Does He Still Like Me?


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, Mythology

Marty McConnell The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, Looking for Alaska

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Your guy hasn’t been hanging around you lately.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Your guy has been hanging around other girls too much.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Your guy hasn’t been using your nickname anymore.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Your guy isn’t interested in what you do.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Your guy has stopped coming to special events about you.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Your guy has stopped complimenting you.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Your guy has been spotted a lot with one girl that isn’t you.

    • True
    • False
  • Question of

    Who broke off or ended what you had?

    • I did. I thought he was interested in someone else, and I couldn’t handle it
    • I did. I was angry at the time but now I want him back
    • He did. He said he wasn’t ready to be in a relationship
    • We weren’t really together, it just kind of fell apart
    • No one broke it off. It was always only going to be for a short time as he was leaving
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    When you see each other, does he acknowledge you?

    • Yes, he goes out of his way to talk to me every time
    • He acknowledges me from a distance but won’t come up to speak to me
    • Sometimes he comes over and talks to me, and other times he ignores me completely
    • I don’t see him at all, he’s not here anymore
    • Once in a while he awkwardly acknowledges me but most of the time he doesn’t
  • Question of

    Is he with anyone else right now?

    • Yes and they are always together
    • Yes, I saw a picture of them on Facebook that she had tagged him in
    • There is a girl he hangs out with quite a bit, but I don’t think they are together
    • No I don’t think so. Girls are always trying to get his attention though
    • No. No one has seen him with anyone else
  • Question of

    Does he like your posts on social media?

    • Yes, everytime and he comments on them too telling me how great I look
    • Sometimes, and when he does he often leaves a friendly comment
    • He likes mine, but he also likes all the posts this other girl puts up
    • Yes, he likes my posts as well as a lot of pictures I am tagged in. But he doesn’t comment on them and he doesn’t write me
    • Never. Once a year on my birthday he posts a birthday message on my wall
  • Question of

    Is he still friendly to your friends?

    • No, he completely ignores them
    • Yes, but not overly so
    • Sometimes, but only when I am around
    • He is quite friendly to them and asks them about me
    • He is very friendly and goes out of his way to do things for them
  • Question of

    Has he ever asked if you want to hang out sometime and catch up?

    • Yes and he finds lots of excuses for us to be in the same place
    • Not really, though he did invite me to a party he threw at his house
    • Yes, but I also often see him talking to another girl
    • No, we live in different countries now
    • No he has never shown interest in wanting to hang out
  • Question of

    Does he remember things that are special to you?

    • No, he doesn’t even seem to remember our song
    • I don’t know. It’s hard to say since he’s not around anymore
    • Yes, sometimes he brings me my favorite coffee from the coffee shop
    • Yes, he bought me the new bestseller from my favorite author as a ‘late birthday present’
    • All the time. He sent a bouquet of flowers to my house the other day for no reason at all
  • Question of

    Does he still wear the shirt or cologne you gave him?

    • Yes, he wears the cologne all the time
    • Yes he wears them. He said he’s never been any good at shopping for himself
    • Once in a while, but when I point it out he seems embarrassed
    • Yes he does. I’ve seen photos
    • No, I’m not even sure he has it anymore
  • Question of

    If you see him with a girl, how does he react?

    • He doesn’t even acknowledge me
    • I’ve only seen him in pictures with her, never face to face
    • He gets a little awkward and starts treating me like one of his friends
    • He introduces her to me as a friend
    • I’ve never seen him with another girl
  • Question of

    If you are really honest with yourself, has he ever done anything to make you think he is still interested?

    • Not really, but maybe he is just too proud to show it
    • Yes, I think he would want to see me again
    • Yes but he gives a lot of mixed signals
    • Sometimes, but then other times he is a little distant
    • Yes, he seems very interested

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