Does He Like Me Back?

 

“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

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    He looks at me!

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    He knows your parents.

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    He compliments you!

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    He tells you ‘hi’ a lot!

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    He might ask you on a date.

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    He’s winked at you.

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    He’d call you anytime?

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    He’d send flowers your way.

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    Does he ever try to make you laugh?

    • Yeah, all the time!!
    • Yeah, so much that it gets kinda annoying cuz he’s not that funny
    • Sometimes, but he’s just a funny person in general
    • Occasionally
    • Not really. When he’s around me he doesn’t really say anything
    • I wish
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    Do you ever catch him staring at you?

    • Yes
    • Yeah, a lot. But then I look back and he looks away
    • I think i did once
    • no
    • sometimes i imagine him staring at me
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    How does he try to get your attention?

    • By saying hi
    • by asking me a question/making a comment about something that happened in class
    • By saying something funny
    • by kicking/something else slightly violent
    • He doesn’t try to get my attention
    • Other
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    How smiley is he?

    • He smiles all the time at everyone including me
    • He smiles quite often when I’m with him. I don’t know how much he smiles when I’m not around, cuz, obviously, I’m not there to see
    • He smiles at a lot of stuff I say, but he’ll laugh at other things, too
    • He smiles rarely, so it’s very special and cute
    • I’ve seen him smiling at other people a lot, but when I’m with him he usually doesn’t seem overly happy
    • He is depressed and suicidal. At least whenever I see him
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    Do you two text?

    • Yes, he usually starts it
    • Yes, I usually start it
    • Yes, it’s split evenly between who starts it
    • Occasionally, when I/he has something important to say
    • We have each other’s numbers, but no, we don’t text
    • No. (answer next question for the reason)
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    If you answered no to the previous question, answer this. Otherwise, just skip it.

    • One/both of us doesn’t have a phone
    • I don’t have a phone. He has asked for my
    • Neither has ever asked for the others number
    • Cuz he wouldn’t want to text me
    • Other
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    Does he ever give you stuff?

    • Yeah, simple stuff like pieces of food or pencils
    • Yeah, he buys me stuff/brings stuff especially for me
    • Occasionally he’s given me thing or two such as food he didn’t want.
    • Yeah, his garbage kinda as a joke
    • No.
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    Okay, does he know you exist? Please answer honestly.

    • Definetely! We talk every day
    • Yes. I’ve talked to him a lot and we have classes together
    • I hope so. He’s in some of my classes
    • I think he knows my name, but other than that…
    • No. I’ve never talked to him and we have no classes together
    • He might know I exist. I don’t know
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    When you hand him something…

    • I always brush against his hand. It’s really soft
    • He tries to grab my hand
    • I’ve felt his hand once or twice. But that’s cuz I made the effort 🙂
    • I’ve never touched his hand. He hands things to me carefully at a distance
    • I don’t give him stuff, so I never get the chance
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    Does he seem embarrased around you?

    • yeah, he’s all shy and blushing. He’s just a shy person in general, though
    • Yes. He doesn’t say much, which is unusual cuz he’s usually really talkative
    • Maybe a little bit
    • No, he’s totally himself
    • I don’t talk to him
    • I’m not really sure
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    What do your friends think?

    • They keep telling me he likes me, but I’m not convinced
    • They think he only likes me as a friend
    • They’ve never seen the two of us together
    • He acts different whenever my friends are with me, so they don’t have a correct opinion
    • They haven’t said anything. I haven’t asked, though
    • They think he doesn’t like me 🙁
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    What about other girls?

    • He has a girl friend 🙁
    • He has a girlfriend, but he’s told me he wants to break up
    • He flirts with other girls occasionally.
    • He talks to other girls. Not that flirty, though
    • I’m the only girl he talks to
    • He doesn’t talk to any girls. Not me, either

Does He Like You Back?

Does he like me back?