Does He Secretly Have A Crush On Me?

 

“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde Little Women

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake The Lucky One

“When you say “I” and “my” too much, you lose the capacity to understand the “we” and “our”.”
Steve Maraboli, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, Heart of the Matter

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, I Had a Dream About You

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.”
Shannon Alder, I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does he touch you often?

    • I need go throw up
    • Yeah, he kissed me before!
    • Yeah, everyday, almost
    • I don’t know
    • I don’t think so
  • Question of

    Does he look at you when you’re not looking?

    • No.
    • Sometimes.
    • All the time.
    • Only when I look at him.
  • Question of

    When you talk to him, where does he look?

    • I guess at my boobs.
    • My eyes.
    • My mouth.
    • Away.
    • We never talk.
  • Question of

    Has he ever touched you? As in touching your leg, arm, hand, hair, face, etc.?

    • Every now and then.
    • Yeah.
    • Nope.
  • Question of

    Do you think he likes to meet you?

    • I am not sure if it’s because of me but he seems happy whenever I meet him.
    • Yes, a lot.
    • No, he shows no such signs, just seems normal.
  • Question of

    Are you good friends?

    • Yeah, we can talk about anything.
    • Not really.
    • We’re best friends.
  • Question of

    Does he have a girlfriend? Or did he make one ever since you two got to know each other?

    • No!
    • I don’t know.
    • Yes!
  • Question of

    Does he flirt with you?

    • Not really.
    • Yes!
    • Once or twice.
  • Question of

    What do you two talk about when you are with him?

    • I don’t talk much, he does keep talking about random stuff.
    • About each other.
    • We don’t talk much when we are together, very little.
  • Question of

    Does he call you beautiful, gorgeous, etc.?

    • Non-stop.
    • Never.
    • Once.
  • Question of

    How do you mostly communicate with each other?

    • We text a lot.
    • We talk over phone a lot.
    • Face to face a lot.
  • Question of

    Have you ever caught him looking at you when he thinks you don’t notice?

    • Sometimes
    • I never notice that, if he does
    • Never!
    • Why would he look at me?
    • Yes, all the time!
  • Question of

    Does he pick on you a lot?

    • If he dares!
    • I don’t care if he does
    • No – he’s always TOO nice to me!
    • I don’t know
    • Yeah, more than with any other girls
  • Question of

    Does he flirt with other girls right in front of you?

    • What does it have to do with me?
    • Yeah, all the time!
    • None of my business!
    • No, he’s always flirting with me!
    • I don’t care if he does!
  • Question of

    Does he do weird things to you sometimes (like ask you weird questions, examine your face, etc.)?

    • I don’t remember
    • I’ll punch him in the face if he ever does!
    • No, he wants to look normal
    • He’s just weird like that
    • Yeah
  • Question of

    Does he act weird around your friends?

    • He never goes near my friends
    • Yeah
    • I don’t know
    • No
    • I wouldn’t ever let him do that!
  • Question of

    Is he trying to get your attention?

    • Eww, that thought grosses me out!
    • He doesn’t need to ’cause we’re madly in love
    • I don’t know
    • I never knew he would do that!
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    Do his friends sometimes start laughing when they see you?

    • Yeah, and that kinda drives me crazy
    • I am gonna punch them, too!
    • They all know the truth, so nobody cares
    • I never noticed that
    • I don’t know, ’cause a bunch of people laugh at me!
  • Question of

    Do little kids sometimes talk to you about him (especially his younger siblings)?

    • Yeah, they are always trying to find connections between us
    • I hate little kids!
    • Yeah, but they just make us annoyed
    • Don’t really know what you’re talking about
    • I thought they just liked me and were talking to me!
  • Question of

    Do his parents look at you longer than they do other girls?

    • Then they are two big jerks, too
    • Yeah, especially his mom
    • I don’t know who his parents are!
    • I never see them do that
    • They already know about us!

Do You Have A Crush? (Middle Schools GIRLS only!)

Does your crush like you?