Are you and your partner a perfect match?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he/she put you first?

    • Oh yes, as Beyoncé says ‘He puts my love on top’
    • I guess but only when it’s convenient for him/her
    • Not really, he/she does whatever he/she wants
  • Question of

    Does he/she share your plans for the future?

    • We have very different plans for the future
    • Yes, we both agree on how we want to live our lives
    • I guess but some things we disagree on
  • Question of

    Does he/she get on with your family?

    • Yep, they’re really cute together
    • Not really
    • I guess so
    • They haven’t even met
  • Question of

    Are you attracted to him/her?

    • They’re average looking
    • Not really, but it’s a safe option
    • Oh yeah, he/she is really hot
    • She’s absolutely beautiful / He is very handsome
  • Question of

    Do you love him/her?

    • I think so
    • Yes
    • No
    • More than anything
  • Question of

    Do you make time for each other?

    • Well, we are pretty busy.
    • We do our best!
    • We are always together.
    • We do, but we give space too.
  • Question of

    How do you feel if he is going away for a week?

    • I don’t care.
    • I feel jealous.
    • I feel insecure.
    • I miss him, but I am fine.
  • Question of

    Do you stay in shape since you’ve been seeing him?

    • No, I barely work out anymore.
    • It is about the same.
    • Yes, I work out way more.
    • Yes, I feel good about myself.
  • Question of

    Do you trust him?

    • No way!
    • I am getting better at that.
    • Yes, if he lied to me it would crush me.
    • Yes, he is trustworthy.
  • Question of

    Does he have different strengths than you?

    • I don’t even really know what his strengths are.
    • For the most part.
    • Yes, he is amazing!
    • Yes, we complement each other really well.
  • Question of

    Has he ever cheated on you?

    • He has.
    • I think maybe.
    • I hope not.
    • I am sure he hasn’t.
  • Question of

    Can you hang out and not talk to each other?

    • Yes, we fight a lot.
    • No, that is super awkward.
    • No, I get too excited around him for that.
    • Of course.
  • Question of

    How often do you fight?

    • All the time.
    • Pretty often.
    • Never!
    • Only when there is something important we need to get out.
  • Question of

    Do you still flirt?

    • No, we really don’t.
    • I think so.
    • We always flirt.
    • Sure, but it is subtle.
  • Question of

    How are things in the bedroom?

    • Kind of boring
    • Pretty good
    • Amazing
    • Consistently good
  • Question of

    Is he your best friend?

    • Don’t make me laugh.
    • No, but I do like him.
    • One of them.
    • For sure.
  • Question of

    What is the perfect night with him?

    • Going out to a nice dinner
    • Going on a double date
    • Going out partying
    • Staying home and chilling
  • Question of

    Does your family like him?

    • They hate him.
    • They tolerate him.
    • They haven’t met yet.
    • Sure, they get along fine.
  • Question of

    What does he inspire you to do?

    • Make more money
    • Be better in bed
    • Go out and party
    • Be a better person
  • Question of

    Are you able to talk about sex?

    • Gross.
    • No, that sounds odd.
    • We don’t need to, things are perfect.
    • We totally can.
  • Question of

    Are you humble around him?

    • No, quite the opposite.
    • No, I show off a little.
    • He is too perfect to be humble around.
    • I sure try to be.
  • Question of

    Does he make a lot of romantic gestures towards you?

    • He pretty much never does that.
    • Only on special occasions.
    • He does that constantly.
    • He does when I need it.
  • Question of

    Do you guys snuggle in bed?

    • No, I hate that.
    • Not often.
    • Constantly.
    • If it is chilly.
  • Question of

    Do you ever think of cheating on him?

    • All the time.
    • No, but sometimes I fantasize.
    • Not unless he made me mad.
    • No, that is silly.
  • Question of

    Do your friends like him?

    • I would have to say no.
    • They do okay.
    • He doesn’t know them.
    • Yes, they are tight.
  • Question of

    How does he/she make you feel?

    • Happy, excited and confident
    • Like I’m the only person in the world
    • Bad about myself and sad
    • Better than how I feel when I’m alone
  • Question of

    How does he/she treat you?

    • Like I’m nothing
    • With kindness, love and respect
    • Like I’m a Queen/King
    • Like he/she wants what’s best or me
    • Like he/she is ashamed of me
  • Question of

    Do you get on with his/her family and friends?

    • I really don’t like them
    • They’re okay but I couldn’t see them often
    • I love them, we get on great
    • Kinda, I guess they’re okay
  • Question of

    Do you have much in common?

    • Yes, but we also have big differences
    • I guess so
    • No we are very different people
    • Yes, we’re like the same person
  • Question of

    Does he/she support you?

    • No, not really
    • I guess so
    • Yes, he/she is very supportive

Are You And Your Crush A Perfect Match?

Are you a match made in heaven with your boyfriend/girlfriend?