Do you think that the person you might be in love with is compatible with you?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do they have a history of fetishizing people or aestheticize them? ( These are both bad things )

    • I haven’t talked to them yet
    • Only once they did it
    • They do it all the time
    • NO!
    • A couple times they did it
  • Question of

    Are they in a toxic fandom and toxic?

    • (Other type of fandom) and nice
    • Toxic fandom and a bit toxic
    • Toxic fandom but nice
    • I haven’t talked to them yet
    • Yep…
  • Question of

    Are they in love with another person?

    • I have no idea
    • A wee bit
    • Nope!
    • Yes?
    • Possibly
  • Question of

    Do they have a bad personality?

    • I have no idea
    • It’s bad but they still have good in them
    • A perfect mix
    • Yes…
    • Nope! Not at all!
  • Question of

    Here’s the big question now, Do you have any interest in them?

    • I still have it in me
    • I lost some of it
    • I lost it a long time ago
    • I lost it recently
    • I’m losing it
  • Question of

    What trait is most important to you in a soulmate?

    • I need someone fun.
    • I think honesty is important.
    • I think communication is important.
    • I think openness is invaluable.
  • Question of

    Where would you like to go on vacation with a soulmate?

    • I would love to visit the Australian outback.
    • I would like to visit Napa Valley.
    • I would like to visit Ireland.
    • I think I would like to see Europe.
  • Question of

    What gift would you bring on a first date?

    • I would bring flowers.
    • I would bring a book.
    • I would bring chocolates.
    • I would bring jewelry.
  • Question of

    Have you met your soulmate?

    • I’m not sure.
    • No, I don’t think I have.
    • I think so, but who knows?
    • Yes, we are very happy!
  • Question of

    What is your current relationship status?

    • Single.
    • Married.
    • Engaged.
    • It’s complicated.
  • Question of

    Which romantic movie would you want to watch with your soulmate?

    • ‘Pretty Woman.’
    • ‘Eat Pray Love.’
    • ‘Titanic.’
    • ‘Sleepless in Seattle.’
  • Question of

    Which name would you choose for a new family pet?

    • Sammy.
    • Angel.
    • Marley.
    • Crinkles.
  • Question of

    If you were to marry your soulmate, what wedding theme would you choose?

    • I like the beach theme.
    • I like a princess theme.
    • I like rustic themes.
    • I would love an 80s themed wedding.
  • Question of

    Which kind of flowers would you like to get from your soulmate?

    • I like poppies.
    • I love roses.
    • I love daisies.
    • Any flower will do for me!
  • Question of

    What kind of music should your soulmate like?

    • My soulmate should love metal.
    • My soulmate should love dance music.
    • My soulmate will need to know country.
    • They can like any music they want.
  • Question of

    Do you hope to have children with your soulmate?

    • No, I have enough children.
    • It depends on our careers.
    • I can’t wait to start a family.
    • We will have a great blended family.
  • Question of

    Which celebrity do you hope your soulmate resembles?

    • I hope my soulmate looks like Jennifer Aniston.
    • I hope my soulmate looks like Jared Leto.
    • I hope my soulmate looks like Johnny Depp.
    • I hope my soulmate looks like Katy Perry.
  • Question of

    What meal would you cook for your soulmate on a first date?

    • I would make poached salmon.
    • We would order Indian.
    • I would make pot roast.
    • I would make steak.
  • Question of

    Which drink must your soulmate know how to make?

    • Margaritas would be a bonus!
    • They must know how I take my coffee.
    • They must know how to make tea.
    • The must know how to make eggnog.
  • Question of

    What type of vacation would you take with your soulmate?

    • We might go on a mountain climbing adventure.
    • We would go to the spa.
    • We would take a cruise.
    • Would we go for a couple’s retreat.
  • Question of

    What would you do to keep your soulmate healthy?

    • I would make healthy meals.
    • I would make sure they don’t have too much stress.
    • I would nag them to drink water.
    • We would work out together.
  • Question of

    What is the best reason you have for wanting to meet a soulmate?

    • I need companionship.
    • I need love.
    • I need to give love.
    • I need partnership.
  • Question of

    What board game would you like a soulmate to play with you?

    • I’m great at Scrabble.
    • I love the game Life.
    • I’m a fan of Candyland.
    • I love playing Chess.
  • Question of

    Which word do you find most romantic?

    • Betwixt.
    • Smitten.
    • Cherish.
    • Adore.
  • Question of

    How would you sign a love letter to your soulmate?

    • Forever Yours.
    • Sincerely.
    • All My Love.
    • I Love You.
  • Question of

    Do you have anything in common with them?

    • Yes, I have a lot in common with them!
    • No, I don’t have anything in common with them
    • Yes… a bit
    • I haven’t talked to them yet so I don’t know…
    • Yes, I have some things in common with them
  • Question of

    Do they have a history with cheating?

    • Yes, they cheated a lot/haven’t talked to them
    • They almost did
    • Nope! They are loyal!
    • They have cheated quite a bit
    • Only once
  • Question of

    Do you have a bad history with them?

    • Nope!
    • Sadly, yes
    • I haven’t talked to them yet
    • A bit
    • Well, kind of
  • Question of

    Are they likable to be around?

    • Yeah?
    • Somewhat, no
    • I haven’t talked to them yet
    • Hell no
  • Question of

    Are you sure they like you back?

    • Maybe
    • Yes?
    • Haven’t talked to them yet
    • Yes!
    • NO!

Crush or soulmate?

Couple Compatibility Quiz