Can I win him back?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Where She Went

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, I’ll Give You the Sun

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How long have you been together?

    • 2-5 Years
    • 6-10 Years
    • 10 Years and above
    • 1-5 Months
    • 6-12 months
  • Question of

    What caused the misunderstandings between you?

    • I fought over him, he warned me not to.
    • I told him i’m getting bored with him, it was a slip of the tongue. But he just blew up
    • I CHEATED! Severally
    • I got too jealous and messed up in the process
    • He caught me hugging a guy friend and began to loose trust in me
  • Question of

    Did he ever forgive you for anything you did?

    • Uhm… most of the time.
    • Yeah always
    • No, I did just once. wasn’t a big deal anyway!
    • We’ve never had a serious matter.
  • Question of

    Does he really love you?

    • I Believe he does, from my study of him
    • UHM… YEA!
    • Yes… Well isn’t the same recently
    • Yes.
    • Yes, I believe. We are not that old.
  • Question of

    What do you think will happen to you both in the next 3 months?

    • Yea! We should be more connected than we are now!
    • Well, still happy!
    • We’ll become a couple maybe
    • I pray we might have reconciled after taking this test, at least I will know my stand.
  • Question of

    When you tell him about going out with your girlfriend(s) he….

    • Says ‘really, I hope so’ and tells you ‘don’t take too long’ with a peg.
    • Starts getting tensed
    • Sometimes he says we have a date at that time.
    • He let’s me go without any complaints
  • Question of

    Why would you love to get him completely?

    • What! We are in love.
    • I believe we are meant to be. We love each other, though challenges show up once a while.
    • Because I love him…. he too!
    • WELL, GOT NO IDEA. But he’s been of help to me, he’s sweet and kind.
    • Well… We’ve been together for to long. We should be used to each other.
  • Question of

    How attentive has he been to you before the misunderstanding?

    • He gives me maximum attention.
    • He gives me 70% of his attention.
    • Yes! He is attentive
    • Veeeery!
  • Question of

    Are you?

    • Physically, emotionally, intellectually, financially fit
    • I know am off when it comes to physical and kind’a slightly intellectual fitness.
    • Physically, emotionally and financially fit
    • Physically, emotionally and intellectually fit
  • Question of

    Do you want to be advised, counsel, or directed? (contact me through email if ‘yes’)

    • YES!
    • I think I do.
    • UHM… FORGET IT, Give me a result.
    • Maybe!
    • Yes, I might but not sure until I see my result
  • Question of

    Are you two currently in contact?

    • Nope!
    • Yes, we interact on social media.
    • We have coffee every once in a while.
    • We’re so close, it’s like we never broke up.
  • Question of

    Who initiates your conversations?

    • He’s blocked my number.
    • Sometimes he initiates, but only late at night.
    • He does.
    • I do.
  • Question of

    Do you ever hang out?

    • Not on purpose
    • Yes, every once in a while
    • If we run into each other, we’ll often get a drink together.
    • We hang out constantly.
  • Question of

    At what time of day does your ex usually contact you?

    • He never contacts me.
    • 2 a.m.
    • It varies. There’s no specific time.
    • Once he gets off work, he barrages me with texts.
  • Question of

    Does he talk to you about other love interests in his life?

    • Yes. He’s made it obvious that he has someone new.
    • No … but I know he has them.
    • No, and I’m sure there’s no one else.
    • Sometimes, but I think he’s just trying to make me jealous.
  • Question of

    When you run into him, how does he act?

    • Cold
    • Mildly embarrassed
    • Incredibly happy
    • Sometimes pleased, sometimes awkward
  • Question of

    How do his friends treat you?

    • They’re rude to me.
    • I don’t really know any of his friends.
    • They’re really nice to me.
    • I think they wish we weren’t together.
  • Question of

    Do you notice him flirting with other people on social media?

    • I can’t tell, since he’s blocked me on social media.
    • Yes. He’s always liking other people’s photos on Instagram.
    • No. But he likes everything that I post.
    • Yes, sometimes I see him going back-and-forth with various people. To tell the truth, we fight about it.
  • Question of

    When you talk about other guys, does he seem jealous?

    • No
    • He seems amused … but I think he’s a tiny bit jealous.
    • He doesn’t act jealous; he acts hurt.
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Did you two have a relatively amicable breakup?

    • No. We had a terrible fight and haven’t spoken since.
    • It was pretty friendly … almost as if we weren’t really breaking up.
    • We both tried to stay civil, but it was really sad.
    • Our breakup was messy AF.

Could you get back together with your ex?

Do you and your ex still love each other?