Does My Male Crush Like Me, Too?


“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, Little Women

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde Lullaby

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake The Lucky One

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Heart of the Matter

“No matter how much you love someone, you still want to have you own way.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, I Had a Dream About You

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.”
Shannon Alder, I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How does he react when you catch him staring at you?

    • He looks away quickly
    • He looks away
    • He doesn’t look at me
    • He smiles
    • He smiles and waves
  • Question of

    Does he try to be around you? Like, sit near you, stalk you, be around you, try to talk to you? Or do you hardly see him?

    • He is nice and kind to me. We’ve talked casually, but nothing more
    • He is my best friend. We do almost everything together and talk all the time!
    • He does all of that and more! I see him everywhere
    • I hardly see him. We don’t talk or sit by each other, and he doesn’t stalk me
    • I see him all the time, and he sits by me – but we’re too shy to talk
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    Have you ever touched in any way?

    • Kinda hardly
    • Yup, to the extreme!
    • No
    • Innapropro… 0-o
    • Yeah…we held hands and I touched his arms or feet…small stuff like that
  • Question of

    Do you think this quiz is long and has a lot of questions, but you are desperate because you can’t get thoughts of him out of your mind?

    • The quiz is long, but in no way do I have a dirty mind about him
    • Yeah, I think about him, but not inappropriately. No comment on length of quiz
    • I think about him tons, including thoughts I know I probably shouldn’t be thinking
    • The quiz is long, but no, my mind doesn’t work that way!
    • I think about him often. As long as this quiz is accurate, I have no problem with it
  • Question of

    Trust me, I know how you feel. I’m a teen, and am having these same feelings at the moment! So, currently, how many crushes do you have?

    • More than three, but fewer than 10. I’m not that perverted!
    • The one and only love of my life, whom I have loved for what feels like uncountable years
    • None -_- I’m just talking this quiz for no reason.
    • Like, two or three
    • Uncountable*
  • Question of

    Does he seem to be everywhere you are all the time?

    • Mostly
    • Sadly, no
    • A lot! (EVERYWHERE [almost])
    • Kinda
    • Quite often
  • Question of

    What’s your reason for wanting to know whether he likes you or not?

    • I want to marry him
    • I want him to like me so we can become s*xually active, and yeah
    • I just wanna mess with his brain, lol
    • I want to become friends
    • I want to date
  • Question of

    Has he ever asked you out?

    • No, but we hang out
    • Yup, we are dating!
    • He’s never even talked to me
    • A long time ago, but I refused
    • Once, does that count?
  • Question of

    Do you think of him before you fall asleep at night?

    • Every night, it seems
    • Sometimes
    • Often
    • Never
  • Question of

    Are you his friend on every social media platform you have found him on? Did you Google his name to find out more about him?

    • NO! O-o Creepiness….
    • Some of them…never Googled him, but thanks for the idea!
    • Yeah, I’m friends with him on everything, but I’ve never Googled him. That’s just rude
    • Yup. And I even Googled and found him!
    • Uh, no. Only on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook. NEVER searched for him on Google
  • Question of

    When he comes around, you:

    • Stare at him when he walks by and get that happy feeling inside
    • Follow him!
    • Don’t care
    • Talk to him casually
    • Ignore him and look in the opposite direction, but get butterflies in my stomach
  • Question of

    A quick question – don’t take this the wrong way! So far, this quiz is:

    • Boring
    • WAY too long just to find out if he likes me
    • No comment, and can we continue the quiz, please?
    • Pretty good
    • CRAP. >: P
  • Question of

    Has he ever:

    • Smiled at you from a mile away, practically?
    • Talked dirty about you?
    • Sat by you in math when his normal seat is with all his guy friends was completely across the room? (happened to me)
    • Remembered some of your personal information when talking to you?
    • Never interacted with you? (Or none of these)
  • Question of

    Have you ever:

    • Had him over?
    • None of these
    • Had him find out you like him?
    • Dated him/kissed him?
    • Gone to his house?
  • Question of

    Have you ever told him any of your secrets or joked around with him? Have you ever flirted with him? Has he ever complimented you?

    • NO, no, YES, no
    • Yes, yes, no, no
    • No, no, no, no
    • Yes, no, no, yes
    • Yes, yes, yes, yes
  • Question of

    AND THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION THAT TELLS YOU IF YOUR CRUSH LIKES YOU: How often, if ever, does he look at or stare at you – and if you catch him, how does he react?

    • He stares at me a lot, and when I look at him, he smiles and blushes
    • He never looks at me or stares at me – or if he does, I never catch him
    • Gotta think for a sec….Well, he looks at me sometimes, and when I catch him, he doesn’t care
    • He stares at me a lot, and when I look at him, he smiles and looks away quickly
    • He stares at me, I look, he smiles, I smile, and we’re all good
  • Question of

    Have you ever had ‘inappropriate’ dreams, or daydreams, about him?

    • NEVER
    • Daydreams
    • Sometimes
    • Dreams
    • Yes, all the time
  • Question of

    Have you ever been alone together or met outside where you see him normally (i.e., outside of school or church)?

    • Yeah, just hanging out casually
    • Nope
    • I can’t remember any times
    • Yeah, we date
    • At each others’ houses
  • Question of

    Do you try to be around him a lot? This might make it kind of obvious that you like him and make him feel creeped out (if you are there for no obvious reason). Instead of just ‘being there,’ get involved in the activities so you have reason to be around him.

    • Of course, but I never looked at it that way
    • Quite often
    • Nope
    • All the time, but I am always involved in what’s going on
    • Sometimes, but not often
  • Question of

    Ask yourself again – if you end up in a relationship with him, what’s the point of it? What’s the reason you want to know if he likes you?

    • I …. I have a guy addiction
    • I want to be friends
    • No clue
    • I dunno. I’m just curious and want to get it off my mind
    • I want to date!
  • Question of

    Finally, do you think he knows that you know that he knows that you know that he knows that you know that he knows that you know he likes you? Does he think that you know that he thinks that you know that he knows that you think that he knows that you like him?

    • Yes and no, or no and yes
    • Wtf!
    • Yes, and yes. I have no clue what you said, but whatever
    • No, and no.:(
    • Last question, just hurrying through!
  • Question of

    First, to know how he reacts to you, we have to know how you react to him and what type of girl you are. You are:

    • Loud, outgoing, talkative, friendly (basically everybody’s friend)
    • Never talk at all, always sit in the back at school/church/social places
    • Shy, reserved, don’t talk very much in school/church/social places
    • Talk a little more than I should, overly-friendly and sometimes flirtatious
    • Casual, nice and friendly. Talk every once in a while to friends and sometimes to my crush
  • Question of

    Next, I need to know if you’ve ever spoken to your crush. Whether he knows you’re there – i.e., in his face a lot – or doesn’t even know you’re alive can affect how he reacts toward you. You have:

    • I can’t even try. I blush and stutter…no way have I talked to my crush – though I’d like to
    • I talk to him every once in a while. Mostly about casual stuff – you know, school/church/social-related matters
    • He tries to talk to me, but I shut down. Although I try, I can’t seem to think of anything to talk about with him. I just gaze at his wonderfulness….
    • I talk to him all the time, basically about everything! Not to mention, he likes to talk a lot, too – but yeah
    • How could I not talk to him! He’s my freakin’ best friend!
  • Question of

    Now we know what type of girl you are and whether/how often you talk to him. So – when you see him in class/on social media/at church, do you make an attempt to be near him, around him, or to sit with him? This can affect his reaction to you, depending on whether he likes you or not.

    • I attempt to be near him without making it too obvious
    • I sit by him a lot, and talk to him
    • I sit by him every second of every minute! He’s my best friend!
    • I sit by him sometimes, and pretend nothing is up. Sometimes I even touch him
    • I never sit by him. I just gaze at him from across the room – and when he looks at me, I blush or look away quickly
  • Question of

    Silly question, but necessary. Do you like him? And if so, do you think he likes you? The way you act around him affects what he thinks of you.

    • Yes, I like him. But no, I don’t think he likes me, sadly
    • I have no clue
    • I have no idea whether he likes me or not, but I certainly like him
    • No, I don’t like him, and am kind of wondering why I even took this quiz! I am trying to find out whether he likes me or not – that’s why I’m here
    • Yes, I like him! Of course he likes me, too!
  • Question of

    Are you/have you ever been sexually active? Do you have a bf, or have you ever had one?

    • I am not sexually active. Saving that for marriage – but I do have a bf
    • I am not sexually active and do not have a bf
    • Of course I am, to satisfy my desires…but no, I don’t have a bf
    • I guess you could kinda say I am…but I don’t have a bf
    • Of course I am, but with my current bf
  • Question of

    Is/has your crush (been) sexually active? Does he have/has he had a gf?

    • I don’t know, but he does have a gf
    • Yeah, he is…with his gf
    • No way! But he doesn’t have a gf
    • No way! But he does have a gf
    • I have no clue. He’s single
  • Question of

    I also need to know your age range. Age makes a difference in the thoughts of males. Again, this is mainly for teens/ preteens/college. You are:

    • 14-16
    • 10-13
    • 16-18
    • 18-21
    • Over 21
  • Question of

    Why do you like your crush? *Necessary to know how you react around him to know how he reacts around you.*

    • His looks caught my eye
    • I love his character, virtues and beliefs – not to mention how he treats me…:) Looks don’t matter so much
    • His smile/his eyes/his flirtatiousness
    • Because he’s ADORABLE and HANDSOME!
    • He’s popular, tall and has the most wonderful physical characteristics
  • Question of

    Does this guy you like gaze at you from time to time?

    • An awful LOT!
    • Yes!
    • Sometimes
    • No

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