Are You Really Over Him?

 

“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Where She Went

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, I’ll Give You the Sun

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you cry thinking about him?

    • A tear comes out
    • I use to be really bad but I’m good now
    • Never
    • I cry my eyes out
  • Question of

    Do you still talk to him?

    • Every time I see him
    • I talk to him all the time
    • I could never talk to him ever again
    • I just say hi in the hallways or in the streets because I don’t want to be rude
  • Question of

    How long has it been since you guys broke up?

    • 1 – 2 months ago
    • 5 – 8 months ago
    • 3 – 4 months ago
    • 9 plus
  • Question of

    Not that this has anything to do with your result but did you like this quiz?

    • It was okay
    • Why are you asking me
    • Yes, I found it very helpful
    • Just give me my results
  • Question of

    Do you spend a lot of time on social media?

    • No, I never do.
    • Only in moments of great weakness
    • Most days I do.
    • Every day
  • Question of

    Do you want to still be friends with people even if they have done you wrong?

    • No, that makes no sense.
    • Sometimes I do.
    • Yes, I wish I could be.
    • Sure, I appreciate friendship.
  • Question of

    How often do you text people you’re dating?

    • Never
    • Once a week or so
    • Every day
    • Every hour
  • Question of

    How emotional are you?

    • Not at all. Gross.
    • I don’t think I am.
    • I can be.
    • Totally emotional
  • Question of

    Do you have any nicknames?

    • No, that would be odd.
    • No, I always kind of wanted one though.
    • I used to have one.
    • Yes, and I love it.
  • Question of

    Are you imaginative?

    • I don’t think I am really.
    • I think so, but doesn’t everyone think so?
    • Sure I am.
    • Yes, I am so imaginative.
  • Question of

    Do you have a type?

    • Seriously? No.
    • I don’t think so, but now that you mention it.
    • Maybe a little
    • Totally
  • Question of

    Do you think of your ex when being romantic with someone else?

    • No, that is nasty.
    • No, that is not my vibe.
    • Sometimes I do briefly.
    • All the time
  • Question of

    How many books are on your nightstand waiting to be read?

    • None
    • 1
    • 2
    • 3 or more
  • Question of

    Do you think a lot about whether people like you?

    • I never think about it.
    • Sometimes
    • I do a lot.
    • I do all the time.
  • Question of

    How often do you think about him?

    • All the time
    • Never
    • Random moments
    • Once in awhile
  • Question of

    Do you often think about the good memories you guys had together?

    • That’s all I ever think about
    • Yeah, once or twice a week
    • Every now and then
    • Nope
  • Question of

    Do you ever look at his recent girlfriend’s social media accounts?

    • Maybe once or twice in the beginning but not anymore
    • Yeah, I have to see if he’s making the right choices
    • Why would I care
    • Yes, I don’t know how he could do this to me
  • Question of

    Do you fantasize about him asking you out again?

    • I have
    • Ew no
    • Yes, that’s all I would ever want
    • I mean every now and then I feel like I need him back
  • Question of

    Do you still talk about him with your friends?

    • Overtime I stopped
    • Once in awhile
    • I can’t get him out of my head
    • Nah
  • Question of

    Do you still talk and hang out with his friends?

    • We stopped talking
    • Yeah they’re now my best friends
    • I’ll say hi to them here and there
    • Nope once we broke up I don’t even look at them anymore

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Are You Really Over Him?