Do You Focus Too Much On Your Love Life & Not Enough On Your Personal Life?


“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“We know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all, for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.”
Albert Einstein

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How do you communicate with your friends on a regular basis?

    • Face Book
    • SMS
    • Phone
  • Question of

    When your relationships end how do the people close to you act?

    • Distant and cold
    • It’s as if I never left
    • Concerned with how I’m handling the break up
  • Question of

    Where is the best place to meet that special someone?

    • Dating apps
    • Random places, like a cafe
    • Work
    • Beats me
  • Question of

    Do you have any crushes that you want to tell us about?

    • Maybe
    • I have a few.
    • I’ve got one crush.
    • I’m not crushing on anyone right now.
  • Question of

    What does true love entail for you?

    • Power
    • Adventures
    • Peace of mind
    • Happiness
  • Question of

    Which of these relationship values is kind of overrated?

    • Security
    • Honesty
    • Communication
    • Humility
  • Question of

    How would you describe your future wedding?

    • Fun and colorful
    • Exotic and unique
    • Traditional
    • Non-existent
  • Question of

    If you could retire early, what would you do with all that extra free time?

    • Play a bunch of video games
    • Sleep
    • Start a new business
    • Go on vacations
  • Question of

    What type of house would you want to share with a significant other?

    • Tree house
    • Townhouse
    • Château
    • A regular house
  • Question of

    Would you consider dating someone who lives overseas?

    • Sure, long-distance dating sounds fun.
    • Most likely not
    • No way! That’s too far.
    • Only if they were the love of my life
  • Question of

    Who’s the first person that you would introduce your crush to?

    • My parents
    • My BFF
    • My entire family
    • No one
  • Question of

    How many relationships have you been in thus far?

    • None
    • One
    • Two
    • Three or more
  • Question of

    When in a relationship how much time do you usually spend with your friends?

    • I give time to my friends on a regular basis
    • I spend a lot of time with my friends
    • I spend a little time with my friends
  • Question of

    What do you do if your significant other is going to hang out with their friends the whole weekend?

    • Spend the weekend pampering and refreshing yourself
    • Catch up with your friends as well
    • Sit at home and wait for them to call you
  • Question of

    You made plans months ago to reconnect with old friends tonight but your significant other just got some amazing front row seats to a concert you know you can’t miss. You…

    • Blow off the friends, you can catch up with them tomorrow.
    • Decline to go to the concert
    • Invite the friends to go with you and your significant other to the concert, even though you probably aren’t going to be able to sit together.
  • Question of

    You are going to an event where your BFF and your BF/GF will be in attendance. Problem is, they can’t stand each other. What do you do?

    • Don’t go to the event
    • Try to convince one not to go
    • Act as referee and try to have fun
  • Question of

    When in a relationship how much time do you spend with that person each week?

    • Everyday
    • 1-2 days/week
    • 3-5 days/week
  • Question of

    When in a relationship how often do you pamper yourself?

    • Multiple times/month
    • All the time
    • Not much
  • Question of

    Do you spend more time on-line and/or with your significant other more than anyone else?

    • No
    • Yes
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    When you’re in a relationship and you neglect your friends they should…

    • Write me off as a friend
    • Give me a hard time but give me another chance
    • Be there for me no matter what

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