Are you in love with a player? (girls)


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Firstly, what’s your age and what is the age difference between you and your crush?

    • 13 or under [Same age/less than or two years difference]
    • 13 or under [More than two years older than me]
    • 14-17 [Same age/less than or three years difference]
    • 14-17 [More than three years older]
    • 18+ [Age gap is not significant in this context]
  • Question of

    For how long have you known him/each other?

    • Since we were babies/little kids.
    • 1-4 years.
    • Less than a year.
    • A month or less.
    • A week or less.
  • Question of

    Where did you meet him/get to know each other?

    • School.
    • He is my parents’ friends’ child.
    • Internet.
    • Nightclub/other social places.
    • Other.
  • Question of

    What’s your relationship with him? (try to be honest)

    • I don’t think he’s even aware of my existence.
    • Acquaintances (less than friends but still know each other).
    • Friends.
    • Friends with benefits.
    • Boyfriend-girlfriend.
  • Question of

    How does he interact with other girls in the same age group?

    • I don’t know, I haven’t seen him interacting with other girls.
    • Same as with me.
    • Colder than with me/No interaction.
    • Depends who they are and how much he knows them.
    • Other.
  • Question of

    What was the most intimate interaction between you?

    • Nothing.
    • Touch of a hand.
    • Hug/Holding hands.
    • Kiss on the cheeks.
    • Kiss on the lips and/or sex.
  • Question of

    How often does he tease you?

    • Never/rarely.
    • Sometimes.
    • Often.
    • A lot.
    • Always.
  • Question of

    Who does he tease?

    • Only me.
    • Mostly me and sometimes other girls as well.
    • Both me and other girls.
    • Just other girls.
    • No-one.
  • Question of

    How often does he make sexual comments/references?

    • He doesn’t.
    • Rarely.
    • Sometimes.
    • Often.
    • A lot/always.
  • Question of

    Who does he say them to?

    • No-one because he doesn’t.
    • Only to me.
    • Both to me and other girls.
    • Only to other girls.
    • To everyone.
  • Question of

    How often is he on his phone when you’re there?

    • Never/rarely.
    • Sometimes/quite often.
    • Sometimes/often, and he is texting people.
    • Sometimes/often, he is playing games, watching videos or listening to music mostly.
    • I don’t know, I never see him/have never met him.
  • Question of

    Are there any pictures of the two of you on social websites?

    • We aren’t together, and no.
    • We aren’t together but yes, there are.
    • We are together, but no.
    • We are together, but no, we don’t want to make it public.
    • We are together and yes, there are.
  • Question of

    How long does he maintain eye contact with you?

    • He never really looks at me, maybe just a few glances.
    • He often glances at me and we hold the eye contact for maybe one or two seconds.
    • He often looks at me and we hold the eye contact for two to four seconds.
    • He might be looking at me, I don’t know, as I break eye contact with him.
    • We hadn’t had the chance to see each other.
  • Question of

    Did he ever try to find an opportunity when he can be alone with you (where there were people around you)? If yes, what was the place?

    • No/we’ve never met.
    • Yes, it was in a crowded area. We then stood a bit further away from the crowd.
    • Yes, it was in one of the rooms in a house (can be bedroom but without anything serious).
    • Yes, it was in the bedroom on a more serious level with lots of intimacy.
    • Other.
  • Question of

    Is he over-confident or does he show arrogance?

    • No/He knows his strengths and weaknesses.
    • Yes, but in a funny way.
    • Yes, especially if it’s to do with girls and women.
    • Yes, and I don’t think he even cares.
    • No, I think he actually has a low self-esteem.
  • Question of

    Is he in a relationship?

    • I don’t know.
    • No.
    • Yes.
    • Yes, with me thank you very much.
    • Yes, but he seems quite flirty with other girls.
  • Question of

    How do you think he would react if you told him you want to be more than just friends with him?

    • He wouldn’t really know how to react, since he doesn’t know me that much.
    • He would probably say no.
    • I don’t think he would mind going out with me, even though he has a girlfriend.
    • He would probably say yes, even though I don’t know if he has a girlfriend or not.
    • I already am more than just friends with him.
  • Question of

    What do other people say about him?

    • I don’t know, I didn’t hear anything about him.
    • He is quite shy and reserved around girls. He might not even be interested in them.
    • He is mean and can be a jerk.
    • He is popular around girls (even if I know and didn’t hear it from other people).
    • He is a player/playboy.
  • Question of

    Final question: How often do you talk with each other (in person)?

    • Rarely/we don’t talk in person.
    • All he does is teasing me. We don’t really talk properly.
    • Quite often, about casual topics.
    • Sometimes/often, and it’s flirtious and/or playful sometimes.
    • All the time, on a daily basis.

Is he a player or does he like me?

Is the guy you’re talking to a fboy?