Are you in love, lust, or just have problems?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Where She Went

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, I’ll Give You the Sun

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How often do you see your crush?

    • Every single day, as much as possible, multiple times a day
    • Often, but not as much as you can, a few times a day
    • Rarely or never.
    • Every once in a while, maybe once a day
  • Question of

    How often do you talk to your crush?

    • Rarely or never
    • Very often
    • Whenever you see him/her
    • If you get the opportunity to you might try to talk to them
  • Question of

    Have you ever wanted to kiss your crush?

    • Maybe, if you think they are attractive
    • Oh yea baby, give me some sugar
    • Not really
    • Yes, I dream about it all day and night
  • Question of

    Have you ever kissed your crush?

    • Never
    • Yes, on the lips and more
    • Yes, maybe on the lips, maybe on the cheek
    • Maybe once, on the cheek, just a hello kiss
  • Question of

    Have you ever imagined having sex with your crush?

    • I have; but I don’t let it abuse my complete view on him/her
    • Not really
    • All the time; it’s too bad I can’t get any
    • I guess a few times; I like him/her enough to
  • Question of

    Have you ever had sex with your crush?

    • No, but I want to
    • No, and I don’t want to
    • Yes, but we only have done it on rare occasions to show our affection towards each other
    • Our relationship is all about sex, I always need more, but I don’t know if he/she wants more
  • Question of

    What physically do you like about your crush?

    • Their hair or eyes or body
    • I’m not sure, I can’t explain it.
    • Everything
    • Their sexual areas
  • Question of

    Do you like the same movies, books, TV shows, etv?

    • For the most part; yes; and even if there are a few that we don’t agree on, we’ll still watch them for each other
    • Yup, I’m pretty sure
    • Maybe a few, I’m not really sure though
    • I don’t think so
  • Question of

    Have you been on a date with your crush?

    • Yes, more than one, multiple places
    • Maybe once if I’m lucky
    • Never
    • Yes, but not that many
  • Question of

    Do you know each others parents?

    • Yes, but I’m not sure how’d they act together
    • Not at all
    • Maybe, but not well
    • Yes, both of our families get together greatly
  • Question of

    Do you talk about your crush to your friends?

    • Nope, you’re too afraid to.
    • Yes, he/she is so hot!
    • Possibly with your best friend or family
    • Of course, I’m confident enough with him/her that we can easily talk about each other
  • Question of

    Has your crush given you their phone number or email address?

    • Maybe their screen name, but I don’t think that he/she would give me their phone number
    • I have neither, I’m too afraid to ask.
    • Yes, we are always talking on them
    • Yes, but usually I just talk to them face to face
  • Question of

    Do you get along with their friends?

    • No, I don’t know their friends or don’t like them
    • For the most part yes, and he/she gets along with mine
    • Yes, but only to make her/him happy
    • I’m friendly towards them, but I really don’t know them
  • Question of

    What do you normally talk about with your crush?

    • Everything that exists in my life
    • Sometimes what we have in common, not that much
    • Nothing, or we just say hi and bye.
    • What we have in common, and maybe something sexual
  • Question of

    Have you told your crush your deepest and darkest secrets?

    • Maybe one or two, but I don’t know if I can trust them
    • Yes, to improve our relationship
    • Some of them
    • None, I can’t trust him/her, or I’m too afraid to
  • Question of

    If you were to make a big mistake in your relationship with him/her, what do you think would happen?

    • I really don’t know him/her, so there would be no mistake to make
    • We’d probably dump each other OR I don’t think I know him/her well enough for a mistake to happen between us
    • I’m not sure, maybe if he/she is incredibly persistent about it
    • It would be tough, but we would find a way to appease each other and love each other again
  • Question of

    Your crush is really sick, so you:

    • See what you can do to make them feel better, and give a 90% effort into it
    • Tell them that you hope that they feel better
    • Go to their house and do whatever will make him/her feel better
    • Feel bad for him/her
  • Question of

    Your secret about your crush/love leaks out. What do you do?

    • You’re pissed, but not too pissed, because you never told anyone about it
    • You’re very pissed, and go to see how it leaked
    • What crush?
    • Nothing, we love each other enough that we show our affection outwards often
  • Question of

    Does you’re crush already have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

    • I don’t think so which is why I’m attempting to go out with him/her
    • Definitely, and they are really in love.
    • Yes, but you think it won’t last
    • Nope, I’m going out with him/her
  • Question of

    You notice that your crush is going through depression because of family problems, friend problems, or any other very difficult issues. What do you do?

    • Try to do everything in your power without having to go through too much work
    • Do everything that is in your power to do. That even means calling the police if you have.
    • Send your condolences
    • Hope that they can find a way to make things better.

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