Does He Really Like Me?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    First of all, when do you see this boy and how often?

    • Umm, do hallways count?
    • We have one or two classes together, but that’s about it
    • We have one class together/We don’t have any classes together, but we’re friends
    • All the time! We have more than one class together, and we’re friends
  • Question of

    Do you ever notice him looking at you? Then what happens?

    • There was once when he was asking me a question!
    • Yeah I do! A lot! And then I look at him and he doesn’t even look away OR he looks and smiles!
    • Yes, sometimes – I know for a fact that he does!
    • Are you kidding? I wish
  • Question of

    Has he ever spoken to you?

    • Once or twice
    • He’s never spoken to me. DARN!
    • Sometimes he speaks to me, but we don’t talk a whole lot
    • Yes – sometimes, I think he makes excuses to talk to me (sits down by me, etc.)
  • Question of

    Now, does he ever call you?

    • He did once to ask me about homework/No, but he doesn’t know my email address or phone number
    • All the time!
    • Sometimes
    • No, and he KNOWS my phone number and email address!
  • Question of

    Has he ever complimented you?

    • Um. He laughed at me once – in a mean way, too!
    • My hair, my face – duh! Lol!
    • Nah, but he hasn’t laughed at me, either!
    • You know, he did once!
  • Question of

    Has he ever looked at you when you/he walked into a room?

    • He did once when I walked into the room
    • Yep! He did this at least ONCE AND HE was the one that walked into the room after me!
    • I haven’t noticed
    • DEFINITELY not
  • Question of

    Do you THINK he likes you?

    • Maybe a little
    • Definitely
    • Honestly, no
    • Ehhhh
  • Question of

    What is his ‘label’?

    • Sort of close to mine. We have a few differences. EXAMPLE: You – Prep/girl next door. HIM- jock/guy next door
    • Same as mine!
    • NO C0MMENT
    • UMM…we’re really different, but that’s OK with me
  • Question of

    Has he ever hinted or told his/your friends that he likes you?

    • BOTH!
    • Nah, but he DID flirt with me…:-)
    • No
    • One of the two/No, but he’s shy
  • Question of

    Has he ever asked you out?

    • NEVER….
    • NO WAY
    • Yep. HEHE!
    • Nah
  • Question of

    Has he ever borrowed something of yours or loaned you something of his?

    • His jacket, homework, lots of stuff
    • He borrowed something of mine before, and then gave it back to me in a mean way
    • No
    • His pencil, if that counts, lol
  • Question of

    Do you get along with him?

    • Yeah, but we’ve never really had a chance NOT to get along with each other
    • We’re like peanut butter and jelly, but better
    • He kind of doesn’t agree with me on stuff
    • Not really
  • Question of

    Does he have a girlfriend?

    • YEP!
    • NOPE.:-):-):-):-)
    • I’m not sure, but I don’t think so
    • He just broke up with someone
  • Question of

    Does he have a nickname for you?

    • Nah
    • ‘Beautiful’
    • No, but he mocked me once when I laughed – sweetly
  • Question of

    Has he gone out with one of your best friends?

    • No
    • Yes, but a couple of years ago
    • Yes, but she said it was OK that I like him
    • They’re dating now!
  • Question of

    In the hall or somewhere outside of class, does he ever look at you, talk to you or smile at you?

    • Looks and smiles/Looks a lot
    • Looks
    • ALL THREE!
    • None of these
  • Question of

    Does he ever make an excuse to sit by you?

    • We have assigned seats
    • Yes, a lot
    • No
    • We don’t have classes together, like I said
  • Question of

    Have you ever held hands with him?

    • No
    • No, he’s holding my best friend’s hand!
    • Heck no…but he might
    • Yes…lol….It was so cute!
  • Question of

    Has he ever made a rude remark to you?

    • Nope
    • NO
    • Umm, yeah
    • Maybe
  • Question of

    FUN QUESTIONS! Has he ever said something like one of THESE to you?

    • One of them
    • No
    • YESSS!

Does he like me back? Test for middle school girls

Does he like me back? 10-15