Does My Current Boyfriend Still Care? (middle schoolers)

 

“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, I’ll Give You the Sun

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Where She Went

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How Often do you hang out as of now?

    • Rarely.
    • Every day!
    • Almost every day. Like, we miss just 1-2 days a week.
    • We haven’t hung out in a long time:(
  • Question of

    Does he ever talk to you in school?

    • Sometimes
    • Constantly, I’m surprised we’re not in trouble.
    • Rarely
    • Never
  • Question of

    Is his presence to you at school different than it used to be.

    • We don’t have any classes together, so we are not around each other.
    • A ton, he used to walk and talk to me in the halls, now he just zooms right past me and bumps into me.
    • There has been a slight difference, I can tell, but not too much
    • No, he has always been so loyal
  • Question of

    Does he say ‘I love you,’ or any romantic terms?

    • Yes, and he says it many times so I can understand
    • Yeah, like 1 time a century!
    • He says them, but not too much, only when necessary
    • Nope, never has never will
  • Question of

    Is he loyal to you, or does he seem to choose other girls to do things with and for him?

    • I have seen him flirting with other girls every now and then.
    • Never! Why would he do that to me?
    • COME OVER AND DO THAT WITH ME BOY NOT HER! That’t my every moment of every day.
    • I don’t know.
  • Question of

    Does he ever make plans with you, for say on your anniversary brings you to the movies?

    • Yes, we have done this a few times.
    • Yes, we spend every day doing things. We don’t make plans, we just go do it!
    • We have made a few small plans like hanging out, but he cancels them at the last minute.
    • We don’t make plans.
  • Question of

    Does he do simple things like opening a door for you?

    • Yeah, I haven’t touched a door in years thanks to him! (:
    • Whenever he is not too tired.
    • I mean, he has a few times….
    • Nope, I feel like I have to do that for him!
  • Question of

    How much does he text you? Does he respond to your texts?

    • We don’t text often because he barely ever responds.
    • We text constantly, he always responds!
    • We don’t text, we never shared any contact info
    • We text sometimes, he takes a few minutes to respond though.
  • Question of

    Does he cuddle with you?

    • Sometimes we do.
    • Nope, we do NOT…
    • Yes, every time we hang out!
    • I think we don’t do it much anymore…
  • Question of

    How long have you been dating?

    • A few days, not even a month. (Choose if you are not dating, but why are you taking this test if you are not dating)?
    • A few months.
    • At least a year (choose this if you have been dating for at least a year, but could be more).
    • Like a few weeks, maybe a month.
  • Question of

    Does he ask your friends about you?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Is he interested in anybody else? I mean, do you have any doubt?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Is he warm and friendly towards you?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he seem jealous if you talk to other guys?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he ever reminisce with you about the times you’ve shared?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Has he returned everything to you from when you were dating? Ie. Gifts, cards etc.

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he find reasons to talk to you whenever he can?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Has he apologised to you for his part in the break up?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he ever ask you about your romantic life?

    • Yes
    • No
  • Question of

    Does he seem a little awkward when the two of you talk?

    • Yes
    • No

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