hardly ever.
    • Not as much as your partner, but some.
    • About half the time.
    • Almost always.
  • Question of

    How often have you borrowed money and never paid it back?

    • Quite a few times.
    • A couple times, but you plan paying it back.
    • Never.
    • Never, but people do that to you all the time.
  • Question of

    Is it okay to lie?

    • Yes, if no one ever finds out.
    • Yes, if It doesn’t hurt anyone.
    • No, it is never okay.
    • People should not lie, but you understand if people do it to you.
  • Question of

    Would you forgive someone that cheated on you?

    • Sure, but only because you wouldn’t care.
    • You doubt it, you don’t like being messed with.
    • No, you don’t forgive that kind of thing.
    • You might if there was a good reason.
  • Question of

    What is sex to you?

    • Something you do for fun as much as you can.
    • Something that you truly enjoy with the right person.
    • Something you do in a committed relationship.
    • Something that you do with someone when you think they care about you.
  • Question of

    Have you ever lived with someone for free?

    • Sure, you have done it a few times.
    • No, but sometimes you pay less than you should.
    • No, who does that?
    • No, but you have let people live with you for free.
  • Question of

    Do you dump them or do they dump you?

    • You hardly ever break up with anyone, you just do what you want until they have had enough.
    • You dump them.
    • It depends on the situation.
    • You get dumped.
  • Question of

    You’ve just met someone new, who wants to know if you will go with them on a cruise. Who pays?

    • Not me. It wasn’t your idea.
    • You assume they do, but you will offer to split it.
    • You would assume we split the cost.
    • You would offer to pay because it was touching that they asked you.
  • Question of

    Do you lean on people to support you financially?

    • Sure, that is part of how you survive.
    • You wouldn’t call it leaning on people, but you do get favors sometimes.
    • No, who does that? You are an adult.
    • No, in fact you try to take care of others.
  • Question of

    Were you spoiled as a child?

    • No, your parents gave you a lot of things, but you deserved them.
    • Yeah, you had it pretty good as a kid.
    • No, your parents were fair, but you were not spoiled.
    • No, you had to work for what you got as a child.
  • Question of

    Is finding people to date a game to you?

    • Of course, it is a total blast knowing that you got the person you wanted to go home with you.
    • You wouldn’t call it a game, but you certainly take pride in your ability to meet people.
    • No, you try and find people that you have a true connection with.
    • It isn’t a game at all, but you seem to pick a lot of people who think it is.
  • Question of

    How do you feel after you make love to someone for the first time?

    • You get a rush and a feeling of conquest and success.
    • You just enjoy that you were with someone you found attractive.
    • You feel awkward and a bit nervous and hope it went okay.
    • You usually feel really emotional and insecure.
  • Question of

    Do you manipulate people with sex?

    • Yes, you use sex to get what you want quite often.
    • No, but you do manipulate people to get them to have sex with you.
    • No, you don’t look at sex that way.
    • No, you could never do that, that would be so wrong.
  • Question of

    Do you ask to be taken to expensive places?

    • Of course, why not try and go for the best if you are going to be taken out.
    • No, but you do appreciate it when you are.
    • No. Quality is more important than showing off.
    • You could never do that, you don’t deserve that kind of thing.
  • Question of

    You want to go out tonight and need a ride, how soon do you need it?

    • Right away, you don’t have all night to sit around.
    • Whenever is cool, but as soon as possible.
    • Whenever works for the driver.
    • Whenever works for the driver and you offer to help pay for gas.
  • Question of

    When you are talking to someone you find attractive in a bar, how much do you really listen to them?

    • To be honest, you hardly listen to them.
    • You listen, but mostly because you want to give a good impression.
    • You listen to everything because you know you are attracted, now you want to find if there is a connection.
    • You listen to what they are saying because you feel lucky that they are talking to you.
  • Question of

    Would you pretend you liked something you didn’t, just to impress someone you wanted to date?

    • Of course, that is just being smart.
    • You don’t think you would pretend, but you would present your views in a way the person found appealing.
    • No, that would be dishonest.
    • You wouldn’t pretend, but you probably would not dare to tell them that you disagreed with their tastes.
  • Question of

    How often are you late?

    • All the time. You do your own thing, you can’t be on other people’s time schedules.
    • Not often, but when you are you usually get away with it.
    • You try to always be on time.
    • Never, you are always early and often have to wait.

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