Do you have a good boyfriend or girlfriend?

 

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves


Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he/she hold your hand in public?

    • No… is that a bad thing?
    • Sometimes
    • Yes,
  • Question of

    How did they first tell you that they love you?

    • Over text/call
    • In person… it was so sweet:)
    • We haven’t said I love you yet
  • Question of

    How often does he/she compliment you?

    • Pretty much never
    • All the time
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    How often do you go on dates?

    • We haven’t gone on our first date yet
    • Not often… but we do see each other pretty much everyday
    • All the time
  • Question of

    Does he/she hug you in public?

    • Yes
    • Sometimes
    • No
  • Question of

    Has she/he ever hurt your feelings?

    • Yes, but that was before we were dating
    • No
    • Yeah…:(
  • Question of

    Do you guys have an inside joke?

    • I don’t know
    • Nope
    • Yeah
  • Question of

    How long have you been dating? (This doesn’t count towards your answer)?

    • Less than 3 months
    • Over 3 months
    • I don’t really keep track
  • Question of

    Do you REALLY like her/him?

    • Uh huh
    • My feelings change quite often
    • Kind of having second thoughts about them…
    • Um YES
  • Question of

    Did you enjoy this quiz?

    • Totally!
    • Sure
    • Give me my fricking answers
  • Question of

    If you are talking about something you don’t like about yourself, for example your hair, what will he do?

    • He will ignore you or try to change the subject.
    • He will laugh.
    • He will say something nice about it or you to make you feel better.
    • He will get really annoyed.
    • He will tease you about it later
  • Question of

    Ok, you are in class and for some reason you start to cry. He:

    • ignores it
    • doesn’t have the guts to make you feel better but is mad at the people who are mean about it
    • tries to make you feel better
    • calls you a sissy for crying or is a jerk about it
  • Question of

    Does he ever give you a cute shy smile?

    • no
    • yes
    • rarely
    • sometimes
  • Question of

    If some girls are talking bad about you does it make him mad?

    • yes
    • no he doesn’t care
    • maybe
  • Question of

    Whenever you mention another boy he:

    • doesn’t care at all
    • pretends not to care but really does
    • changes the subject or ignores you
    • gets sad about it and its obvious he is
  • Question of

    Does he compliment you?

    • yes a lot
    • no never
    • sometimes
  • Question of

    Does he remember things that happened to both of you or or things you told him about your life?

    • yes most of the time
    • no not really
    • sometimes
    • GRRRRRR
  • Question of

    Is he shy around you sometimes?

    • ya (so cute
    • no hes too much of a jerk
    • no hes just not like that
    • only sometimes
  • Question of

    Is he ever mean to you?

    • yes 🙁
    • no way
    • sorta
  • Question of

    Is he ever protective over you?

    • no hahahaha
    • yes and its sweet
    • yes but its annoying
    • not really
  • Question of

    What color hair does he have? (no effect)

    • brown
    • blonde
    • red
    • black
    • its dyed a weird color
    • other

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