Are you and your partner in love with each other?


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

Marty McConnell Mythology

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens Looking for Alaska

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How often do you/your partner say ‘I love you’?

    • Every two second
    • Almost never
    • A few times a day
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    How often do you and your partner have sex?

    • Wait, couples have sex?
    • 1-2 times a week
    • Once every 2-3 weeks
    • 3-6 times a week
    • We’re supposed to stop having sex?
  • Question of

    A family member of your partner dies, what do you do?

    • Tell them to suck it up
    • Nothing
    • Comfort them
    • Attend the wake and the funeral and do whatever they want after
    • Skip the funeral
  • Question of

    You and your partner are laying in bed browsing Netflix, what do you watch?

    • Reruns of FRIENDS
    • What I want to watch
    • Whatever they want to watch
    • Nothing because we can’t decide
    • Dear John
  • Question of

    How much does your partner compliment you?

    • They’ve only complimented me once or twice
    • Daily
    • Almost never
    • Every now and then
    • Whenever I dress up
  • Question of

    You and your partner get into a huge fight, who says sorry and who admits they were wrong?

    • I say sorry and they admit
    • We both agree we were wrong and apologize
    • I admit AND say sorry
    • They admit and say sorry
    • They say sorry and I admit
  • Question of

    It’s Valentine’s Day, what do you do for your partner?

    • Get them roses and chocolate
    • Make them a romantic dinner and wine
    • Do their favorite thing
    • Wine, dine, then 69
    • Cover the bed in rose pedals and have all night sex
  • Question of

    If they had to move due to school, work, etc. would you follow them?

    • I would just dump them, long distance never works.
    • Hell no, I have a life right here
    • Depends on how far they had to go
    • Of course, they are the love of my life
    • Try the long distance thing.
  • Question of

    How many kids do you and your partner want?

    • 4 or more
    • We can’t decide
    • 3-4
    • We don’t want kids
    • 1-2
  • Question of

    Ladies, if your guy proposed with a small ring, would you still say yes?

    • No, I want a HUGE diamond
    • Depends
    • YES, bling doesn’t matter I just want to marry him
  • Question of

    If your partner was in the hospital, what would you do?

    • Wait until they come home
    • Never leave their bedside
    • Be there during the day and go home at night
    • Visit them once or twice
  • Question of

    Guys, if your woman says she wants to go out, what do you do?

    • Tell her to have a good time and you love her
    • Make sure she isn’t wearing anything too revealing
    • Go with her
    • Tell her no
  • Question of

    How long did it take to realize you were in love?

    • After the 8th date
    • As soon as I laid my eyes on them
    • After we first had sex
    • I haven’t yet
    • First time we kissed
  • Question of

    If your family doesn’t like your partner, what do you do?

    • Just don’t bring them around your family
    • Tell your family to suck it up and just be nice
    • Dump them
    • Explain how in love you are and hope your family understands
    • Disregard what your family says, you love them
  • Question of

    You guys are struggling financially but your partner gets into their dream college(which is super expensive) what do you do?

    • Scrape up the money so they can be happy
    • Work extra hard for the next 4 years to pay for their college
    • Let them pay for it them self
    • Explain to them that they can’t go because you guys can’t afford it

What’s your love-life like?

Does Your Boyfriend Love You Test