Are you just dreaming your fantasies?


“He loved her for almost everything she was & she decided that was enough to let him stay for a very long time.”
Brian Andreas

“Through my love for you, I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity, and all beings. By living with you, I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth… This is the real message of love.”
Thich Nhat Hanh,

“Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart.”
Christina Westover

“I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“That’s why I loved being with you. We could do the simplest things, like toss starfish into the ocean and share a burger and talk and even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn’t constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me. And nothing else mattered– not my family or your family or anyone else in the world. It was just us.”
Nicholas Sparks,

“You like every one; that is to say, you are indifferent to every one.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Rejection is an opportunity for your selection.”
Bernard Branson

“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere.”
Tim McGraw

“Annabeth,” he said hesitantly, “in New Rome, demigods can live their whole lives in peace.”
Rick Riordan,

“He wasn’t the type for displays of affection, either verbal or not. He was disgusted by couples that made out in the hallways between classes, and got annoyed at even the slightest sappy moments in movies. But I knew he cared about me: he just conveyed it more subtly, as concise with expressing this emotion as he was with everything else. It was in the way he’d put his hand on the small of my back, for instance, or how he’d smile at me when I said something that surprised him. Once I might have wanted more, but I’d come around to his way of thinking in the time we’d been together. And we were together, all the time. So he didn’t have to prove how he felt about me. Like so much else, I should just know.”
Sarah Dessen,

“You fit into me
Margaret Atwood

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
Mandy Hale,

“When God knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.”
Joshua Harris,

“I won’t telephone him. I’ll never telephone him again as long as I live. He’ll rot in hell, before I’ll call him up. You don’t have to give me strength, God; I have it myself. If he wanted me, he could get me. He knows where I am. He knows I’m waiting here. He’s so sure of me, so sure. I wonder why they hate you, as soon as they are sure of you.”
Dorothy Parker,

“We ruined each other by being together. We destroyed each other’s dreams.”
Kate Chisman,

“You Can’t Lose Something You Never Had”
Kate G. Hudson

“Don’t worry about hurting me, if that’s what you’re afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.”
Katie Kacvinsky,

“Perfectly Imperfect
Steve Maraboli,

“If you’re trapped in the dream of the Other, you’re fucked.”
Gilles Deleuze

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Are you currently in a monogamous relationship? Is there one and only one person in your life you’re making love to?

    • There is one main person but I see others occasionally
    • I have no one special at this point.
    • Yes, just one, and I’m totally faithful.
    • There are several people I see and make love with.
  • Question of

    Is there someone (or several) in your life you are currently flirting with besides your partner? Do you seek them out for conversations or make efforts to see them at work, etc.?

    • No one
    • There are several I’m flirting with
    • There is one person who comes to mind
  • Question of

    Is there currently someone in your life besides your partner who excites you sexually? For example, when you see them, does your breath quicken, do you feel flushed, do you find yourself becoming sexually aroused, even a little?

    • There are several
    • There is one person
    • No, no one
  • Question of

    Is there someone you know from work or socially who causes you to have sexual thoughts? Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be with them or fantasized about them?

    • There is a person who makes me feel this way.
    • I have fantasies about many people.
    • I have explicit fantasies about a person.
    • No one.
  • Question of

    Would you ever take the step of going from sexual thoughts/fantasies about a person to actively entering a sexual relationship with them?

    • I wouldn’t do it because of the possible consequences.
    • I would never consider it.
    • If the right circumstances exist I might do it.
    • I have done so.
  • Question of

    What is your reason for being attracted to someone outside your relationship?

    • The person is just more exciting than my lover.
    • I am not now, but have been in the past.
    • My partner is boring–I need more excitement/stimulation.
    • I am not and have never been.
    • My partner doesn’t meet my needs.
  • Question of

    What makes this person more desirable than your partner?

    • He/she is more available than my partner.
    • I don’t know why, I just feel that way!
    • He/she is better looking or physically more attractive than my partner.
    • He/she is more caring or interested in me.
    • No one is more desirable than my partner.
  • Question of

    How far have you taken your flirting?

    • I flirt with them openly and shamelessly and make sure they know I’m available.
    • I make sure I look good whenever I think I’ll see this person.
    • I’ve engaged in sexual banter, joking or innuendo with this person.
    • I try to make every effort I can to talk to or see this person.
    • I haven’t done anything outwardly.
  • Question of

    Does the person you’re flirting with know your feelings?

    • They know, and it is possible we’ll have a relationship.
    • I know he/she doesn’t.
    • They know and we joke around, but would never get serious.
    • They know, but they don’t respond.
    • They haven’t given an indication.
  • Question of

    How is your love relationship with your current partner?

    • It is excellent. We are totally attuned. I couldn’t be happier.
    • It is boring. We are in a rut and seldom do anything different.
    • It is horrible. We don’t make love and fight constantly.
    • I am looking for a way out.
    • It is mismatched. He/she wants things I don’t and vice versa.

How your perfect man/woman will be?

Do you know what love and life are truly about?