Do you have a chance with your crush?



“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Have you ever kissed your crush?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Does your crush have any other boyfriends/girlfriends?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Do you LOVE your crush?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Does your crush LOVE you?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Do you meet once every two weeks?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Do you have any other boyfriends/girlfriends?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Have you dreamed about your crush?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Are you afraid of seeing your crush?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Do you share your darkest secrets with your crush?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Are you 10 or under?

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    How did you meet?

    • At school or work
    • Through a dating app
    • Through mutual friends
    • Through a very litty hobby
  • Question of

    Is he single?

    • Not yet!
    • I don’t know!
    • It’s complicated.
    • Boy makes a point of mentioning it every time I see him.
  • Question of

    Have you two ever kissed?

    • No
    • No, but we send each other NSFW messages.
    • Yes
    • We’re kissing on the regular.
  • Question of

    Do you two chill one-on-one?

    • No, only in groups
    • Yes, but only late at night, if you know what I mean.
    • No, but we’ve been talking about doing something like that soon.
    • Yuh, that’s totally our vibe.
  • Question of

    When you’re together, how often does he check his phone?

    • Basically the whole time
    • Every 15 minutes or so
    • Once an hour
    • He doesn’t look at it unless it buzzes!
  • Question of

    You post a thirst trap on Instagram. He … ?

    • Doesn’t do anything
    • Likes it
    • Leaves a flirty comment
    • DMs you immediately
  • Question of

    How many times a day does he text you?

    • Never, unless I’ve been texting him.
    • Once or twice (around 2 a.m.)
    • Three times a day
    • All. Day. Long.
  • Question of

    Does he tell you that you smell good?

    • No. But if I smell rank, he points it out.
    • Yuh … when he gets close.
    • Yup, if I’m wearing perfume.
    • All the time, fam!
  • Question of

    What do you two usually talk about?

    • We haven’t had many one-on-one conversations.
    • We don’t exactly ‘talk.’
    • We talk about memes we both like (and there’s a lot!).
    • E V E R Y T H I N G. We’re like best friends.
  • Question of

    Do your friends think he likes you?

    • No, but IDGAF.
    • They think he likes ‘certain things’ about me.
    • The fam can’t decide!
    • BET.
  • Question of

    When you complain about other guys sliding into your DMs, does he act jealous?

    • (Sigh.) Not. At. All.
    • No, no matter how much I talk about it!
    • Sometimes
    • Yeah, he’s big jealous.
  • Question of

    You show up for a night out wearing something racy. He … ?

    • Doesn’t notice
    • Says, ‘You look like a snack’
    • Makes a point of talking to you all night
    • Says, ‘Marry me! Just kidding. Maybe.’
  • Question of

    When you’re around, does he flirt with other people?

    • … Yes.
    • I don’t want to talk about it. ????
    • He did once, then I mean-mugged him and he cut it out. ????
    • Absolutely not.
  • Question of

    Has he ever left you on read?

    • Yes. If he actually responds, I’m shocked.
    • Yeah, but I still like him!
    • He doesn’t do that often because he knows I’ll get salty. ????
    • That boy would never!
  • Question of

    If you got a flat tire, would he show up and change it for you?

    • Not in a million years, bruh.
    • Nope. Dude would tell me to call AAA.
    • Yes, if he wasn’t already at work.
    • In a heartbeat!
  • Question of

    Has he ever told you that he thinks you’re smart?

    • Nah. More like the opposite. ????
    • Nope, and I’m salty about it!
    • Yes, he’s said that a couple times.
    • Bruh, he tells me I’m smart and amazing every. Single. Day.
  • Question of

    Does he hug you a lot or offer you massages?

    • No. I offered him a massage once, but he turned it down!
    • No on the hugs, yeah to the massages …
    • If we’re chilling together, we’re cuddling.
    • Yuh. He wants to ‘relieve’ my ‘stress.’
  • Question of

    Are there other people that he’s interested in?

    • OMFG, yes.
    • Yes. But just thinking about that makes me feel shook.
    • IDK. I hope not!
    • Haha, not at all.
  • Question of

    Does he start text conversations with you or does he just reply to your texts?

    • He’s never initiated a chat with me.
    • He DMs me, but only when he wants something.
    • We text each other an equal amount.
    • He contacts me more than I contact him.

Do Your Crush And You Have A Chance?

Do you have a chance with your crush?