- Question of
Say you hated some food and your crush loved it. Do you eat just to be like him?
- Totally! Not only will I eat it, but also it will become my favorite food of all time.
- Only when he or his friends are around
- Maybe/other
- If the food is something I absolutely HATE, then no, but if it is something that I just dont really like, then Ill give it another try.
- No way! Im not sacrificing my likes for some boy!
- Question of
You see him chatting with another girl. What do you do?
- Nothing then, but later scream at the girl
- See who it is and what shes doing. It might be his sister and she might be asking him something, it might be a girl in his math class wanting to know the homework, it might be your worst enemy and shes flirting with him. Then decide what to do.
- Faint or die or other
- Nothing, why should I care?
- Go over, say hi, and pull him away from her (or at least join the conversation)
- Question of
Are your friends his friends & vice versa?
- I totally hate his friends and he totally loves mine or vice versa
- I dont even know them
- Kind of or other
- Yeah, totally, we always all hang out together.
- NO WAY!
- Question of
So he shows up at your house. What do you do?
- Other
- Get someone else to get the door but talk to him
- Why the freak are you here!
- Faint or die
- Go change your outfit to the cutest thing you have, apply a fresh coat of lip-gloss, answer the door, ask what he wants, and flirt.
- Question of
Are you comfortable with asking him out if you got the chance?
- If it was a group date
- Yeah, if the time was right
- Of course! Totally!
- Im not sure
- Duh no!
- Question of
Final Question! He asks you out! What do you do?
- Say yes, but invite your friend and her crush to come along.
- Say yes awkwardly but get your parents permission
- Apologize and say you cant and give an excuse why.
- Scream, I LOVE you so much! Of course Ill date you!
- TOTALLY DIE (7th time)
- Question of
There is someone whom you think about often. How much time do you spend thinking about him/her?
- I don’t spend any time thinking about one single person
- I think about them a few times a month
- I think about them a few times a week
- I can’t get them out of my head!
- Question of
You watch a particular person online, joining the websites that they join, posting to the forums where they post.
- No, no one interests me that much
- I may go to a site they belong to but only if it is interesting
- I join so I can keep an eye on them
- I have tracking software, have signed up for tracking sites and I know EVERYTHING that they do on their computer!
- Question of
You think about the person so much that you have trouble sleeping.
- No way! That is nuts!
- Sometimes I go to sleep thinking about them, but I am not losing sleep over them!
- I lie awake for hours thinking about them
- I can’t sleep and I have to get up to check to see if what they have done online
- Question of
You have a regular schedule of when you check up on the person (when you get up, before going to bed, etc)
- No, I have a life.
- If I think about it I may pop in, but I hardly ever think about it
- I might for a few days, then I get bored and stay away for a while
- Sure! Before I go to work, during my lunch break, when I get home from work and before I go to bed – sometimes more
- Question of
Your checking up on this person is affecting your work performance.
- No, I don’t ‘check up’ on anyone
- No, I don’t do it at work
- Well, I may lose a half an hour at work…
- My supervisor has spoken to me about my online activity or my lowered production
- Question of
You can not ‘turn off’ your thoughts about the person.
- I don’t think about anyone like that
- I think about them, but can turn it off whenever I like
- I have a little trouble turning it off
- I can not turn it off, I think about them all the time
- Question of
You neglect your spouse, children, pets and/or family because of the time you spend thinking about and checking up on the person
- I don’t check up on anyone. Don’t care.
- No, I stop when they are around and don’t do anything until they are gone/in bed
- I have not made supper before because I was checking up on the person
- My spouse has picked up my household chores because I am always online checking up on the person
- Question of
Do you continue to defend yourself and argue with people you feel attack you or talk badly about you – even if you just write it on your own blog and do not have direct contact?
- No, they would have to come to my page and attack me outright for me to even notice them – and then I would ignore them
- No, I take the path of least resistance and ignore them
- I may say something at first, then I move on
- I will come back on them for everything that they write! I will take out my own blog and write about them and say and do things just to tick them off!
- Question of
Do you ever think about hurting, scaring, intimidating, manipulating, controlling or killing a patricular person?
- No, to each his or her own
- I have thought about it fleetingly, but I was never serious
- I have thought about it but I don’t know how would do it
- I think about it and know exactly how I would do it if I had the opportunity
- Question of
When you think about the person, how do you feel?
- I don’t think about anyone like that
- Nothing at all
- I get upset and distressed, but I can distract myself and stop feeling like that
- Very upset and distressed, angry or furious and I can not make it go away (plus, I don’t want to!)
- Question of
Your crush is:
- Other
- A celebrity
- A boy I met but dont really know
- A boy I know really well or a friend
- A boy I just saw and thought he was the one for me
- Question of
You see your crush somewhere when youre with a friend. What do you do?
- Start whispering to my friend and point at him. If he looks at me, giggle and wave.
- Nothing/other
- Shut up and dont speak until I am way far away from him
- Go over, say hi, and start a conversation. I know him
- Faint or die
- Question of
Its lunchtime. Your friends are sitting down at one table and your crush is at another. You sit:
- Other
- With my crush, but die when he ignores me
- Switch off. Friends one day, crush the next
- Have a really good time with my friends. Ignore my crush.
- Beg my friends to come sit with my crush and when they do, have a really good time.
- Question of
Who knows about your crush?
- Family, a few close friends, a few not-so-close friends
- No one at all
- Anyone and everyone
- Just my diary
- My family and close friends

How obsessive are you over your crush?
