Do you deserve another chance?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Would you be committed in a relationship with him/her

    • no not at all
    • well i don’t know i think it would be best if we just be friends
    • yes, totally
  • Question of

    You just dumped your boyfriend how do you feel?

    • Lonely.
    • Dumb and confused why you did it in the first place.
    • Over it, he wasn’t a good bf in the first place.
  • Question of

    How many times have you dated.?

    • Five and up.
    • Two or three at the most.
    • Once.
  • Question of

    How much do you think about him now that you’re over?

    • At least five times a day.
    • Barely ever.
    • I haven’t even heard from him sine the breakup
  • Question of

    Your ex calls you what do you do?

    • Answer it just like anyone else. He’s just another friend.
    • Press ignore. If it’s important he will call back.
    • Sneak a smile and squeal silently
  • Question of

    If your ex was a piece of candy he would be a what?

    • A skittle.
    • A hot tamale!
    • A plain old chocolate bar.
  • Question of

    When you talk to some of his friends how’s the atmosphere?

    • His friends keep they’re distance but still talk.
    • They hit on you like no one cares.
    • They act like your still dating their friend.
  • Question of

    How well did you and your ex connect?

    • We were like sole mates.
    • We were close but sometimes things got awkward.
    • We were best friends
  • Question of

    Now when you see him how do you feel?

    • You get butterflies like when you first met.
    • Everything feels normal.
    • Awkward.
  • Question of

    Do you think your ex may still have feelings for you?

    • I don’t know. I ignore him.
    • I wouldn’t be able to tell we talk the same.
    • Not sure but he still calls me babe like nothings different.
  • Question of

    Do you still like him?

    • I don’t feel anything any more.
    • Yes.
    • I’m not sure.
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    How would you describe him/her

    • a mean person who is a cheater and a liar
    • an awesome person that i love!
    • a good person i guess
  • Question of

    Has he/she ever cheated on you?

    • no, he/she has been faithful
    • not that I know of, but he/she seems like the type of person that would
    • yes, I have proof but he/she personally won’t admit it
    • yes, and he/she has admitted it
  • Question of

    Has he/she ever lied to you? (anything about cheating doesn’t count for this question)

    • yes, and I can proove it but he/she has not admitted yet
    • yes and he/she admitted it
    • not that I know of but he/she seems like a dishonest type of person
    • no, he/she is always honest
    • yes and he/she has admitted it but it was about something small
  • Question of

    Has he/she ever physically hurt you?

    • once but he/she apologized and never did it again
    • yes many times
    • yes many times. He/she always apologizes later, but he/she never means it
    • no
  • Question of

    Why did you break up with him/her

    • Because he/she cheated on me and/or lied to me about something big
    • because I don’t have feelings for him/her anymore
    • because he/she has hurt me many times
    • because he/she is mean and/or a jerk
    • two of these reasons
    • all of these reasons
  • Question of

    How much do you still have feelings for him/her?

    • a lot! I still love them
    • a little bit i guess
    • not at all
  • Question of

    Have you already given him/her another chance?

    • no i’m trying to decide if I should go out with him/her for the first time
    • yes, i’m taking this quiz to see if i should give him/her a third one
    • no only one so far and he/she is saying they’ve changed but I don’t know if I should buy it
    • Yes i’ve given them three chances. Both times we broke up he/she said they changed, but both times when i tried to get back together, he/she was still the same person

Do you hate him or miss him

Are you heartbroken? (GIRLS ONLY)