Are You In Love With Your Crush?

 

“He loved her for almost everything she was & she decided that was enough to let him stay for a very long time.”
Brian Andreas

“Through my love for you, I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity, and all beings. By living with you, I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth… This is the real message of love.”
Thich Nhat Hanh,

“Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart.”
Christina Westover

“I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“That’s why I loved being with you. We could do the simplest things, like toss starfish into the ocean and share a burger and talk and even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn’t constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me. And nothing else mattered– not my family or your family or anyone else in the world. It was just us.”
Nicholas Sparks,

“You like every one; that is to say, you are indifferent to every one.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Rejection is an opportunity for your selection.”
Bernard Branson

“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere.”
Tim McGraw

“Annabeth,” he said hesitantly, “in New Rome, demigods can live their whole lives in peace.”
Rick Riordan,

“He wasn’t the type for displays of affection, either verbal or not. He was disgusted by couples that made out in the hallways between classes, and got annoyed at even the slightest sappy moments in movies. But I knew he cared about me: he just conveyed it more subtly, as concise with expressing this emotion as he was with everything else. It was in the way he’d put his hand on the small of my back, for instance, or how he’d smile at me when I said something that surprised him. Once I might have wanted more, but I’d come around to his way of thinking in the time we’d been together. And we were together, all the time. So he didn’t have to prove how he felt about me. Like so much else, I should just know.”
Sarah Dessen,

“You fit into me
Margaret Atwood

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
Mandy Hale,

“When God knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.”
Joshua Harris,

“I won’t telephone him. I’ll never telephone him again as long as I live. He’ll rot in hell, before I’ll call him up. You don’t have to give me strength, God; I have it myself. If he wanted me, he could get me. He knows where I am. He knows I’m waiting here. He’s so sure of me, so sure. I wonder why they hate you, as soon as they are sure of you.”
Dorothy Parker,

“We ruined each other by being together. We destroyed each other’s dreams.”
Kate Chisman,

“You Can’t Lose Something You Never Had”
Kate G. Hudson

“Don’t worry about hurting me, if that’s what you’re afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.”
Katie Kacvinsky,

“Perfectly Imperfect
Steve Maraboli,

“If you’re trapped in the dream of the Other, you’re fucked.”
Gilles Deleuze

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you like to show him off to your friends?

    • Totally! I point him out whenever I see him!
    • Not really. I think they won’t approve
  • Question of

    Whenever you see him do you say hi? or just kind of glance over and mumble the word hi?

    • No i don’t like to say hi, i think he’ll come over to talk to me. Then what do i say?
    • Yeah, but only when my friends aren’t around. I think that they’ll judge me.
  • Question of

    Have you ever told your friends about him?

    • Like Every day! They think it’s totally awesome that he might like me too!
    • Sometimes. But only when they bring stuff like that up.
  • Question of

    When your around him do you get nervous?

    • All the time!
    • Like never! I’m usually the one rushing up to him to start a conversation!
  • Question of

    Does he even know your name?

    • No. ‘sad’ ‘sad’
    • Yep. He says it every day! He says that he thinks its cute!
  • Question of

    If he rides the same bus as you, does he sit by you?

    • Yeah sometimes!
    • Not really, he kind of sits by his friends a lot.
  • Question of

    Has he every (meaningfully) looked into your eyes?

    • No way
    • Yeah omg! there was this one time…….
  • Question of

    When you look at him do you look at the outside or the inside?

    • Inside
    • Outside
  • Question of

    How long have you liked him/her?

    • For more than a year
    • For several months to a year
    • For a few weeks to several months
  • Question of

    Do you think about him/her before you fall asleep?

    • Yes! And just thinking about him/her helps me fall asleep
    • Yeah, sometimes, but not that often
    • No, I prefer to think about other things then
  • Question of

    How do you feel when you talk to this person?

    • Oh, you know – those annoying little butterflies flutter around…I can’t stop smiling and I sometimes say things that don’t even make sense. And then I blush. I feel good:)
    • I feel like I talk to a normal person. Well, of course, there is that little bit of embarrassment – because, y’know, I like him/her….: P
    • I feel happy, but it’s not the butterfly thing. It’s nice talking to them and it kinda fixes my mood. Kinda
  • Question of

    Whenever you read something he/she wrote that refers to you (even as a friend), or recall an activity you two shared, how do you feel?

    • I feel happy. Like, really happy. Happy he/she actually considers me a friend and not just someone they don’t really know, or a weirdo
    • I don’t feel anything. It’s just a text. (OK, maybe I feel a LITTLE excited)
    • It all starts with that stupid smile – the one that makes me look like a happy, drunk horse: P Then I feel happy, and my heart seems to beat a little faster. Just a little, ’cause it’s just a text
  • Question of

    Whenever he/she touches you, how does your body react?

    • It doesn’t do anything in particular. We just touched each other’s skin. I guess I feel a bit embarrassed, if anything
    • I feel embarrassed…and a little bit happy that I touched his/her skin
    • Well, I blush. For sure. Then I have a pleasant feeling, and can barely keep from smiling. I also feel a bit embarrassed
  • Question of

    Have you ever had a fantasy about you and him/her kissing, hugging or even having sex? If you did, did you feel comfortable with it?

    • Yes, but not sex. I’ve imagined kissing and hugging them, though. I did not feel COMPLETELY comfortable with the thoughts, but they were still nice
    • I’ve imagined hugging or cuddling only. It felt nice. But kissing or sex, no. Well, MAYBE kissing – but definitely not sex
    • Well, yeah, I did. Even the sex part. And I was surprised that I felt completely comfortable with it. I even enjoyed it. Quite a lot, actually
  • Question of

    Imagine him or her getting hurt. How do you feel?

    • I feel bad, but it doesn’t hurt my heart at all. I mean, he/she will heal, after all
    • Oh God, no! I don’t even want to imagine that. It would feel awful….It would hurt really bad
    • It doesn’t feel good at all, but I can’t say that it really hurts
  • Question of

    If he/she suddenly changed something with their outward appearance (dyed his/her hair blue, got piercings, or did anything else to drastically alter their looks), would you still like him/her?

    • Well, at first it would be a bit hard to accept it, but I would get used to it and it would be OK
    • Of course! I don’t care what he/she does in that sense. I like his/her character. When you are in love, you don’t care so much about appearance
    • Umm….I don’t think so. Probably not. Well, maybe it’d be OK eventually
  • Question of

    You are checking your Facebook wall. As you scroll down you see a status of him/her saying that they are newly ‘In a Relationship.’ How do you feel?

    • I’m sad. Really sad. I cry a bit, and I am miserable for a couple of weeks or so. But I will slowly get used to it, and continue to like him/her
    • I will try to get over him/her. They now have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and I will move on. It’s not that difficult
    • It hurts. A lot. Like, that he/she won’t be able to like me back now. But after a while, I realize he/she will be happy. So I am happy for him/her
  • Question of

    Could you get over him/her?

    • It’s possible, but will be EXTREMELY hard. Wait – I don’t even think it’s possible. I like him/her so much!
    • Well, yeah, I guess, but it would be a huge challenge
    • Well, as I said before, it’s possible

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