Are you flirty?



“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

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  • Question of

    You walk into the room at a party and look around. You see some of your girl-friends and then notice him. Your first response would be to…

    • …Go straight over to him and begin an immediate conversation and mention how well he did on his Geography project.
    • …Think about talking to him but right before you decide to go, he leaves the party.
    • …Blush at his presence then walk over to talk to the girls.
    • …talk to your friends for a while then ask him how his lacrosse team did last weekend.
    • …You talk to him for a few minutes then go to hang out with the girls for the rest of the party.
  • Question of

    You see him at a school football game, but you don’t think he notices you so you keep sitting there watching your school get crushed. Then, he comes over with some of his friends and asks you to come and walk around with him and his friends. You

    • …say, No thanks I’d rather watch the game, but I’ll see you tomorrow in class.
    • …Hesitate and look around, confused, until you’ve waited too long.
    • …say, I’d love to, but I can’t miss my friends cheer routine at half-time.
    • …say, I’d love to, but only because you’re going to be there,” while smiling and twirling your hair.
    • …say, Sure, but have all the girls come too.
  • Question of

    You’re going on a school field trip and the bus is full when you get on. You see two empty seats: One next to Claire, your BFF since Kindergarten, and one next to Him. Which do you pick?

    • Go sit down next to him, smile, and start a conversation.
    • You ask him if the seat next to him is taken and if it isn’t, sit down.
    • Hesitate in the doorway to the bus. Just when you decide to go for the seat next to him, one of his buddies gets on the bus and sits down in your seat.
    • Sit next to Claire but wonder the whole trip why you didn’t even ask about the seat next to him.
    • You go sit next to Claire. You’ll probably talk to him later anyway.
  • Question of

    You, all of your friends, Him, and all of his friends are going to a movie. You just got out of the candy line and see that all of the seats are filled, but then see that HE saved you a spot. Once you are sitting down, he starts to gradually put his arm around you. You respond by

    • …saying, I’m not quite ready for that. Give me some time.
    • …telling him, That’s moving to fast, sorry I’m just not ready,” but ponder then thought of why you didn’t take advantage of the opportunity.
    • …say, Sorry but I came to watch an action movie, not create a romance.” Then smile and nudge him playfully.
    • …tensing up, but then relaxing after a while (you wanted this to happen!).
    • …smile at him sweetly, hold his hand, then snuggle up to him for the rest of the movie.
  • Question of

    Your school goes out for a field trip and on the way back you go out for fast food. Everyone must pay for their own meal, but when you get there you notice he forgot his money. What do you do?

    • …Wonder if giving him money would make him like you more. You’d do anything for his love! Just when you start walking to share some cash, one of his buddies steps in front of you and donates to the “burger fund”. You wish you had been just a little faster.
    • …Feel bad but don’t have the courage to give him your money. Later as you’re enjoying your burger, you wish you had shared your money with him.
    • …You give him 5 bucks and say, “My mom gave me a little extra. Don’t spend it all in one place!” Then you smile and get back in line with your friends.
    • …Walk up to him and say (while batting your eye lashes), “Here’s some money. I noticed you were a little short on cash!” Then get in line behind him.
    • …Walk up to him, smile sweetly, grab his hand and lay cash in it. You use your own hands to close his. You say to him, “Don’t bother paying this back, I never mind helping you!” Then stand in line next to him.
  • Question of

    Your school is having their annual spring play and you’ve just got the lead. Surprisingly enough he got the lead too. The play is Romeo and Juliet, and he said he wants to rehearse lines at your place. He asks to act out the romance scene. You

    • say, Of course, why not! I can’t wait to practice that kiss! Let’s make sure it is absolutely perfect!” Then lean over, kiss him for practice, and say, “See? We are going to be great!
    • say, Sure, but let’s not try to take all of the romance out of the kiss just yet.” Then wink and suggest a time to be at your place.
    • say, Let’s just rehearse the lines, not the kiss. Let’s leave that for the play. I don’t feel comfortable kissing my best guy-friend yet.
    • …hesitate with your words, then he says, “I understand if you don’t want to do the kiss right now. We can just save that for the stage.
    • …say, Sure, but let’s not practice the kiss just yet.” Later, you regret that suggestion and wonder why you said that.
  • Question of

    He is picked to be your partner for the science project. He suggests a study date at his place later that afternoon. You agree. When you arrive you realize there is more ‘date’ than ‘study’ going on. He tries to make a move while you’re sitting on his couch. You react by…

    • ..kissing him a little but then decide you don’t want to get caught and push him away. He’s not a very good kisser anyway.
    • taking the opportunity. He’s ready and so are you. You begin making-out on the couch. You are sure not to let him get to into it though, no need getting him over excited at your age!
    • wonder what you should do. You stand there while he tries his best to make his move. You just decide to co-operate when he steps back and says, “I’m sorry you weren’t ready. I thought you were different. Why don’t you just go home and we’ll hang out some other time?” You leave and question your hesitation.
    • pushing him away and say, Whoa I thought we were studying! Call me when you’re ready to concentrate. Then you leave.
    • …pushing him away. You ask him how he could do that and tell him to call you when he’s ready to apologize for leading you on. Later you wonder why you were so quick to judge that situation.
  • Question of

    The final for soccer are in a week and your coach has asked everyone to brush up on their skills, so you go to your crush for a practice session. Once you’re there he starts to get really flirty. You

    • say, This is a soccer session, not a make-out session. Come on, we’re just friends anyways.
    • …say, I just came to tell you that my uncle is in town and I couldn’t make it, sorry!” Then walk down the road a little way before calling your mom to come pick you up.
    • …flirt back and then say, I thought today would be fun with you and I was right, and then hug him.
    • …stand there with a confused face, but then he stops being flirty and gets serious.
    • …flirt back until you’re on the ground making-out, but then your mom calls and says she’s five minutes away. You tell him, We can finish this later.
  • Question of

    Your high school ex sends you a DM. You’re currently in a relationship. What’s your move?

    • You DM them ‘Hi! ‘
    • You wait a day and then say, ‘Sorry it took so long to get back to you. I was camping with my partner.’
    • You don’t write back at all. What’s the point?
    • You ask them, ‘Why are you texting me?’
  • Question of

    At the coffeeshop, the barista asks you what you’re doing this weekend. Your response?

    • ‘I dunno, what are YOU up to?’
    • ‘I might go to the [big local event.] Are you going to that too?’
    • ‘Laundry and Netflix, as usual, haha.’
    • ‘Stop trying to connect with me. It won’t lead to a bigger tip.’
  • Question of

    Imagine that a VERY CUTE neighbor just moved in next door. How will you introduce yourself?

    • ‘Hey there. Any time you need to borrow a cup of sugar, just knock.’
    • ‘Howdy neighbor! Nice to meet you.’
    • I wouldn’t introduce myself. I’m too shy.
    • I wouldn’t introduce myself because I don’t believe in knowing your neighbors.
  • Question of

    Your friends are trying to raise money for a dog charity by having a car wash. They ask you to participate while scantily clad, since you have a great body. Your response?

    • ‘I love that you asked me. See you there!’
    • ‘It’s sweet of you to ask, but I think that’s kind of demeaning.’
    • ‘Who, me? Really?’
    • ‘What does my great body have to do with raising money for charity?’
  • Question of

    Have you ever offered a crush a ‘free massage’ for ‘no reason’?

    • It’s one of my go-to moves, my friend.
    • I did that in college, but now I think that move is cheesy.
    • Absolutely not. That’s so transparent.
    • No. Unless you’re a professional, there’s no reason to engage in such labors.
  • Question of

    Be honest — how many people have you made out with in your life?

    • Lol, like I can count that high.
    • More than five, less than 10
    • One or two
    • None. I don’t have time for such frivolities!
  • Question of

    If you were a Desperate Housewife, which one would you be?

    • Susan. She’ll do anything to get a man and so will I!
    • Gabby. She’s not afraid to use her looks to her advantage.
    • Bree. Some people think she’s uptight but I think she’s modest and ladylike.
    • Lynette. Like me, she is an intelligent person in an irrational world.
  • Question of

    Beach time! What will you be wearing?

    • Something tiny!
    • Something flattering that I can also move in.
    • A T-shirt and cargo shorts (I’m not much for beachwear.)
    • The cheapest swimsuit I can find.
  • Question of

    If you were out with friends and one of them wanted to ditch you because their crush texted them, would you be mad?

    • Nah. I’ve done the same thing to them, many times.
    • I’d be annoyed but I’d get it.
    • Yes, I’d be hurt. We had plans first.
    • No, I wouldn’t be angry. After all, we are all free agents at loose in a chaotic universe.
  • Question of

    Have you ever pretended to like ‘Red Dead Redemption’ or ‘Pretty Little Liars’ in order to make someone like you?

    • Haha, I’ve pretended to like many things for the sake of love.
    • Yes, once. I really liked that person though.
    • Yes, but I immediately confessed afterwards.
    • No. That would be a deception.
  • Question of

    If someone you didn’t know at all asked you on a date because they liked one of your IG pics, would you go?

    • Um, YEAH!
    • Depends. Are they hot AF?
    • Not without investigating them thoroughly on social media.
    • No. They’re probably a murderer.
  • Question of

    What’s the best way to show someone that you REALLY like them?

    • Giving them a massive compliment
    • Remembering their likes and preferences
    • Giving them an awesome gift
    • Saying ‘I really like you.’
  • Question of

    Are you attracted to any of your friends?

    • Yes, that’s what makes our friendships so much fun. ????
    • A few of them. That’s natural, though.
    • I’m attracted to one of my friends, but I’ve never acted on it.
    • No. That’s why my relationships with them are platonic.
  • Question of

    Do you ever flirt with people you’re not actually interested in dating?

    • Yep. I’m human, aren’t I?
    • I try not to … but yes, I have.
    • No. That would not be honest or kind.
    • No. For there is no logical reason to do that!
  • Question of

    While on a date with someone new, they mention they live at a clothing-optional communal house. Is this a turn-off or no?

    • Um, no. Sounds like a dream come true!
    • Sort of a turn-on, although that also sounds sketchy.
    • It’s a turn-off. Nudists are weirdos!
    • I feel neutral about it. Nudism is an odd lifestyle choice, but it is good for your skin.
  • Question of

    Have you ever winked at someone hot?

    • Dude, I’ve already done that three times today.
    • Sure. It’s a great move if you can pull it off.
    • A few times, but it made me feel dorky AF.
    • I’ve winked because of hot steam getting into my eyes, but that’s it.
  • Question of

    A stranger’s dog tries to steal your newspaper! Luckily, the dog and its owner are both really cute. How will you get your ‘revenge’?

    • I’ll insist they take me out to dinner.
    • I’d claim the dog ‘owed’ me pets, then try to get the stranger’s number.
    • I wouldn’t. It’s not that big a deal?
    • I’ll threaten to call Animal Control on the canine if its owner does not sufficiently discipline it.
  • Question of

    What’s the longest you’ve ever been single?

    • Hard to say. I usually have some ‘overlap,’ if you know what I mean!
    • Six months
    • One year
    • 10 years
  • Question of

    It’s time to get dressed for work! Which outfit are you most likely to wear?

    • Whatever emphasizes my assets
    • Whatever flatters my complexion
    • Whatever’s clean
    • Whatever’s required by my company’s dress code
  • Question of

    Are you a Miranda, a Carrie, a Charlotte or a Samantha?

    • Samantha
    • Carrie
    • Charlotte
    • Miranda, 100%
  • Question of

    You see Him in the hall. What is your first response?

    • You think about what you two could have together in a relationship and wish you knew how he felt about you.
    • Go talk to him for a while and all the while you stare at him with adoring eyes.
    • You walk over and ask him about homework.
    • You talk to him and make lots of eye contact, twirl your hair, and hug him before you go to your class.
    • You look at him for a moment, then walk to your class
  • Question of

    He’s been talking to you a lot on IM lately. Do you…

    • …answer him with the usual hey sup?
    • …talk for hours, compliment him and make sure he knows you’re disappointed when he leaves.
    • .send an IM every two minutes.
    • …you talk to him an add occasional flirty phrases.
    • …think about talking to him but right before you IM him, he signs off.

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