Are you meant to be together?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Is he/she jealous about other females/men?

    • Yes. He/she doesn’t want me even to meet other people because of it.
    • A little sometimes. I think it’s so cute!
    • No, not at all.
    • I don’t know.
    • Yes, all the time. I can’t understand why!
  • Question of

    Are you afraid of showing him/her all of your flaws?

    • No, but I’m trying to avoid showing them.
    • Yes… I think he/she will leave me after showing them.
    • A bit.
    • She/he has already seen them.
    • Yes – he/she’s very judgmental.
  • Question of

    Does she/he wish you good morning and good night?

    • Sometimes
    • Every day!
    • Never/seldom.
    • He/she did before but not anymore.
    • Almost every day.
  • Question of

    Do you have the same beliefs/ the same religion?

    • No but that won’t be a problem.
    • No but he/she is interested about my religion.
    • Yes.
    • No and it may cause some problems.
    • No but I’m interested about his/her religion.
  • Question of

    How close to each other do you live?

    • We live in the same town/city.
    • We live in the same country/state.
    • We live on the same continental.
    • She/he lives on the other side of the world.
    • We’re neighbors.
  • Question of

    How often do you see each other?

    • Almost every day.
    • Once in a month.
    • We’ve never met face to face.
    • Once in a year.
    • Every week.
  • Question of

    What did you think about this quiz? (Does not count towards the score).

    • Not bad.
    • I didn’t like it.
    • Okay.
    • I loved it!
    • I liked it!
  • Question of

    What did you think about him/her when you met for the first time?

    • Doesn’t seem too bad. Maybe he/she’s a bit better on the inside?
    • Wow, what a cutie! He/she seems to be so nice! I should probably introduce myself.
    • Ehh… No thanks, not for me.
    • Who is this? I haven’t met him/her before. Looks cute, though.
    • Oh… Well, he/she’s got his/her own style. Not exactly my type but okay, let’s see where this will end.
  • Question of

    How did you meet each other?

    • We met in a bar/ on the street/ somewhere public.
    • We have common friends.
    • We go/went to the same school/work.
    • We have a common hobby or the same religion etc.
    • I found him/her on the Internet. (including gaming etc.)
  • Question of

    Do you like his/her looks?

    • Not the best, but that’s not so important (though it could be better).
    • Yes, he/she is very attractive and handsome/ beautiful.
    • He/she looks good. Pretty much like the average.
    • OH YES! He/she looks just so gorgeous! Couldn’t be any better! I’m amazed.
    • Eww, no. Showering would be a good idea.
  • Question of

    What do you think about his/her smell?

    • Eww! He/she smells like a rubbish bin!
    • He/she smells very good. I like that.
    • I’m not sure if I have sniffed at him/her in that way… But at least not bad since I can’t remember it.
    • Too many different smells from different sources (hair, perfume, her/his own smell, deodorant…) but they’re all good.
    • I’m speechless… I could spend my whole day just sniffing at him/her! It’s my favorite scent.
  • Question of

    What’s the best thing in him/her?

    • She/he’s the average by the looks, but his/her nature is incredible.
    • His/her body, definitely. It’s so sexy!
    • I love his/her eyes and smile.
    • Nothing is best about him/her.
    • Every single thing in him/her! His/her smile and looks, his/her nature… Oh, I just love him/her!
  • Question of

    How often do you speak to each other? (phone calls, texting, face to face…)

    • He/she texts me once in a while but I’m not willing to speak as often as he/she.
    • We speak constantly and know about each other’s days more than anyone else.
    • Once or twice in a week?
    • We try to speak more often but hobbies etc. take most of the time.
    • I want to speak but he/she doesn’t. Which means that we don’t speak that much.
  • Question of

    How much do you argue?

    • Sometimes but we always make our way through it.
    • We argue all the time which causes damage to our relationship.
    • We never argue because we agree about everything.
    • I’m afraid of bringing up my own thoughts because when I do, it makes us argue.
    • We’ve argued once or twice but those things are gone for good.
  • Question of

    Is there or has there ever been any intimate partner violence between you?

    • Yes, there is.
    • No, never has been neither is going to be.
    • No but I’m afraid of it to happen.
    • There was but not anymore.
    • There was once, and I’m afraid about it to happen again.
  • Question of

    What is your relationship status?

    • We’re married.
    • We’re in a relationship.
    • We just met.
    • We just got parted.
    • We’re planning on getting married.
  • Question of

    Do you love him/her?

    • I’m not sure… Not yet at least.
    • A little.
    • NO.
    • I do, pretty much.
    • YES! I’m totally in love with him/her.
  • Question of

    Does he/she love you?

    • I know he does. He keeps telling it to me and replies every time I say it to him/her.
    • Seems so!
    • He/she has told it to me a few times.
    • He keeps telling it to me but it must be a lie.
    • No, not anymore.
  • Question of

    Does she/he touch you?

    • She/he seems to avoid it, don’t know why.
    • No.
    • Every second we spend together. Hugs, kisses, gentle touches…
    • When he/she hugs or kisses me, then yes.
    • Only when forced into it.
  • Question of

    Do you ever feel bad because of him/her?

    • Never.
    • Sometimes.
    • Seldom.
    • Yes, all the time.
    • Only because I miss him/her.
  • Question of

    What’s your opinion about your common future?

    • We’ll be happily married.
    • We won’t last forever but I enjoy the time we spend together.
    • I don’t want to think about it.
    • We won’t last too long, maybe a few months or a couple of years.
    • We won’t have a common future.
  • Question of

    How does he/she affect on your self confidence?

    • He tries to cheer me up when I feel bad.
    • He/she makes no difference on it.
    • He/she puts it down.
    • I don’t have a self confidence.
    • He/she always raises me up when I’m feeling low.
  • Question of

    Why did you choose him/her?

    • He/she’s rich and has good educated parents.
    • Because of his/her looks, of course.
    • I didn’t choose him/her!
    • Because I love her/him.
    • I don’t know/ none of these.
  • Question of

    What does your parents think about him/her?

    • They don’t accept him/her as a part of my life.
    • They haven’t met him/her yet.
    • They don’t like him/her but they let me do my own choices.
    • They love him/her!
    • I don’t want them to know about him/her.
  • Question of

    What does his/her parents think about you?

    • They tell me to leave their daughter/son alone.
    • They like me!
    • I don’t want to meet them.
    • They seem not to like me.
    • I haven’t me them yet.
  • Question of

    What do you think about his/her nature?

    • Not a perfect match with mine but close enough for us to work.
    • It’s perfect for me!
    • I hate it! He/she’s just a wreck.
    • I really like it.
    • Well, not my type.
  • Question of

    How does your communication work?

    • It’s very good. we speak about everything and respect each others opinions.
    • We don’t speak enough. That’s a problem.
    • It’s not working. Has never worked. Will never work.
    • We speak a lot but I feel like something essential is missing.
    • I like the way we speak about all kinds of stuff, but we rarely speak about problems.
  • Question of

    Do you trust him/her?

    • No, not at all.
    • I really do but I couldn’t tell him/her about my darkest secrets.
    • Enough to tell him/her some things3 about my life but not all the way.
    • Yes, 100%.
    • I catch her/him about lying once in a while, but I try to trust him/her.
  • Question of

    Do you have common interests?

    • We have plenty of interests in common.
    • We have nothing in common.
    • One thing or two.
    • Yes, (almost) every interest we have is in common.
    • Many of them are the same but not even close to all of them.
  • Question of

    How long have you known each other?

    • A few weeks.
    • Less than a year.
    • 1-3 years.
    • Over 10 years.
    • 4-10 years.

Are You Meant To Be?

Are You Meant To Be? (11-13 year olds only please)