Are you and your crush meant for each other?

 

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves


Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Why do you like this boy?

    • Your desperate
    • He is cute funny smart and everything that you would want in a boy
    • Someone to keep you occupied during class
    • He is the most popular boy in school
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Are you friends with this boy?

    • Best of buds
    • He thinks your annoying and avoids you
    • Plain old friends
    • Say hi but not much more
    • He doesn’t know you exist
  • Question of

    If you were upset about something what would he do?

    • Be glad
    • Notice but not care
    • Ask you what is wrong AND give you a hug
    • Not notice
    • Ask you what is wrong
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes you?

    • Between a friend and a nobody
    • Loves you
    • More than a friend
    • Hates you
    • Adores you
  • Question of

    In your dreams, has he ever asked you out?

    • Never in a million years
    • I wish
    • Once
    • You think he’s about to
    • Continues to and won’t stop
  • Question of

    How often does he compliment you?

    • Won’t even talk to you
    • When you are down
    • Never
    • Barely ever
    • Every day
  • Question of

    Which of these do you know, his email, cell, home number, screen name?

    • Everything and by heart
    • 2
    • Everything
    • 3
    • 0-1
  • Question of

    When you walk by him what do his friends do?

    • Ignore you
    • Smirk at him
    • Make kiss faces at him
    • Run (him and his friends)
    • Nudge him
  • Question of

    Did you like my quiz?

    • The best
    • The worst
    • Fabulous
    • Useless
    • OK
  • Question of

    Does your crush ever come over to you, even when you are having a conversation with friends?

    • Yes, every day
    • Sometimes
    • No never
    • He always ignores me
    • He comes a lot – to complain
  • Question of

    Does your crush ever ask you the same question like everyday?

    • He asks me this one thing over and over again
    • He does ask one thing about once a week
    • He asks me various things
    • He never asks me anything
    • He asks me stuff like when I will leave
  • Question of

    So if he does ask you a question, what does he ask?

    • Something like ‘are you ok?’
    • Something like ‘where are you going?’
    • Something like ‘wanna come round with us?’
    • Something like ‘what bus do you go on?’
    • He asks me none of these
    • He never asks me anything except go away
  • Question of

    Has he ever said he wants to come to your house?

    • He has come to my house already
    • He did come to my house, but thats only because my brother is his best friend
    • He wants to come but he is not allowed
    • He came on my bus once though when he was going to this other guys house
    • Sometimes he asks what bus I go on
    • He never mentions the subject
  • Question of

    Does you ever sit by each other in lessons?

    • I always sit my him and my bestie
    • I would but I’m too scared too
    • I want to but y friends make me sit by them
    • He usually sits in his gang
    • We have to go in the seats our teacher puts us in
    • He stays as far away from me as possible
  • Question of

    Does your crush like you and does he want to go out with you too?

    • Yes I know for a fact he wants to go out with me
    • I am pretty sure he does
    • He has asked me out before but I was way to scared to say yes
    • He might do, he talks to me a lot
    • He has never said
    • No he hates me
  • Question of

    How old is your crush compared to you?

    • We were both born on the same day
    • He is about 1-6 months older
    • He is younger, but only by about a month
    • He is younger than me by a lot
    • He is between 1-4 years older than me
    • He is over five years older than me
  • Question of

    Has he ever told you stuff when there is no one else around?

    • He told me to go on Facebook
    • He waved at me when I was sat on the bus and he was on the floor
    • He has, but only stuff like asking what next lesson is
    • He told me he would go out with me if I asked him out first
    • He only talks to me when I am with my friends
    • He never speaks to me
  • Question of

    Does he know everything about you?

    • Yep, everything from my fave food to my fave magazine
    • He knows who my friends are and my fave school subject and stuff like that
    • He might do, my friends might have told him
    • I don’t know
    • I really need to talk to him
    • Nope, he has never aked and he never lets me ask him
  • Question of

    Out of these personalities, which of them do you and your crush both act like?

    • We are both crazy
    • We are both confident
    • We are both shy
    • We are both loud
    • We are both funny
    • We are both cute
  • Question of

    This is the end of my quiz. How would you say goodbye if you were saying goodbye to your crush?

    • Bye then
    • See you tomorrow
    • See ya! *smile*
    • *Ignores*
    • *waves*
    • *runs away*
  • Question of

    How much do you want to talk to that special boy?

    • An hour a day
    • Once a week
    • Barely ever
    • Every minute of your life
    • Once a day

Are you and your crush meant to be? (For boys and girls)

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