Are You Meant To Be?

 

“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.”
John Joseph Powell, The Secret of Staying in Love

“I was suffering the easily foreseeable consequences. Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never dared to admit you wanted-an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with a hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is witheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore– despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have ‘that thing’ even one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you’re someone he’s never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is,you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You’re a pathetic mess,unrecognizable even to your own eyes. So that’s it. You have now reached infatuation’s final destination– the complete and merciless devaluation of self.” – pg 20-21”
Elizabeth Gilbert Sputnik Sweetheart

“Of course it hurt that we could never love each other in a physical way. We would have been far more happy if we had. But that was like the tides, the change of seasons–something immutable, an immovable destiny we could never alter. No matter how cleverly we might shelter it, our delicate friendship wasn’t going to last forever. We were bound to reach a dead end. That was painfully clear.”
Haruki Murakami, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

“I think you are wrong to want a heart. It makes most people unhappy. If you only knew it, you are in luck not to have a heart.”
L. Frank Baum, The Wise Man’s Fear

“nothing in this world was more difficult than love.”
Gabriel García Márquez The Goddess Test

“Books are a poor substitute for female companionship, but they are easier to find.”
Patrick Rothfuss, I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence

“I care,” he said in a trembling voice. “I care so much that I do not know how to tell you without it seeming inconsequential compared to how I feel. Even if I am distant at times and seem as if I do not want to be with you, it is only because this scares me, too.”
Aimee Carter, The Indigo Spell

“Don’t leave a piece of jewelry at his house so you can go back and get it later; he may be with his real girlfriend.”
Amy Sedaris, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“Because I can’t help doing it,” he said with a shrug. “And hey, if I keep loving you, maybe you’ll eventually crack and love me too. Hell, I’m pretty sure you’re already half in love with me.”
Richelle Mead, Rules of Attraction

“All I’m telling you to do is to be smart about it. Know that if this man isn’t looking for a serious relationship, you’re not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate. You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord’s green earth-you’re capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you’re independent (which means, to him, that you’re not going to be in his pockets)-but if he’s not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.”
Steve Harvey, Emma

“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.”
Shannon L. Alder Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“We kiss all the time.” I clear my throat, then add, “We just…do it in private.”
Simone Elkeles, I Wrote This For You

“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised or a little mistaken.”
Jane Austen, Max

“I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.”
Steve Maraboli, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You’re just another story I can’t tell anymore.”
pleasefindthis, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“He could totally be your boyfriend,” [Angel] went on with annoying persistance. “You guys could get married. I could be like a junior bridesmaid. Total could be your flower dog.”
James Patterson, Breaking Bread: Insurgent Black Intellectual Life

“Moving on is easy. It’s staying moved on that’s trickier.”
Katerina Stoykova Klemer The English Patient

“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.”
Mandy Hale, Letters to a Young Poet

“A fit, healthy body—that is the best fashion statement”
Jess C Scott Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

“How would your life be different if…You walked away from gossip and verbal defamation? Let today be the day…You speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same.”
Steve Maraboli, Wicked Lovely

“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”
Shannon L. Alder All About Love: New Visions

“We have to recognise that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence.”
Cornel West, Warbreaker

“We die containing a richness of lovers and tribes, tastes we have swallowed, bodies we have plunged into and swum up as if rivers of wisdom, characters we have climbed into as if trees, fears we have hidden in as if caves.
Michael Ondaatje, How to Win Friends and Influence People

“only someone who is ready for everything, who doesn’t exclude any experience, even the most incomprehensible, will live the relationship with another person as something alive and will himself sound the depths of his own being.”
Rainer Maria Rilke, Seven Words of Jesus and Mary: Lessons from Cana and Calvary

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What Do You Both Look Like?

    • Other
    • Him: Brown hair, brown eyes. You: Blond hair brown eyes
    • Him: Blond hair, blue eyes. You: Brown hair blue eyes
  • Question of

    Do You Truly Think He Loves You?

    • Maybe
    • 100%/Definitely!
    • I don’t stand a chance
    • He could!
  • Question of

    How Long Have You Known Him?

    • Since Childhood
    • Years
    • Days
    • Months
    • Weeks
  • Question of

    Can You See Yourself Having A Future With Him?

    • Nope
    • Maybe
    • Yes!
  • Question of

    What Is He To you?

    • He doesn’t know I exist…
    • Acquaintance
    • Crush????
    • Best friend!
    • Close friend
  • Question of

    Do Your Friends Like Him?

    • Some of them do
    • If I’m happy they’re happy
    • They hate him
    • All of them love him!
  • Question of

    What’s Do You Like About Him?

    • He’s funny and kind ????
    • His looks
    • My friend likes him so
    • He’s rich
  • Question of

    Do You Know Everything About Him?

    • I know everything that is crucial
    • I know some important stuff
    • He doesn’t know I exist:(
    • I don’t even know his last name
  • Question of

    Does your crush ever come over to you, even when you are having a conversation with friends?

    • Yes, every day
    • Sometimes
    • No never
    • He always ignores me
    • He comes a lot – to complain
  • Question of

    Does your crush ever ask you the same question like everyday?

    • He asks me this one thing over and over again
    • He does ask one thing about once a week
    • He asks me various things
    • He never asks me anything
    • He asks me stuff like when I will leave
  • Question of

    So if he does ask you a question, what does he ask?

    • Something like ‘are you ok?’
    • Something like ‘where are you going?’
    • Something like ‘wanna come round with us?’
    • Something like ‘what bus do you go on?’
    • He asks me none of these
    • He never asks me anything except go away
  • Question of

    Has he ever said he wants to come to your house?

    • He has come to my house already
    • He did come to my house, but thats only because my brother is his best friend
    • He wants to come but he is not allowed
    • He came on my bus once though when he was going to this other guys house
    • Sometimes he asks what bus I go on
    • He never mentions the subject
  • Question of

    Does you ever sit by each other in lessons?

    • I always sit my him and my bestie
    • I would but I’m too scared too
    • I want to but y friends make me sit by them
    • He usually sits in his gang
    • We have to go in the seats our teacher puts us in
    • He stays as far away from me as possible
  • Question of

    Does your crush like you and does he want to go out with you too?

    • Yes I know for a fact he wants to go out with me
    • I am pretty sure he does
    • He has asked me out before but I was way to scared to say yes
    • He might do, he talks to me a lot
    • He has never said
    • No he hates me
  • Question of

    How old is your crush compared to you?

    • We were both born on the same day
    • He is about 1-6 months older
    • He is younger, but only by about a month
    • He is younger than me by a lot
    • He is between 1-4 years older than me
    • He is over five years older than me
  • Question of

    Has he ever told you stuff when there is no one else around?

    • He told me to go on Facebook
    • He waved at me when I was sat on the bus and he was on the floor
    • He has, but only stuff like asking what next lesson is
    • He told me he would go out with me if I asked him out first
    • He only talks to me when I am with my friends
    • He never speaks to me
  • Question of

    Does he know everything about you?

    • Yep, everything from my fave food to my fave magazine
    • He knows who my friends are and my fave school subject and stuff like that
    • He might do, my friends might have told him
    • I don’t know
    • I really need to talk to him
    • Nope, he has never aked and he never lets me ask him
  • Question of

    Out of these personalities, which of them do you and your crush both act like?

    • We are both crazy
    • We are both confident
    • We are both shy
    • We are both loud
    • We are both funny
    • We are both cute
  • Question of

    This is the end of my quiz. How would you say goodbye if you were saying goodbye to your crush?

    • Bye then
    • See you tomorrow
    • See ya! *smile*
    • *Ignores*
    • *waves*
    • *runs away*
  • Question of

    How often do you see each other?

    • Hardly ever…
    • Every once in a while
    • All the time!
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    What Have You Done Together?

    • High fived
    • Kissed
    • We’ve never met
    • Hugged
  • Question of

    Does He Compliment You Often?

    • Sometimes
    • All the time!
    • Not really no
  • Question of

    What’s His Personality Like?

    • Flirty and Funny
    • Kind and Sweet
    • Funny and Shy

Relationship Test: Are you meant to be?

Are you meant to be together?