Are You In An Abusive Relationship?

  • Question of

    He/she is constantly calling to find out where I am, and if I don’t answer, he gets mad and calls again and again.

    • True
    • False
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    He/she puts me down by calling me names and telling me how worthless I am.

    • True
    • False
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    He/she tells his/her friends how worthless/stupid I am constantly.

    • True
    • False
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    He/she has hit me.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    He/she has tried to pressure me in to things I do not want to do.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    I have tried to break up with him/her and they won’t let me go.

    • True
    • False
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    He/she is starting not to let me get near my family and friends.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    He/she looks through my calls/texts.

    • True
    • False
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    He/she doesn’t let me go to the hospital, or take pills when I need to.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    He/she constantly accuses me of cheating.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    My partner teases me in hurtful ways and/or calls me names such as ‘STUDIP’ or ‘B—-‘ in private and in public

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner acts jealous of my friends, family, or co-workers

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
  • Question of

    My partner gets angry about clothes I wear or how I style my hair

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
  • Question of

    My partner blames me for his/her problems or bad mood

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
  • Question of

    My partner gets angry easily, leaving me walking on eggshells

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
  • Question of

    My partner uses drugs and/or alcohol and insist that I do them with him/her

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
  • Question of

    My partner throws or destroys things when he/she are angry

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
  • Question of

    My partner hits walls, drives dangerously and/or does other things to scare me

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner checks up on me by calling a lot, doing a driving by, and/or getting someone else to do it for him (i.e. STALKING)

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    I feel isolated and alone and have no one I can really talk to

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner accuses me of being interested in someone else

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner reads my mail, email, and goes thru my personal items (i.e. purse, cell phone, check book)

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner keeps money from me, keeps me in debt, makes me ask/beg and/or has ‘money secrets or problems’

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner has threatened to hurt/Kill me and/or commit suicide if I leave him/her

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner has struck me with hands or feet (i.e. slapped, punched, kicked)leaving visible injuries (i.e. bruises, welts, cuts, broken bones)

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner has struck me with an object and/or threatened me with a weapon (i.e. gun, knife, bat, brick)

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My injuries have been serious enough to seek treatment; (i.e. doctor, hospital, clinic, paramedic) even if I didn’t seek medical help

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS
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    My partner forces me to have sex when I don’t want to and/or have sex in ways I don’t want to

    • NEVER
    • RARELY
    • SOMETIMES
    • FREQUENTLY
    • ALWAYS

Should we break up?

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