Are You Falling out of Love?

 

 

  1. YOU CAN HAVE HEALTHY CONFLICTS.

Even if you agree too everything and plan everything out there will be some differences and over coming those differences is a proof that you can be mature in a relationship and keep the needs of others before yours’. Often there re conflicts that might require a third party to interfere, there is no shame in that; hence if you think this conflict can be settled by someone else then you should go to couple’s therapy and make sure that the differences are sorted. By doing this you take a leap and establish a better communication system in the relationship.

Further, this not only strengthens your trust in your partner and they will make efforts to not le you down. This also opens up gates for new possibilities for you and your partner, like going on a trip and not having differences because you are able to communicate your feelings and thoughts more comfortably without any resentment.

“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.”
― Greg Behrendt

“I knew, in the silence that followed, that anything could happen here. It might be too late: again, I might have missed my chance. But I would at least know I tried, that I took my heart and extended my hand, whatever the outcome.
“Okay,” he said. He took a breath. “What would you do, if you could do anything?”
I took a step toward him, closing the space between us. “This,” I said. And then I kissed him.”
― Sarah Dessen, The Truth About Forever

“Sometimes I wonder if there’s something wrong with me. Perhaps I’ve spent too long in the company of my literary romantic heroes, and consequently my ideals and expectations are far too high.”
― E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey

“I’ve been fighting to be who I am all my life. What’s the point of being who I am, if I can’t have the person who was worth all the fighting for?”
― Stephanie Lennox, I Don’t Remember You

“My only love sprung from my only hate!
Too early seen unknown, and known too late!
Prodigious birth of love it is to me,
That I must love a loathed enemy.”
― William Shakespeare

“I am not an angel,’ I asserted; ‘and I will not be one till I die: I will be myself. Mr. Rochester, you must neither expect nor exact anything celestial of me – for you will not get it, any more than I shall get it of you: which I do not at all anticipate.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How often do you think about your crush or significant other?

    • Every minute of the day
    • A few times a week
    • Once in a while
    • Pretty much never
  • Question of

    When you see your partner in person, how do you feel?

    • Overjoyed
    • Kind of annoyed
    • Content
    • Stressed out
  • Question of

    How often do you two go out on romantic dates?

    • A few times per week
    • Once or twice a month
    • A few times a year
    • I can’t even remember our last date.
  • Question of

    Has it ever crossed your mind to cheat on your SO?

    • Absolutely not
    • I’ve had my temptations.
    • I’ve thought about this once or twice.
    • Yes, all the time
  • Question of

    Where do you see yourself in the next five years?

    • Happily married
    • I don’t even know.
    • Single
    • Dating someone else
  • Question of

    Has your crush or significant other ever made you feel upset or angry?

    • Yes, but that’s how relationships are.
    • Not exactly
    • I’m always upset when I’m around them.
    • I’ve definitely cried a few times with them.
  • Question of

    How did you initially meet this person?

    • Blind luck
    • Blind date
    • Through a friend or coworker
    • I can’t remember.
  • Question of

    Has your relationship with this person blossomed or decayed over time?

    • Blossomed
    • I don’t know … maybe a little bit of both.
    • Well, it’s been rocky.
    • Decayed
  • Question of

    What do you two usually argue about?

    • We never argue.
    • The spotlight is always on them because they do stupid things.
    • They always seem to point the blame at me for things.
    • Literally everything
  • Question of

    Do you two ever compliment each other about looks or personality traits?

    • Absolutely, all the time
    • Once in a while
    • Not so much anymore
    • What’s there to compliment?
  • Question of

    How long have you been in a relationship with this person?

    • Three or more years
    • Six months or less
    • About a year
    • One to two years
  • Question of

    If you had the opportunity to date a celebrity instead of your current crush, would you?

    • No, that sounds like a nightmare.
    • Hmm … can I pick any celebrity?
    • Probably not
    • Oh, in a heartbeat
  • Question of

    How do you act around your partner’s friends or family members?

    • Outgoing — I like them all.
    • I just act like a cooler version of myself.
    • Quiet, like a wallflower
    • I don’t really hang out with them.
  • Question of

    If you could, what would you change about your relationship?

    • I wish we could spend more time together.
    • I wish I had more space.
    • I wish we would fight less.
    • Honestly, I wish we would break up already.
  • Question of

    Do you still get those butterfly feelings when you see them in person?

    • Yup, my stomach always flutters around when I see them.
    • Sometimes
    • Not anymore
    • I don’t even know what that is.
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