Do you really love them?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, Where She Went

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, I’ll Give You the Sun

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Are you sure about you feelings towards them?

    • Not at all
    • Absolutely
    • I wish I was
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Have you gotten emotionally hurt by them before?

    • Yes many times
    • Rarely
    • Never
  • Question of

    What are you thinking when you’re with them?

    • Do I really love them
    • I wish I could kiss him/her
    • You’re such a weirdo
  • Question of

    How much do you talk to them?

    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • I wish I did
    • I never stop talking to him/her
  • Question of

    What do you think about saying to them?

    • I wish I could kiss you
    • I love you
    • I hate you weirdo
  • Question of

    What do you feel about love?

    • Unsure
    • No clue
    • Warm
  • Question of

    Does it feel like time goes by in an instant when you’re with them?

    • 2 hours
    • Like 2 seconds
    • 4 days
  • Question of

    Have you kissed them?

    • So many times
    • Once or twice
    • Not really
    • In my mind
  • Question of

    How long have you known the person?

    • My whole life, it seems.
    • A few weeks
    • A few years
    • A few months
  • Question of

    How often do you think about them?

    • All the time
    • I spend quite a bit of time with them on my mind.
    • I don’t keep track.
    • When I see them
  • Question of

    What is your favorite thing about them?

    • Everything
    • Their body
    • Their sense of humor
    • I don’t know.
  • Question of

    Which of these traits is something you dislike about them?

    • Nothing
    • Their impulsivity
    • Their temper
    • They can be annoying sometimes.
  • Question of

    Which of these words best describes them?

    • Sweet
    • Hot
    • Cute
    • Confident
  • Question of

    What did you do the first time you saw them?

    • I almost died.
    • I was in shock.
    • I stared for a few seconds.
    • I smiled at them.
  • Question of

    What would you do if you heard that they liked you?

    • I would throw a party.
    • I would kiss them.
    • I would ask them out.
    • I don’t know what I would do.
  • Question of

    How does the person make you feel about yourself?

    • Confident
    • Excited
    • Happy
    • Indifferent
  • Question of

    Why aren’t you dating that person?

    • I don’t know.
    • I’m busy.
    • Who said we aren’t dating?
    • I’m into someone else.
  • Question of

    How often do you talk about that person?

    • Too often, I’ve been told.
    • Quite a bit
    • Not that much
    • Not at all
  • Question of

    How much do you think about them?

    • Always and I can’t stop
    • Rarely
    • Sometimes
    • Never
  • Question of

    Do you smile at their texts?

    • I always will
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Ewww never
    • Yes of course

Are You Falling In Love?

How in love are you?