Do you want to date him?

 

“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How do you act around him?

    • Normal
    • Overly social
    • SUPER TENSE
    • Sweaty hands, nothing else
  • Question of

    He does he act?

    • Stares at me before asking me to sit with him at lunch
    • Smiles at me
    • I don’t know or normal
    • Casually tries to talk with me
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes you?

    • Oh yeah
    • A little
    • So out of my league
    • Um No
  • Question of

    How much do you like him?

    • A lot a
    • Dude, so much
    • A little
    • Just a tiny bit
  • Question of

    Do you stay away thinking about him

    • Um, no!
    • Every night
    • Half and half
    • Rarely or sometimes
  • Question of

    Do your friends know?

    • No, they would freak!
    • I gave them hints here and there
    • Yes
    • No, but I want to tell them so bad
  • Question of

    If yes, how did they react?

    • ‘Oh my gosh we knew all along! I so ship it.’
    • Did not tell them
    • ‘Yeah we kind of got it.’
    • ‘Sorry, don’t ship it.’
  • Question of

    How to you treat him?

    • Nicely and with respect
    • Don’t talk
    • Little nice, little flirty
    • Flirty!
  • Question of

    How does he treat you?

    • With respect and he treats me like a princess
    • He is sometimes nice, a little flirty
    • Flirty!
    • We don’t talk
  • Question of

    Are you ready to talk to him?

    • Aiming for this week!
    • Maybe, maybe not
    • Oh no of course not
    • On the tip of my tongue
  • Question of

    What’s your ideal first date?

    • Coffee or some other setting where we can get to know one another.
    • Something special that they planned with me in mind.
    • Hot air balloons. And concerts. Maybe a road trip.
    • Classic dinner and a movie are fine.
  • Question of

    What would you say is your best quality?

    • I’m a great relationship-builder.
    • I care deeply about others.
    • I’m excited about life.
    • I’m logical and great at planning.
  • Question of

    Which trait is most important to you in a partner?

    • Willingness to put in effort
    • Thoughtfulness
    • A sense of adventure
    • Rational decision-making
  • Question of

    It’s time to meet your partner’s family for the first time. How are you feeling?

    • I’m nervous; it’s important to me that we have a good relationship.
    • I’m okay; I’d do anything for my partner.
    • I’m good! I love meeting new people.
    • I’m okay. We’ve been planning this for a while so I could brace myself.
  • Question of

    Which physical aspect is most attractive to you in a partner?

    • Arms
    • Eyes
    • Smile
    • Shoulders
  • Question of

    How do you want to spend your first anniversary with your partner?

    • Going back and repeating our first date
    • It doesn’t matter, as long as they’ve planned something thoughtful.
    • On a new, crazy adventure!
    • A quiet, classic celebration together is fine.
  • Question of

    How do you feel about marriage?

    • Great, as long as we have a great connection.
    • Good, as long as the people in our lives approve.
    • It depends on the day.
    • If we’d been together for a long time and weighed our options, I’d be open to it.
  • Question of

    Your partner brings home a small surprise at the end of the day; you love it. What’s the surprise?

    • Flowers
    • Wine
    • A dog
    • Chocolates
  • Question of

    Your partner asks what you feel like doing this weekend. What’s your answer?

    • We should go on a hike and spend time alone together.
    • Let’s spend our time volunteering.
    • Let’s go skydiving. Or fly cross-country.
    • A nice weekend on the couch sounds good.
  • Question of

    How long do you tend to date someone before moving in?

    • It depends; a couple of years​ if the relationship feels solid.
    • No less than a year
    • A few dates, at least
    • Probably not until after marriage

Am I Ready to Start Dating? (Accurate For Girls)

Are you ready to start dating?