Are you heartbroken? (GIRLS ONLY)

 

“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.”
John Joseph Powell, The Secret of Staying in Love

“I was suffering the easily foreseeable consequences. Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never dared to admit you wanted-an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with a hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is witheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore– despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have ‘that thing’ even one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you’re someone he’s never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is,you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You’re a pathetic mess,unrecognizable even to your own eyes. So that’s it. You have now reached infatuation’s final destination– the complete and merciless devaluation of self.” – pg 20-21”
Elizabeth Gilbert Sputnik Sweetheart

“Of course it hurt that we could never love each other in a physical way. We would have been far more happy if we had. But that was like the tides, the change of seasons–something immutable, an immovable destiny we could never alter. No matter how cleverly we might shelter it, our delicate friendship wasn’t going to last forever. We were bound to reach a dead end. That was painfully clear.”
Haruki Murakami, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

“I think you are wrong to want a heart. It makes most people unhappy. If you only knew it, you are in luck not to have a heart.”
L. Frank Baum, The Wise Man’s Fear

“nothing in this world was more difficult than love.”
Gabriel García Márquez The Goddess Test

“Books are a poor substitute for female companionship, but they are easier to find.”
Patrick Rothfuss, I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence

“I care,” he said in a trembling voice. “I care so much that I do not know how to tell you without it seeming inconsequential compared to how I feel. Even if I am distant at times and seem as if I do not want to be with you, it is only because this scares me, too.”
Aimee Carter, The Indigo Spell

“Don’t leave a piece of jewelry at his house so you can go back and get it later; he may be with his real girlfriend.”
Amy Sedaris, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“Because I can’t help doing it,” he said with a shrug. “And hey, if I keep loving you, maybe you’ll eventually crack and love me too. Hell, I’m pretty sure you’re already half in love with me.”
Richelle Mead, Rules of Attraction

“All I’m telling you to do is to be smart about it. Know that if this man isn’t looking for a serious relationship, you’re not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate. You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord’s green earth-you’re capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you’re independent (which means, to him, that you’re not going to be in his pockets)-but if he’s not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.”
Steve Harvey, Emma

“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.”
Shannon L. Alder Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“We kiss all the time.” I clear my throat, then add, “We just…do it in private.”
Simone Elkeles, I Wrote This For You

“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised or a little mistaken.”
Jane Austen, Max

“I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.”
Steve Maraboli, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You’re just another story I can’t tell anymore.”
pleasefindthis, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“He could totally be your boyfriend,” [Angel] went on with annoying persistance. “You guys could get married. I could be like a junior bridesmaid. Total could be your flower dog.”
James Patterson, Breaking Bread: Insurgent Black Intellectual Life

“Moving on is easy. It’s staying moved on that’s trickier.”
Katerina Stoykova Klemer The English Patient

“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.”
Mandy Hale, Letters to a Young Poet

“A fit, healthy body—that is the best fashion statement”
Jess C Scott Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

“How would your life be different if…You walked away from gossip and verbal defamation? Let today be the day…You speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same.”
Steve Maraboli, Wicked Lovely

“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”
Shannon L. Alder All About Love: New Visions

“We have to recognise that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence.”
Cornel West, Warbreaker

“We die containing a richness of lovers and tribes, tastes we have swallowed, bodies we have plunged into and swum up as if rivers of wisdom, characters we have climbed into as if trees, fears we have hidden in as if caves.
Michael Ondaatje, How to Win Friends and Influence People

“only someone who is ready for everything, who doesn’t exclude any experience, even the most incomprehensible, will live the relationship with another person as something alive and will himself sound the depths of his own being.”
Rainer Maria Rilke, Seven Words of Jesus and Mary: Lessons from Cana and Calvary

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you cry every time you see your crush flirting with someone else?

    • Eh, sometimes..
    • OMG YES:'(
    • Nahh, that jerk isn’t worth my time
  • Question of

    When you start thinking of him do you start crying/tearing up?

    • Not all the time…
    • YES It’s so tragic:(
    • No, he’s just some jerk who doesn’t care about other people’s feelings.
  • Question of

    (If you go to school) If he’s in your class and see his beautiful smile, do you start getting sad or upset?

    • Yes 100% yes
    • No 100% no
    • Maybe sometimes
  • Question of

    Imagine you’re in a class with him, he sits right in front of you and starts flirting with another girl. What would you do?

    • Do nothing, he’s just trying to make me jealous.
    • Cry a little in my head
    • Start tearing up
  • Question of

    Do you still like him?

    • Ah heck no, how many time’s do I have to tell you? He’s a jerk face!
    • Eh, I don’t like him as much as I did before
    • Yes! He makes it so hard for me to stop liking him:(
  • Question of

    Do you think all the time about if he likes you a lot?

    • Not all the time just a little bit
    • HECK NO! He ain’t worth my time
    • Uh YES, but he’s made it pretty clear he doesn’t like me:'(
  • Question of

    Do you ever just lay down in your bed and start crying because of him?

    • YES! How did you know?
    • NO!
    • Not really, Rarely
  • Question of

    Another imagine: Imagine you’re sitting in the car and you’re about to get out of the car for school but then suddenly he walks by because his car was behind yours the whole time. You’re about to be late for school but you don’t want to be seen by him. What would you do?

    • Freak out in the car and then start tearing up
    • Walk out and ignore him even if he talks to me
    • Get out and ignore him the best I can and hope he doesn’t see you
  • Question of

    One more imagine: Imagine you’re both in band/choir/orchestra in school and walking towards the band/choir/orchestra room but you see him in front of you. You try to be as quiet as possible but then he turns around and sees you. What would you do?

    • Start freaking out inside my head but try to act as normal as possible
    • Try to make him jealous by talking to the first boy I see that’s not him.
    • Act normal and hope he doesn’t realize I’m there
  • Question of

    Did you like this quiz?

    • No
    • Yes
    • Maybe
  • Question of

    When you see people having fun you feel.

    • jealous. why can’t that be me?
    • nothing. why should I care.
    • who? I didn’t even notice.
    • haha I’m to busy having my own fun
    • fun is fake just like happiness its all a game.
  • Question of

    Have you ever been in love?

    • I don’t believe in love
    • yes… I’m still recovering.
    • yes! still am and loving it!
    • nope!
    • never cared enough
    • don’t have time.
  • Question of

    What’s your family like?

    • I’d rather not say.
    • I don’t give a damn about them and they don’t give a damn about me.
    • I don’t have a family
    • I care but they dont
    • loving I couldnt be without them
    • I have a broken up family but still loved
  • Question of

    How do you normally feel?

    • sad, lost, alone
    • confused, hurt, normal
    • numb, pain, empty
    • happy,mixed emotions, fun
    • normal, happy, nervous
    • depressed, dead, numb
  • Question of

    Are you okay?

    • no.
    • yes.
    • I’m fine 🙂
    • im… okay!
    • lies
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Be honest do you hurt yourself?

    • Ana…
    • cut…
    • none
    • mental abuse
    • burn..
    • physical abuse..
  • Question of

    Who are you at school?

    • nerd
    • jock
    • that one kid
    • the weirdo
    • the prep
    • the hot one
  • Question of

    How do you see your future?

    • what future?
    • family, work, etc
    • death
    • I honestly don’t know
    • I don’t care
    • it will come soon enough
  • Question of

    Pick a face you wear whether fake or real

    • fake – 🙂
    • real – 🙂
    • fake – 🙁
    • real – 🙁
    • fake – 😐
    • real – 😐
  • Question of

    Last question… Have you ever thought about suicide?

    • yes….
    • no!
    • maybe..
    • I would never!
    • I’ve tried.
    • im to scared to actually do it.

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