Do I Still Love My Ex?

 

“He loved her for almost everything she was & she decided that was enough to let him stay for a very long time.”
Brian Andreas

“Through my love for you, I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity, and all beings. By living with you, I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth… This is the real message of love.”
Thich Nhat Hanh,

“Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart.”
Christina Westover

“I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“That’s why I loved being with you. We could do the simplest things, like toss starfish into the ocean and share a burger and talk and even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn’t constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me. And nothing else mattered– not my family or your family or anyone else in the world. It was just us.”
Nicholas Sparks,

“You like every one; that is to say, you are indifferent to every one.”
Oscar Wilde,

“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere.”
Tim McGraw

“Rejection is an opportunity for your selection.”
Bernard Branson

“He wasn’t the type for displays of affection, either verbal or not. He was disgusted by couples that made out in the hallways between classes, and got annoyed at even the slightest sappy moments in movies. But I knew he cared about me: he just conveyed it more subtly, as concise with expressing this emotion as he was with everything else. It was in the way he’d put his hand on the small of my back, for instance, or how he’d smile at me when I said something that surprised him. Once I might have wanted more, but I’d come around to his way of thinking in the time we’d been together. And we were together, all the time. So he didn’t have to prove how he felt about me. Like so much else, I should just know.”
Sarah Dessen,

“Annabeth,” he said hesitantly, “in New Rome, demigods can live their whole lives in peace.”
Rick Riordan,

“You fit into me
Margaret Atwood

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
Mandy Hale,

“I won’t telephone him. I’ll never telephone him again as long as I live. He’ll rot in hell, before I’ll call him up. You don’t have to give me strength, God; I have it myself. If he wanted me, he could get me. He knows where I am. He knows I’m waiting here. He’s so sure of me, so sure. I wonder why they hate you, as soon as they are sure of you.”
Dorothy Parker,

“When God knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.”
Joshua Harris,

“We ruined each other by being together. We destroyed each other’s dreams.”
Kate Chisman,

“You Can’t Lose Something You Never Had”
Kate G. Hudson

“Don’t worry about hurting me, if that’s what you’re afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.”
Katie Kacvinsky,

“Perfectly Imperfect
Steve Maraboli,

“If you’re trapped in the dream of the Other, you’re fucked.”
Gilles Deleuze

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Who ended the relationship?

    • It was all me
    • It was him
    • It was mutual
    • It was me! I couldn’t stand him!
    • I got mad at him and dumped him
  • Question of

    After you guys broke up, did you ever text him again?

    • Yes. I really missed him
    • Of course not
    • He texted me first and I didn’t want to be rude
  • Question of

    Do you ever see him? What happens?

    • I never see him
    • I see him everywhere and we smile and wave
    • Sometimes I see him. We don’t talk
    • Sometimes I see him. We smile and wave
    • Yeah. We hang out all the time
  • Question of

    Is he in a relationship currently?

    • No
    • Yes. They are in love
    • No, he can’t get over me
    • He likes this girl
  • Question of

    Are you in a relationship?

    • Yes, but just to make my ex jealous
    • Yes, and I love him
    • No. I miss my ex
    • No. I haven’t found the right guy yet
  • Question of

    You see your ex walking with his new girlfriend. You:

    • Get extremely jealous and leave immediately
    • Say hi and talk with them
    • Trip his girlfriend so she’ll fall
    • Turn my head and talk with friends
    • I don’t care
  • Question of

    How long has it been since you two broke up?

    • Days ago
    • Weeks ago
    • Months ago (1-12)
    • Years ago (1-20)
  • Question of

    Why did you guys end the relationship?

    • We argued a lot
    • I cheated on him/He cheated on me
    • We didn’t love each other
    • Feelings for different people
    • Why don’t you ask him? I don’t know
  • Question of

    His friends come up to you and they:

    • Talk about my ex and me
    • Tell me my ex misses me
    • Tell me my ex has a new girlfriend
    • They don’t really talk to me
    • They don’t bring him up
  • Question of

    Whenever you see your ex, you:

    • Get really nervous and have butterflies in my stomach
    • Feel angry
    • Feel sad
    • Are happy he was able to move on
    • Stare at him intently for awhile
  • Question of

    How many times has your ex sent you a drunk text?

    • A few times.
    • Once.
    • Every time they get drunk.
    • Every day.
  • Question of

    Was your ex controlling?

    • No, but they were clingy.
    • A little.
    • Extremely.
    • Not really.
  • Question of

    Would you consider reuniting with your ex?

    • Maybe someday.
    • No, it wasn’t right.
    • No way.
    • There’s no point in going back.
  • Question of

    Was your ex romantic?

    • Yes, my ex was romantic.
    • That’s hilarious! No.
    • Not really.
    • My ex was romantic when they wanted something.
  • Question of

    Why did you break up?

    • Different lifestyles.
    • Job moves.
    • My ex is a jerk.
    • Some things are not meant to be.
  • Question of

    What did you like most about your ex?

    • Sex.
    • Confidence.
    • In retrospect, I didn’t like much about my ex.
    • Ambition.
  • Question of

    Did you argue a lot?

    • Sometimes.
    • We had periods of arguing.
    • Every single day.
    • Only about important stuff.
  • Question of

    What about your ex drove your craziest?

    • Their lies.
    • Their sneaky behavior.
    • Their cockiness.
    • Their laziness.
  • Question of

    Have you moved on from your ex?

    • Yup! I’m in a good relationship now.
    • I’ve dated a little.
    • I moved on before I left.
    • I’m not so sure.
  • Question of

    Choose a word that describes your ex in the morning:

    • Grumpy.
    • Chipper.
    • Idiot.
    • Overachiever.

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