Are you meant to be?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, I’ll Give You the Sun

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Where She Went

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What’s the age difference between you and your girl/boyfriend?

    • a year
    • a few weeks
    • a few months
    • over a year
    • a few days
  • Question of

    Are you committed to your girl/boyfriend?

    • only if he/she is
    • yes
    • no
    • I’m not sure
    • maybe
  • Question of

    If they asked for a favor would you do it?

    • no its not my responsibility
    • definitely I would do anything for them
    • it depends on the favor
  • Question of

    If you saw your special someone kissing another person would you…

    • confront them about it?
    • ignore it and act as if nothings wrong?
    • just dump them on the spot and not tell them why?
  • Question of

    If he/she bought you a gift for Christmas and they spent $50 on you but you only spent $40 on them what would you do?

    • give them $10 added to the gift
    • don’t worry about it, it was their idea to spend that much
    • give them that gift but next holiday spend extra on them
  • Question of

    How long would/did it take them to say ‘I love you’?

    • couple weeks
    • a few hours
    • months
    • a year
    • a few days
  • Question of

    How often do you feel that they may be cheating on you?

    • Always
    • Sometimes
    • Never
    • Only when they ignore me
    • Occasionally
  • Question of

    Do they ignore you when their friends are around?

    • yes
    • no
    • sometimes
  • Question of

    How often in a months time do they tell you they love you?

    • over 20
    • 0-10
    • 11-20
  • Question of

    Do they ever make you cry?

    • sometimes
    • no
    • yes
  • Question of

    How many times a week do you see them?

    • 4-6
    • 0-3
    • 7 and over
  • Question of

    What word best describes yor relationship?

    • Perfect
    • Horrible
    • Nightmare
    • Enjoyable
  • Question of

    Do you like spending time with them?

    • yes
    • sometimes
    • no
  • Question of

    what do your friends think of them?

    • They hate them
    • They think they’re perfect
    • They think they’re ok
  • Question of

    Have you met each others parents?

    • We both met each others
    • I met theirs but they didn’t meet mine
    • Neither of us met each other
    • They met mine but I didn’t meet theirs
  • Question of

    Do your parents like them and do their parents like you?

    • yes
    • no
    • i don’t know
    • I think so
  • Question of

    Do you get along with their siblings? Do they get along with yours?

    • no
    • I get along with theirs but they don’t get along with mine
    • yes
    • I don’t get along with theirs but they get along with mine
  • Question of

    Are you willing to stay committed to them?

    • I’m not sure
    • yes
    • no
  • Question of

    Are they your first real love?

    • yes
    • I’ve had more than one other that I loved
    • no I’ve had one other
  • Question of

    Why did you take this test?

    • I was looking at other tests but this one caught my eye
    • I wanted to see if my relationship would last
    • my lover made me

Are you and your crush meant to be?

Are you meant to be? (Boys and girls welcome)