Do I miss my ex?


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Did you argue a lot?

    • Sometimes.
    • We had periods of arguing.
    • Every single day.
    • Only about important stuff.
  • Question of

    What about your ex drove your craziest?

    • Their lies.
    • Their sneaky behavior.
    • Their cockiness.
    • Their laziness.
  • Question of

    Have you moved on from your ex?

    • Yup! I’m in a good relationship now.
    • I’ve dated a little.
    • I moved on before I left.
    • I’m not so sure.
  • Question of

    Choose a word that describes your ex in the morning:

    • Grumpy.
    • Chipper.
    • Idiot.
    • Overachiever.
  • Question of

    Do they ever talk about you?

    • I don’t know
    • No:(
    • Sometimes
    • Yes, all the time!
  • Question of

    Have you guys ever talked since you broke up?

    • I wish
    • No
    • Yes!
    • All the time
    • Once or twice
  • Question of

    Do you ever catch him looking at you?

    • Yes!
    • Like once
    • Nope
    • All the time
  • Question of

    Do you text him?

    • He texts me only
    • Yes, is that bad?
    • I want to
    • No I blocked him/he blocked me
  • Question of

    Do you ever bring them up?

    • No
    • Sometimes
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Do you want to get back with them?

    • No
    • Sometimes I think about it
    • Of course I do!
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Why are you taking this quiz?

    • I don’t know
    • I’m bored
    • Because I miss them
    • Because I want to know if I miss my ex
  • Question of

    Do you have dreams about them?

    • Yes
    • No
    • All the time
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    Do you think you miss them?

    • Yes
    • I don’t know
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you like this quiz?

    • Yes
    • It was fun
    • No
  • Question of

    How many times has your ex sent you a drunk text?

    • A few times.
    • Once.
    • Every time they get drunk.
    • Every day.
  • Question of

    Was your ex controlling?

    • No, but they were clingy.
    • A little.
    • Extremely.
    • Not really.
  • Question of

    Would you consider reuniting with your ex?

    • Maybe someday.
    • No, it wasn’t right.
    • No way.
    • There’s no point in going back.
  • Question of

    Was your ex romantic?

    • Yes, my ex was romantic.
    • That’s hilarious! No.
    • Not really.
    • My ex was romantic when they wanted something.
  • Question of

    Why did you break up?

    • Different lifestyles.
    • Job moves.
    • My ex is a jerk.
    • Some things are not meant to be.
  • Question of

    What did you like most about your ex?

    • Confidence.
    • In retrospect, I didn’t like much about my ex.
    • Ambition.
    • Sex.

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