Can We Guess How Many Times Your Heart Has Been Broken?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What is your ideal first date?

    • Something unusual and exciting, like rock climbing or a private ferry ride
    • Something lowkey and classic, like dinner or a movie
    • Something relaxing and chill, like hanging with friends or a stroll through a park
    • I don’t really date. I just bring a date to events on occasion.
  • Question of

    What kind of show do you binge post-breakup?

    • Investigative reporting or documentaries
    • Reality TV
    • Comedy
    • Sci-fi/fantasy
  • Question of

    How do you spend your mornings?

    • I like to sleep in.
    • I hop in the shower first thing.
    • I play on my phone for a while.
    • I get dressed and ready to start the day.
  • Question of

    How do you deal with stress?

    • I take a self-care day.
    • I push through — every day has stress.
    • I’m not a very stressed person.
    • I talk it out with my friends or family.
  • Question of

    Which Ariana Grande song title do you relate to the most?

    • ‘break up with your girlfriend, i’m bored’
    • ‘thank u, next’
    • ‘no tears left to cry’
    • ‘the light is coming’
  • Question of

    Do you believe in soulmates?

    • I strongly believe in them.
    • I strongly disbelieve in them.
    • I don’t know enough to tell you.
    • I don’t think it matters.
  • Question of

    Who drives when you and an s/o go somewhere?

    • I drive.
    • They drive.
    • We go back and forth.
    • We drive separately.
  • Question of

    If you had to be on a dating show, which would you be on?

    • ‘The Bachelor’ or ‘The Bachelorette’
    • ‘Bachelor in Paradise’
    • ‘Paradise Hotel’ or ‘Love Island’
    • ‘Are You the One?’
  • Question of

    How long were you previously in love with someone?

    • I was in love for several years.
    • I was in love for several months to a year.
    • I was only in love for a few months or less.
    • I don’t know if I’ve ever been in love before.
  • Question of

    What are your feelings about divorce?

    • Similar to my feelings about marriage: not interested
    • It should be the last resort.
    • It happens, and that’s okay.
    • It is completely off the table.
  • Question of

    What is your outlook on love?

    • I’m hopeful.
    • I’m skeptical.
    • I’m just feeling it out as I go.
    • I’m pessimistic.
  • Question of

    Which dating app do you prefer?

    • Bumble
    • I like to meet people in person.
    • Tinder
    • Hinge
  • Question of

    What kind of museum date would you prefer?

    • The science museum
    • The history museum
    • The art museum
    • I don’t like museum dates.
  • Question of

    How old were you when you first joined the dating world?

    • Late 20s
    • Early 20s
    • High school
    • Elementary or middle school
  • Question of

    How many significant others have you had?

    • I’ve seen a lot of people, but I don’t commit often.
    • Six or more
    • Two to five
    • One, or maybe none at all
  • Question of

    What are your feelings toward your ex?

    • Don’t care to see them, but I wish them well.
    • I have a lot of negative feelings toward them.
    • We’re still friends, or at least Facebook friends.
    • Don’t have an ex to feel some type of way about.
  • Question of

    How long does it take you to be vulnerable with someone?

    • A very long time
    • A little bit, initially
    • I’m an open book!
    • Not until I’m confronted, honestly
  • Question of

    Which Taylor Swift lyric do you relate to more?

    • ‘You got that James Dean daydream look in your eye and I got that red lip classic thing that you like.’ — ‘Style’
    • ‘The rest of the world was black and white, but we were in screaming color.’ — ‘Out of the Woods’
    • ‘Cause, darling, I’m a nightmare dressed like a daydream.’ — ‘Blank Space’
    • ‘I’m perfectly fine, I live on my own. I made up my mind, I’m better off bein’ alone.’ — ‘King of My Heart’
  • Question of

    How long has it been since you seriously dated someone?

    • I don’t really actively date, ever.
    • It’s been a few months.
    • Probably a year or two
    • Many, many years
  • Question of

    How do you feel about dating in today’s society?

    • It’s a lot of fun.
    • It is what it is.
    • I don’t like how it is now. I prefer an older time.
    • Dating has been and always will be the worst.

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