Does he deserve you?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Has he ever gone a day without acknowledging you?

    • Maybe, don’t remember.
    • NO, HE WON’T STOP SAYING HI.
    • Yes, sadly.
    • Well no, I guess not!
    • He NEVER acknowledges me.
  • Question of

    Do you even like this guy?

    • Yep, a little.
    • Nope, I am taking this because I was bored.
    • I don’t know, my feelings aren’t settled.
    • Yes, with all my heart.
    • Yes, I am in love with this guy.
  • Question of

    How much does he know about you?

    • Name, Age, Race, etc.
    • He knows my favourite things.
    • He knows my first name, I think…
    • He’s knows everything about me!
    • He knows my secrets, and has never told another soul!
  • Question of

    Do you think he deserves you?

    • Yeah, why not!
    • We deserve each other, definitely!
    • I suppose, maybe not.
    • Well, of course. He means so much to me and I think he feels the same!
    • No, he’s a jerk. But I just can’t stop falling for his clever tricks!
  • Question of

    Does he ask your friends about you?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Is he interested in anybody else? I mean, do you have any doubt?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Is he warm and friendly towards you?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he seem jealous if you talk to other guys?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he ever reminisce with you about the times you’ve shared?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Has he returned everything to you from when you were dating? Ie. Gifts, cards etc.

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he find reasons to talk to you whenever he can?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Has he apologised to you for his part in the break up?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he ever ask you about your romantic life?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he seem a little awkward when the two of you talk?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Is he nice to you?

    • I’m not so sure…
    • Yes, he is a friend of mine. <3
    • He doesn’t speak to me: o
    • No, he’s such a jerk:(
    • Somewhat:|
  • Question of

    Does he compliment you?

    • Never really.
    • Nah, he’s not the kind of guy to give out compliments I think.
    • Maybe once or twice a week.
    • He doesn’t talk to me..!
    • Yeah, a lot of them
  • Question of

    If you fell and/or dropped your stuff, he would:

    • Point, laugh, and walk past me.
    • Pull me up, pick my stuff up and give it to me.
    • Ask if I needed help or if I was okay.
    • Check if I had bruises, carry all my stuff, and give me a piggy back ride.
    • Hm, I don’t know.
  • Question of

    Is he a friend?

    • More than a friend 😉
    • Yes, a best friend.
    • He probably doesn’t know I exist.
    • No, an acquaintance.
    • No, an enemy:)))
  • Question of

    Does he ever boast about you to anyone?

    • I don’t know.
    • To everyone!
    • Maybe.
    • Not at all.
    • Sometimes.
  • Question of

    Has he ever confessed some sort of attraction?

    • Kind of, sort of, maybe, probably:)
    • He said he liked me. or his friends said that he liked me.
    • He said he was in love/ with me <3!
    • He said he loved me, as a friend.
    • No, he hates me.

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