Emily - Question of
What do other people think of your relationship?
- They think we’re in a toxic situation.
- They wonder why my partner would ever want to be with someone like me.
- They don’t think too highly of my partner.
- They love how much we love each other.
- Question of
Does your partner need to change?
- My partner needs to change a lot. They really need my help.
- I can’t stand my partner at all anymore.
- I love who my partner is, and I’ll support them.
- My partner’s better than me. I’m the one who needs work.
- Question of
Are you jealous?
- I’m super jealous.
- My partner gets crazy jealous.
- We respect and trust each other, no jealousy issues.
- I can’t trust my partner… not after what they did before.
- Question of
Why has your relationship lasted?
- Mutual love, affection, and appreciation for each other.
- My partner’s stability has kept it going.
- I’ve kept it afloat, since my partner is erratic.
- Mutual loathing, at this point, but we’re both too scared to leave.
- Question of
What are you afraid of?
- My partner never growing past what they are today.
- Being stuck with my partner forever.
- My partner leaving me behind for someone else.
- My partner dying.
- Question of
Which fictional couple do you relate to?
- Game of Thrones: I’m Daenerys, my partner is Daario.
- Twilight: I’m Bella, my partner is Edward.
- The Addams Family: I’m Morticia, my partner is Gomez.
- Batman: I’m Harley Quinn, my partner is the Joker.
- Question of
Do you try to work out issues together?
- Yes, we work together to resolve our issues.
- Our issues never get resolved.
- I have to fix the issues, since my partner never does the work.
- I try to please my partner as much as possible, even if it hurts me.
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- Question of
Who pays the bills?
- We have an arrangement we’re both happy with.
- I pay for everything, and I don’t like it.
- My partner pays for everything, and I feel bad.
- We’re both unhappy with our situation for different reasons.
- Question of
Does your partner respect you?
- They worship the ground I walk on, annoyingly enough.
- They despise me, as far as I can tell.
- We both respect each other.
- I doubt it. Why would they?
- Question of
Who initiates sex?
- We both do, together.
- We don’t have sex anymore.
- My partner always waits for me to make the first move.
- My partner has to be the one who starts it.
- Question of
Who is wearing a mask?
- I’m the one pretending to be better.
- My partner isn’t as good as they pretend to be.
- I know who my partner is, and I love them for it.
- I know who my partner is, and I hate, hate, hate them.
- Question of
Who do your mutual friends like better?
- We don’t have friends anymore.
- Our friends like us as a couple, together.
- People always like my partner more.
- People like me, and they just put up with my partner.
- Question of
Does your partner think other things are more important than you?
- They ruin everything.
- We’re very important in each other’s lives.
- I have more important things in my life than relationships.
- My partner has more important things to worry about than me.
- Question of
Is your partner a good person?
- My partner is a much better person than I’ll ever be.
- They’re a horrible person.
- We’re both good people.
- I think they’re okay, but should try harder.
- Question of
Are you attracted to your partner?
- I’m not very attracted to them, mainly because of their low self-esteem.
- I’m not attracted to them at all.
- I’m very attracted to them, and they’re attracted to me.
- I’m attracted to my partner, but I think they could do better than me.
- Question of
Do you trust your partner?
- I try to, but I’m always worried and jealous.
- I don’t trust them at all.
- My partner is too stupid to get anything past me.
- We trust each other.
- Question of
Which of these ways do your arguments tend to end?
- I walk away, and my partner comes crawling back.
- I beg for forgiveness.
- Arguments don’t end, they keep going for days, weeks…
- We find a resolution, together.
- Question of
Where do you see your future?
- I hope my partner stays with me, but I don’t know if they will.
- I see a lot of success in my future, and we’ll see if my partner is still around for it.
- We’ll be happy together, just as we are now.
- I really hope things will be better than the terrible mess they are now.
- Question of
Are you willing to compromise?
- I’d do anything for my partner, even if it made me unhappy.
- We’d work together to find a solution that made us both happy.
- I have to get my way.
- We’d be miserable with whatever ‘compromise’ we made.
- Question of
Does your relationship challenge you?
- We challenge each other in unique ways.
- We hurt each other a lot, not in a good way.
- Nope. It’s too easy.
- Yes, but I think I’m just making my partner worse.
Are You The Reacher Or The Settler In Your Relationship?
