Do I Have A Chance With Her?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, I’ll Give You the Sun

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Where She Went

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you think that she likes you? Be honest!

    • Yes, I do – I just want another opinion
    • Yeah, kind of
    • I’m not sure
    • No
    • Not at all
  • Question of

    How much do you like her?

    • I like her a lot. I really hope she likes me, too
    • I like her, but not a crazy lot or anything
    • We’re good friends, and there might be something else there
    • We hang out sometimes
    • I don’t really know her, but she likes me
  • Question of

    Does she talk to you often?

    • Yeah, at school and out, all the time
    • Yeah, at school a lot
    • Yeah, sometimes
    • No, just every once in a while
    • No, like I said, I don’t know her
  • Question of

    What do you talk about?

    • Pretty much anything – she’s my best friend
    • A lot of stuff – our interests, school, etc.
    • Mostly just school stuff
    • Homework assignments
    • We don’t talk
  • Question of

    Do you find her attractive?

    • In every way!
    • She’s pretty
    • I guess I do
    • I suppose – maybe
    • Not really
  • Question of

    Do you ever catch her looking at you?

    • Yeah, all the time
    • Yeah, but I don’t know if it’s just friendly
    • Yeah, but we’re just friends
    • No, not really
    • No
  • Question of

    Does she ever ask you to do stuff?

    • Yeah, we hang out a lot
    • Yes, sometimes
    • No, we really just hang out at school
    • No, we aren’t friends
  • Question of

    Does she smile when you’re around?

    • Yes, and she makes me smile, too
    • Yeah, she usually does
    • I don’t really know
    • She usually looks angry
  • Question of

    Does she ever touch you?

    • Yes, she always puts her arm around me
    • Yes, we hold hands a little, and little stuff like that
    • Only accidentally
    • Not really
  • Question of

    Does she mind when you touch her?

    • No, she returns the gesture
    • No, she smiles, but seems unsure how to respond
    • I’m not sure
    • She seems pretty weirded out
  • Question of

    Do you ever do things for one another, as favors or just to make the other one happy?

    • Yes, all the time – it feels good to make her happy
    • We know we can depend on each other
    • Not really – we aren’t that close
    • No, but I’d like to
    • We don’t know each other
  • Question of

    Is she comfortable around you?

    • Yes, she loves being close to me, especially when I rub her back
    • Yes, we are at ease when we hang out
    • I’m not really sure
    • She seems a little nervous or unsettled
    • We aren’t ever together
  • Question of

    How much do you know about her?

    • Most everything – I feel like I’ve known her forever
    • A lot, but there’s probably a lot still to learn
    • Some stuff, like what classes she takes and who she hangs around with
    • Not much at all besides what she looks like
    • Nothing
  • Question of

    Does she know a lot about you?

    • Yes – I would trust her with all my secrets
    • Yeah, she knows a good deal
    • She knows as much as most people do
    • We really don’t talk very often
    • She knows almost nothing
  • Question of

    Can you each tell how the other feels?

    • Yes, all the time
    • Yeah, sometimes
    • Only when it’s really obvious
    • Not really
    • No

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