Are you really obsessed with your crush?

 

“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Did you tell your friends(even boys) that you like/love him?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Maybe
  • Question of

    Did you dream about kissing or having sex with him?

    • Yes
    • Hell NO!
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you stare at him when he’s not looking?

    • Yes
    • Sometimes
    • No
  • Question of

    When he talks to you, do you feel confused and don’t know what to say?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    When he touches you, does your heart beat so fast?

    • No
    • Yes
    • He never touched me anyway!
  • Question of

    Did you ever feel like you want to kiss him?

    • YES!
    • Never had never will!
    • NO!
  • Question of

    Did you ever say that you love him?(in your mind or out loud)

    • Yes, in my mind
    • Yes, i guess that everyone heard me!
    • NO!
  • Question of

    Do you feel jealous when a girl talks 2 him?

    • Sometimes
    • No
    • YES!
  • Question of

    Do you try to sit next to him even if your best friends ask you to sit with them?

    • Sometimes
    • OH YES!
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you say anything(even if its silly) just to let him talk to you?

    • No
    • Yes
    • I don’t think so
  • Question of

    There is someone whom you think about often. How much time do you spend thinking about him/her?

    • I don’t spend any time thinking about one single person
    • I think about them a few times a month
    • I think about them a few times a week
    • I can’t get them out of my head!
  • Question of

    You watch a particular person online, joining the websites that they join, posting to the forums where they post.

    • No, no one interests me that much
    • I may go to a site they belong to but only if it is interesting
    • I join so I can keep an eye on them
    • I have tracking software, have signed up for tracking sites and I know EVERYTHING that they do on their computer!
  • Question of

    You think about the person so much that you have trouble sleeping.

    • No way! That is nuts!
    • Sometimes I go to sleep thinking about them, but I am not losing sleep over them!
    • I lie awake for hours thinking about them
    • I can’t sleep and I have to get up to check to see if what they have done online
  • Question of

    You have a regular schedule of when you check up on the person (when you get up, before going to bed, etc)

    • No, I have a life.
    • If I think about it I may pop in, but I hardly ever think about it
    • I might for a few days, then I get bored and stay away for a while
    • Sure! Before I go to work, during my lunch break, when I get home from work and before I go to bed – sometimes more
  • Question of

    Your checking up on this person is affecting your work performance.

    • No, I don’t ‘check up’ on anyone
    • No, I don’t do it at work
    • Well, I may lose a half an hour at work…
    • My supervisor has spoken to me about my online activity or my lowered production
  • Question of

    You can not ‘turn off’ your thoughts about the person.

    • I don’t think about anyone like that
    • I think about them, but can turn it off whenever I like
    • I have a little trouble turning it off
    • I can not turn it off, I think about them all the time
  • Question of

    You neglect your spouse, children, pets and/or family because of the time you spend thinking about and checking up on the person

    • I don’t check up on anyone. Don’t care.
    • No, I stop when they are around and don’t do anything until they are gone/in bed
    • I have not made supper before because I was checking up on the person
    • My spouse has picked up my household chores because I am always online checking up on the person
  • Question of

    Do you continue to defend yourself and argue with people you feel attack you or talk badly about you – even if you just write it on your own blog and do not have direct contact?

    • No, they would have to come to my page and attack me outright for me to even notice them – and then I would ignore them
    • No, I take the path of least resistance and ignore them
    • I may say something at first, then I move on
    • I will come back on them for everything that they write! I will take out my own blog and write about them and say and do things just to tick them off!
  • Question of

    Do you ever think about hurting, scaring, intimidating, manipulating, controlling or killing a patricular person?

    • No, to each his or her own
    • I have thought about it fleetingly, but I was never serious
    • I have thought about it but I don’t know how would do it
    • I think about it and know exactly how I would do it if I had the opportunity
  • Question of

    When you think about the person, how do you feel?

    • I don’t think about anyone like that
    • Nothing at all
    • I get upset and distressed, but I can distract myself and stop feeling like that
    • Very upset and distressed, angry or furious and I can not make it go away (plus, I don’t want to!)

Are You Obsessed With Your Crush?

Are you obsessed?