Are you ready for commitment?



We all have friends who are scared of being in any kind of commitment and this is not just towards a relationship involving romance but every other relationship in their life. This phobia can be well witnessed in their hesitation to make decisions involving other people whereas there is no such hesitation when it comes to making decisions not involving other people. It is not about how big or small the decision might be. They will fearlessly buy a house or a car or a dog but when it comes to even approaching another person for a conversation then that is something they might dread.

And now just imagine how difficult it is to be in a relationship with a person who has a commitment phobia. Therefore it is necessary to be mindful of someone who is not capable of having a relationship before falling hopelessly in love with them. Now there aren’t many signs someone who is commitment phobic might show but here are a few to keep in mind:


  1. Their past relationships are all short and/or very noncommittal.

One of the major is signs is number of short term relationships they have had in their past. If there hasn’t been any serious and long term commitment in your relationship history then take it with a grain of salt because they are less probable to have any in the future. This might be an eye opener for your own relationship as to where you are and whether or not they are more likely end it or not.


  1. They are not willing to commit to dates or nights out weeks in advance.

It is indeed difficult to commit to dates or plans made in advance if they have commitment issues. They will either cancel or make same-day plans or commit to a plan only a few days in advance. These are very evident signs to them having issues making commitment and if you have come across them then there might be a problem.


  1. They are not letting you know whether they are attending your party.

If you make a plan and never get an RSVP be it a yes or no then there might be certain commitment issues the other person might be facing. There could be a number of reasons as to why they aren’t letting you know but the is for sure that they are have commitment phobia.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    You’ve been feeling lonely lately. What do you do?

    • You start dating around to fill the void.
    • You put in extra effort to be social.
    • You hit up your ex.
  • Question of

    Your crush asks you out on a date. What do you do?

    • You’re so excited and immediately tell them yes.
    • You play hard to get and say you need to check your schedule.
    • You suggest a group hangout, you’re too nervous to be around them alone.
  • Question of

    You see your crush at a party. How do you react?

    • You make eye contact with them from across the room, walk over and start a convo.
    • You get super nervous and hide in the bathroom until you’ve calmed down.
    • You walk up to them and give them a kiss in front of everybody.
  • Question of

    Your crush goes in for a kiss at the end of your first date. How do you respond?

    • It was actually you who went in for the kiss first.
    • You give them your cheek instead.
    • You kiss them back.
  • Question of

    You see your crush in the hallway at school. What do you do?

    • You walk past them at school and wave.
    • You walk over and plant one on them so everyone knows they’re yours.
    • You give them a hug and strike up a convo.
  • Question of

    You’ve been on a few dates with your crush. Their birthday is coming up. What do you do?

    • You make a candle lit dinner for them complete with roses.
    • You text them happy birthday.
    • You take them to dinner.
  • Question of

    Your crush makes the relationship official. Do you post on social media?

    • You post a pic of the two of you on every social media platform.
    • You don’t post on social media because you’re waiting to make sure the relationship sticks.
    • You post an IG story of them with a heart emoji.
  • Question of

    You’ve been dating your partner for three months. What does it look like five years from now?

    • You and your partner are married and have kids.
    • You’re living the single life in a big city like New York. There’s no way you will still be with them.
    • You have a job and are dating someone. Not sure who though.
  • Question of

    How vocal are you with your partner about your feelings?

    • You’ll tell them you love them the second you know it’s true, even if it’s on the third date.
    • You’re open to having candid conversations with them.
    • You don’t like talking about your feelings because you don’t even really know what they are.
  • Question of

    You’ve been dating your partner for six months. What do you do?

    • You break up with them. You want to date as many people as you can before you settle down.
    • You celebrate your anniversary by going to dinner.
    • You post a sappy picture on social media talking about how lucky and in love you are with your partner.
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    Whats your longest relationship

    • 1 week
    • 1 month
    • Over 6 months
    • 1 year
    • Over 5 years
    • Over 10 years
  • Question of

    Have you ever cheated?

    • YES
    • NO
  • Question of

    How do you usually meet someone?

    • Friends
    • Family
    • Internet, Chatting etc.
    • Work
    • Yourself
    • Other

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