Can We Guess If You Prefer Physical or Emotional Attraction?



We, humans, are biological beings and hence at all times, we are attracted to people both physically and emotionally. Physical attraction is more common though since it could even happen for strangers. Though generally there is no problem when it comes to physical attraction it becomes an issue if you are not able to separate it from other feelings. In short most of the time it is misunderstood as love. This is one of the most common misunderstandings that youngsters commonly fall for.

They get into very toxic relationships and waste their life’s most important resources: time, money, and energy. The most important one being time. We have a very short life and if we waste time in these toxic relationships then we are on the path to lead a very unhappy life. Don’t get me wrong I don’t mean that there should not be any physical attraction since it is the primary motive of nature revolves around reproduction. It is in our genes and we can’t ignore it completely even if we wanted to. If you look at the research paper of Harvard regarding love then you would realize that lust and attachment are the components of love.

Emotional attraction is also one of the components of love and a very important one because without it relationships have no meaning once you move towards the late phase of life. We seek emotional security in our partners because they are the ones with whom we could share our darkest secrets. There are many people who don’t realize this fact and have a very sour relationship.

Relationships are one of the most complicated topics on the planet. The best advice I can give you is to avoid it till you are successful in your career. You may have a very fruitful relationship even without you being successful but the point is that one should not take risks because if things go down then you will be having something as a backup. People often underestimate the power of money and it is the greatest mistake one could ever do.

“That’s always seemed so ridiculous to me, that people want to be around someone because they’re pretty. It’s like picking your breakfeast cereals based on color instead of taste.”
― John Green, Paper Towns

“The power of a glance has been so much abused in love stories, that it has come to be disbelieved in. Few people dare now to say that two beings have fallen in love because they have looked at each other. Yet it is in this way that love begins, and in this way only.”
― Victor Hugo, Les Misérables

“I had not intended to love him; the reader knows I had wrought hard to extirpate from my soul the germs of love there detected; and now, at the first renewed view of him, they spontaneously revived, great and strong! He made me love him without looking at me.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre

“I was always attracted not by some quantifiable, external beauty, but by something deep down, something absolute. Just as some people have a secret love for rainstorms, earthquakes, or blackouts, I liked that certain undefinable something directed my way by members of the opposite sex. For want of a better word, call it magnetism. Like it or not, it’s a kind of power that snares people and reels them in.”
― Haruki Murakami, South of the Border, West of the Sun

“Tonight was… well, it was perfect for me too. You’ve turned my world upside down. I’ve fallen in love with you, chica, and it scares the fuckin’ shit outta me. I’ve been shakin’ all night, because I knew it.I’ve tried to deny it, to make you think I wanted you as a fake girlfriend, but that was a lie.”
― Simone Elkeles, Rules of Attraction

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What’s the first thing you notice about a crush?

    • Their looks
    • Their personality
    • Their eyes
    • Their body
  • Question of

    If you were on a date with someone, what would you talk about?

    • My interests and hobbies
    • Their interests and hobbies
    • A discussion about the world
    • Other people or something else
  • Question of

    Would you want to date someone who doesn’t work out?

    • Absolutely not
    • Of course
    • It depends on the person.
    • I’m not sure, maybe.
  • Question of

    Which of these celebrities would you love to go out with?

    • Megan Fox
    • Emma Watson
    • Leonardo DiCaprio
    • Chris Pine
  • Question of

    What would you buy for your significant other on Valentine’s Day?

    • Flowers
    • Handmade card
    • Chocolate
    • Lingerie set
  • Question of

    Would you describe yourself as an affectionate person?

    • Not really
    • Absolutely
    • Somewhat, yes
    • Only in bed
  • Question of

    Would you rather date someone who is wealthy or kind?

    • Wealthy
    • Kind
    • Ideally someone with both of these qualities
    • Neither one matters to me
  • Question of

    Do you think that you’re a confident person?

    • Yes, definitely
    • Not really
    • A little bit
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    Have you ever been in a romantic relationship before?

    • Yes, but it didn’t last long
    • Of course
    • It was … complicated.
    • Nope, never
  • Question of

    Does humor matter to you in a relationship?

    • It matters a little bit.
    • Yes, it definitely matters to me.
    • It depends on the type of humor.
    • Nope, not at all
  • Question of

    Are you the type of person who likes to talk about their feelings?

    • I like to be more subtle about this.
    • Yes, I love talking about my feelings.
    • It depends on who I’m talking to.
    • Nope, not at all!
  • Question of

    What do you like to compliment people on?

    • Their cute outfits
    • Their fun sense of spirit
    • Their intellect
    • A specific feature of their body
  • Question of

    Does the word “commitment” scare you?

    • Yes, I hate that word.
    • No, why would it?
    • It depends on the type of commitment.
    • I don’t mind short-term commitments …
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10, how important is sex to you in a relationship?

    • 8
    • 4
    • 6
    • 10
  • Question of

    Do you like to watch or read romantic stories?

    • I like romantic movies.
    • I like romantic novels.
    • I like both of these things.
    • Nope!

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