Can We Guess If Your Love Is Healthy for You?

 

 

Boanthropy

This is one of those weird disorders where the one suffering from it believes oneself to be a cow and goes to the extent of behaving and living like a cow. There are several people like this who sit on all fours in fields and eat grass with an actual herd of cows. This disorder is considered a sort of hypnotism by researchers as the ones who are acting like cows are in a trance unaware of what they are actually doing. This disorder seems to be referred in the bible where King Nebuchadnezzar is described as being “driven from men and did eat grass as oxen.”

Capgras Delusion

Capgras Delusion is a condition where one believes that the people around them are replaced by imposters. The name comes from the French psychiatrist Joseph Capgras who was very fascinated by the misconception of doubles. What makes this disorder scary is that the person also believes that the imposters want to harm that individual, in which they case they wont only defend to protect themselves but also attack the ones around them. This is a very rare condition and is seen in people suffering from a trauma or brain injury or those who have been diagnosed with dementia, schizophrenia or epilepsy.

Clinical Lycanthropy

A condition a lot like Boanthropy, Clinical Lycanthropy involves individual believing they can shape shift into animals like wolves and werewolves. The belief is so rigid and rooted that they go to the extent of acting like animals and are often found hiding or living in forests or places such animals can be found.

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.”
― Robert Fulghum, True Love

“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.”
― Anais Nin


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How many of your close friends are happily married?

    • Most of them
    • A few
    • Almost none
    • Some are married. Happily? Only they know!
  • Question of

    What character flaw do you need to work on most?

    • I forget to say ‘no’ because I want to help, then get spread too thin.
    • I have a temper.
    • I’m flaky.
    • I’m a total doormat, and I know it.
  • Question of

    If you ask your partner nicely to do something small but slightly inconvenient, what are the odds that they will do it?

    • 90%
    • 75%
    • 40%
    • I would not ask them to inconvenience themselves, nor would they.
  • Question of

    When was the last time your boo did something nice but mundane for you, just because (e.g., fold all your laundry without asking, make dinner for both of you, etc)?

    • Today
    • This week
    • This season
    • I don’t remember.
  • Question of

    How often does your partner speculate aloud about leaving you?

    • As a joke or a nightmare they had? Once in a while.
    • A few times a year
    • Oh, we both know this won’t last.
    • Whenever I give them a reason
  • Question of

    Have the two of you gone through some things together?

    • You name it, we survived it. Job loss, health issues, death of loved ones …
    • One or two things
    • Not yet
    • Yes, and we broke up temporarily.
  • Question of

    Do you absolutely trust your partner around your child or pet?

    • Of course! They are my co-parent/owner in all things!
    • Yes, as long as we agree on the rules.
    • Generally, yes. They might be a little irresponsible for long stays, though.
    • Well, they can be a bit irritable, so maybe taking care of children or animals is not the best idea.
  • Question of

    Do you ever snoop through each other’s phones?

    • We know all the passwords, but I don’t know or care whether they snoop.
    • Once in a while, for fun
    • I totally would if I could.
    • No, if you look at their phone, it means you are untrusting, and that isn’t true love.
  • Question of

    How do you feel about your partner’s best friend’s influence?

    • Most of our friends are mutual, so fine.
    • Mostly OK, except that one guy
    • All their friends are awful.
    • I don’t know their friends.
  • Question of

    How do you feel when you’re just chilling at home with your partner?

    • Calm and happy
    • Pretty comfy
    • Mostly happy but sometimes a little excited, but I’m not sure if it is in a good or bad way.
    • A little nervous
  • Question of

    How often do the two of you spend special time together, like going on a date or just setting aside an hour to snuggle?

    • Weekly or more
    • A couple of times a month
    • Monthly or so
    • Rarely
  • Question of

    If your partner has a problem with something you did, how do you hear about it?

    • They tell me nicely, as soon as they can.
    • They try to ignore it but then tell me later.
    • They passive-aggressively avoid me, then mutter.
    • They shout at me, sometimes in public.
  • Question of

    How often do you argue?

    • Regularly but never with shouting!
    • From time to time
    • I don’t think we can be bothered.
    • Daily if I don’t make an effort to keep the peace
  • Question of

    What were the relationships like in the home where you grew up?

    • Harmonious and kind
    • Pretty warm with occasional shouting
    • Erratic
    • Non-existent
  • Question of

    Which movie do you think depicts a desirable relationship?

    • Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet in ‘Pride & Prejudice,’ but only at the end once they’ve grown up a bit.
    • It’s perverse, but I’m going with ‘The Addams Family.’
    • ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ depicts a great couple!
    • Weirdly enough, the lead couple in that ‘Neighbors’ movie with Seth Rogen and Rose Byrne.
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