Are You And Your Crush A Perfect Match?

 

“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he/her know you like them?

    • Yes.
    • Yeah, my friend told him.
    • No.
  • Question of

    When he/her is around are what do you feel like?

    • Nervous/Scared
    • Normal
    • Happy/Excited
  • Question of

    How much older/younger than you is he/her?

    • Same age/ish
    • 1 to 4 years older
    • 1 to 4 years younger.
  • Question of

    What does he/her look like?

    • Short and Blond/Brown
    • Medium for their age and Blond/Brown
    • Tall and Blond/Brown
  • Question of

    What do you look like?

    • Short and Brown/Blond
    • Medium size for age
    • Tall and Brown/Blond
  • Question of

    Do you both have the same interests?

    • No
    • Yes
    • I have no clue
  • Question of

    What’s your favourite animal?

    • Other
    • Dogs/Cats
    • Rodents
  • Question of

    What’s his/her favourite animal?

    • I don’t know
    • Dogs/Cats
    • Rodents
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes you?

    • Maybe not
    • Yeah maybe
    • Yes definitely!
  • Question of

    Does he try flirt with you?

    • Kind of? I don’t know we’re friends
    • No
    • Yes, but fails
  • Question of

    Do you make time for each other?

    • Well, we are pretty busy.
    • We do our best!
    • We are always together.
    • We do, but we give space too.
  • Question of

    How do you feel if he is going away for a week?

    • I don’t care.
    • I feel jealous.
    • I feel insecure.
    • I miss him, but I am fine.
  • Question of

    Do you stay in shape since you’ve been seeing him?

    • No, I barely work out anymore.
    • It is about the same.
    • Yes, I work out way more.
    • Yes, I feel good about myself.
  • Question of

    Do you trust him?

    • No way!
    • I am getting better at that.
    • Yes, if he lied to me it would crush me.
    • Yes, he is trustworthy.
  • Question of

    Does he have different strengths than you?

    • I don’t even really know what his strengths are.
    • For the most part.
    • Yes, he is amazing!
    • Yes, we complement each other really well.
  • Question of

    Has he ever cheated on you?

    • He has.
    • I think maybe.
    • I hope not.
    • I am sure he hasn’t.
  • Question of

    Can you hang out and not talk to each other?

    • Yes, we fight a lot.
    • No, that is super awkward.
    • No, I get too excited around him for that.
    • Of course.
  • Question of

    How often do you fight?

    • All the time.
    • Pretty often.
    • Never!
    • Only when there is something important we need to get out.
  • Question of

    Do you still flirt?

    • No, we really don’t.
    • I think so.
    • We always flirt.
    • Sure, but it is subtle.
  • Question of

    How are things in the bedroom?

    • Kind of boring
    • Pretty good
    • Amazing
    • Consistently good
  • Question of

    Is he your best friend?

    • Don’t make me laugh.
    • No, but I do like him.
    • One of them.
    • For sure.
  • Question of

    What is the perfect night with him?

    • Going out to a nice dinner
    • Going on a double date
    • Going out partying
    • Staying home and chilling
  • Question of

    Does your family like him?

    • They hate him.
    • They tolerate him.
    • They haven’t met yet.
    • Sure, they get along fine.
  • Question of

    What does he inspire you to do?

    • Make more money
    • Be better in bed
    • Go out and party
    • Be a better person
  • Question of

    Are you able to talk about sex?

    • Gross.
    • No, that sounds odd.
    • We don’t need to, things are perfect.
    • We totally can.
  • Question of

    Are you humble around him?

    • No, quite the opposite.
    • No, I show off a little.
    • He is too perfect to be humble around.
    • I sure try to be.
  • Question of

    Does he make a lot of romantic gestures towards you?

    • He pretty much never does that.
    • Only on special occasions.
    • He does that constantly.
    • He does when I need it.
  • Question of

    Do you guys snuggle in bed?

    • No, I hate that.
    • Not often.
    • Constantly.
    • If it is chilly.
  • Question of

    Do you ever think of cheating on him?

    • All the time.
    • No, but sometimes I fantasize.
    • Not unless he made me mad.
    • No, that is silly.
  • Question of

    Do your friends like him?

    • I would have to say no.
    • They do okay.
    • He doesn’t know them.
    • Yes, they are tight.

Are you and your crush a perfect match?

Are you and your partner a perfect match?